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writes:I'm 20, with a girlfriend (lets call her K). We've been dating for 7 months and a month ago began a long distance relationship. I love her to death and she acts the same way towards me. If anything I think she cares more. Never would I assume she would do anything wrong to me, but she gets a lot of attention from guys espeacilly ex boyfriends and it worries me. She tells me nothing is going on and she doesn't even keep more contact than the occasional hello. I felt inclined to trust her until I noticed on her email she had kept in contact more than just a hello with 2 different exes, both of which she had relations with a month b4 she met me. Does her hiding this make her guilty of something or is she just trying to avoid me getting angry that she keeps contact?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): I am in a similar situation myself, I've been seeing someone for 7 months and trust him (as much as I'm capable of trusting anyone!) but I found out recently that he's been in contact with his ex, who has made it clear she wants him back. I was given some advice (on here) and followed it. I spoke to him, explained how it made me feel that I didn't want to try to control who he speaks to but that it was making me very unhappy. He understood, was very apologetic and, as far as I'm aware, ceased all contact with her. Good luck and best wishes.
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reader, roxy1  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 my advice is just come out and ask her but not in an accusing way and see what her response is like, your be able to tell for yourself by her response.
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