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how do i deal with this fear that she is trying to break me and my bf up?

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Question - (29 July 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 July 2007)
A female Australia, anonymous writes:

The other night I went out with my bf and his work friends. One of his work friends brought his gf who has a bad drinking problem (she got caught drink driving a number of times and has now lost her lisence, not to mention she drinks excessivly). This girl, (lets call her M) was giving me dirty looks the whole night. She is a major skank, always flirting with any guy, even when her bf is around, not to mention she wears the most revealing clothes and was kissing one of the guys from my bf's work on the cheek the other night. Everytime I got up to go to the bathroom, I would come back and find M sitting in my seat!

Anyway...basicaly the following day him and all his work friends went to another outing but I didnt go cause i had work. M got drunk and was bagging me out to my bf. She was saying all these horrible things about me (my bf wont tell me what she said, he says he doesnt remember, but i think he does, just doesnt want to upset me more). My bf said he was sticking up for me, which lead to her punching him really hard in the face!!!

I cant believe she would do that, bag me out and punch my bf. i am so mad. I hate it when people dont like me for no good reason. I havent done anything to her. I think she likes my bf, even though she has a bf herself.

My bf says that M has no girl friends cause shes jealous of every girl ever...

Anyway my question is, how do i deal with this fear that she is trying to break me and my bf up?

This has happened bfore with another girl, she told my bf all these mean lies about me, trying tobreak us upand although she dindt succedd, i stll fear M is gonig to turn him aganst me.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (29 July 2007):

hlskitten agony auntI expect your boyfriend knows shes trouble with a capial T.

I wouldnt worry too much about what she TRIES to do. Your guy isnt daft is he?

This girl has some major problems, ignoring her will make her move onto someone else soon enough. Shes a very jealous person. Seems to need to be centre of attention no matter how.

Dont let this girl get to you.

C xxxxxxxxx

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