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Archived questions from: January, 2018 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I wait and see? Or end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

31 January 2018 (F) - I met a guy through a friend and we've been seeing each other for over 2 months. In the beginning, everything was great. We went out on dates, talked on the phone, texted eachother often, and he was really sweet. We went away to Niagara falls for 2 ...

I don't understand why this guy sends screen shots of conversations with other women.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

31 January 2018 (F) - A guy I just met keeps sending me screenshots of conversations with other women. I don’t understand why. We would be having a normal conversation and then a random screenshot. Is he trying to make me jealous or boost his ego? He also has over 600 ...

He said he feels we aren't a good match but he also said he can see us together for a long time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

31 January 2018 (F) - I think some advice would be helpful so here I am. My boyfriend told me he doesn't want marriage and children but he also doesn't know for sure. He adds our personalities are very different and feels we aren't the best match (this kind of confused ...

Girlfriendwants to cut her hair in a style I don't want!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - Some background... I am dating an asexual girl. If you don't know what that means, she just isn't sexually attracted to anyone and therefore no sex. which I am fine with because we both love each other. With that in mind, however, I am much more ...

I love my girlfriend but not sure I love our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

30 January 2018 (M) - I love my girlfriend but not sure I love our relationship. I think shes an amazing gal, and really enjoy the time we spend together. We've been together nearly 3 years, but live in different cities - enough to see for a quick evening or long ...

My boyfriend is mad that I've kept my old wedding dress but he keeps Instagram posts from his exes

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - Dear agony aunts and uncles I need some opinions please. My bf got upset that I’m saving my old wedding dress but he has tons of posts and lovey dovey comments on his Instagram from 3 ex gfs. Im keeping my dress because it was expensive and pe...

We've been together for 4 years but I now I'm torn

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 years now and are living together.Now I've kinda hit a point where I'm torn.I need help as to what am i doing wrong or how should I take this.Every now and then my boyfriend hits these points where ...

Should I call it quits and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid, I think my relationship might be over, or it as been for a long time now...or maybe it’s not? Anyway... Myself (24/25 this year) and partner (23/24 this year) have been together for almost three and a half years and I/we are h...

My mother favors my nephew over my son

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - My parents try to include us at some dinners but it always seems it's an after thought (calling us over for dinner the last min)and only if my bros fam is there too, they see my bro, his wife and kids every wkend. We live 15min away and they never ...

Should I just accept that my personality is a turn off to most people and give up on love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

30 January 2018 (M) - Hey everyone. After some soul searching, research, and visits to my therapist, and continuing to end up more alone as time passes, and after facing constant rejection from women. I now realize why I alienate so many people. I haven't done it ...

The tickets have been bought, time planned but I don't want to go see my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - I have a plane ticket to go see my boyfriend this weekend. It's our anniversary and his uncle has gifted us with concert tickets and dinner. His uncle went through a lot of planning and prepping for this, because he's a really great guy and his aunt ...

My family wants me to forgive our dying father for the abuse but I can't!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - Am I a demon for not caring that my dad is dying from cancer and i want nothin to do with it or him or those who care about it. I've posted about my dad with other accounts which I have deactivated. So I would just give a summary of what he did. ...

My sister wont listen, when this guy takes her for everything I am not going to help her!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

30 January 2018 (M) - My sister met this so called great guy in November and put him in the friend bracket, so she said. February of 2017 after a short relationship with another guy didn’t work she started dating this so called great guy. In a week of dating she brought ...

Three dates in and she does't want to kiss!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

29 January 2018 (M) - So I met a girl through Tinder and we went out for dinner. I'm 30 and she's 27. We hit it off really well. We talked for nearly 4 hours. She had a pretty bad cough though, and I didn't attempt any sort of physical contact except a brief touch of the ...

Cheater?? Just your first instinct, not full evaluation!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1951 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - Ok... Just be straight... Being paranoid, or boyfriend totally cheating on me?? He has a friend contact, saved on his phone as "Wifey S" when questioned, said nothing to worry about, just a female friend.... what are your first thought... backgrou...

Partner has been cheating with my best friend for the past five years.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

29 January 2018 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2009 till now we still ...

Am I justified in feeling hurt or did I do the wrong thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid, Sorry for the long post, Thankyou to anyone who takes the time to read my story. I am in my late twenties and in a new relationship of 6 months with a man 2 years younger than me. He is the most amazing person I have ever met a...

He seemed so into me, said he had no wrong intentions... Then why did he ghost me after that evening of no sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

28 January 2018 (F) - I commute to work and every Friday, as I'm waiting at my bus stop, a young man would come and wait for the bus as well. We would exchange polite nods of the head, smiles, "good mornings" and then both of us would retreat back to our cell phones, ...

My boyfriend is always distracted when talking to me on the phone and it's getting on my nerves!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

28 January 2018 (F) - I'm confused. My understanding of being on the phone with someone is to have an active conversation. That each party should be holding on to the phone (or have on ear phones) and giving undivided attention to the person on the other line. Why is it ...

The thought of breaking up with my boyfriend is hard but I can't get the new girl out of my head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - Hello! I have a sticky situation and need advice on what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for roughly two years, we have had plenty of ups and downs during this time. He has been steadfast through each fight, though, as have I, u...

I moved to be with my son and his family. They want me to leave, I'm miserable and don't have the money to leave

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2480 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - For years my son has been asking me to move to the state where he resides with his second wife her 4 children one which they share the other 3 has different fathers. One is handicapped severely. I had gone bankrupt and was a hair being evicted so I ...

He talks about money and costs a lot, is he testing me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2480 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - I’m confused and would appreciate your help. I have been seeing this guy for 2 months and our dates started with walking, coffee, one time out for drinks couple of lunches and most of the time at his place, either he is cooking or most of the time ...

Her confession, while turning me on, makes me angry and I feel betrayed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

27 January 2018 (M) - Where do I start? My wife and I have been married for close to 17 years and have 2 young daughters aged 10 and 8. We are a happy couple are most probably enjoying the best period of our married life. My wife is hot and still looks amazing......

Should I get someone else to tell him I am not going on the cruise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - Thank you for your patience... First some background; week before Christmas my soon to be EX apologised for hitting me, minutes later I said “that will be the last time you touch me like that!” He immediately erupted too accuse me of hitting him ...

I want to know if I am crazy for wanting him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

26 January 2018 (F) - I had been with my ex boyfriend for 10 years, we were both leaving in the same city. We met in University . He is 32 and I am 27. After finishing his degree he had been looking for a stable job for a while, he was lucky enough to get two job offers ...

I'm troubled. I love my boyfriend but am not in love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2481 days ago

26 January 2018 (F) - Hi, I'm in my early 20s and been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We have an amazing relationship. We are best friends and do everything together. However recently I haven't been feeling the same, I've had this feeling at the back of my mind for the ...

Love my boyfriend but I'm tempted to stray

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2482 days ago

26 January 2018 (F) - Hi there, thanks for looking. I hope it’s ok to ask this.. but please be nice as I’m already feeling in a very low place right now, and hate myself for this already. I guess I’m looking for the sort of advice a parent might give. I can’t stop cryi...

How to deal with my two-faced work friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2482 days ago

26 January 2018 (M) - I have a friend, she’s around 8 years younger than me (24). She has always been very nice to me, though she is quite an intense person generally. She’s incredible career obsessed and focused. She recently moved to my department at work. I noticed ...

What can I say to my MIL to make her realize that I have had enough of her treatment

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

25 January 2018 (F) - Hello everyone.. i came here to get some advice on my current situation dealing with my in laws as we live together. They are kind hearted people but i always feel suffocated near them especially the mother in law. Some detail that i can descr...

My boyfriend says he will break up with me if I move 150 miles away

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

25 January 2018 (F) - Iv been dating my boyfriend for a year and i love him so much. But i want to move in with my friend who lives 150 miles away and my boyfriend says if i do he will split up with me and look for someone else. So now i feel trapped because i dont want ...

How do I detach myself emotionally from him before actually telling him it's over if I decide I don't want this anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

24 January 2018 (M) - I've been with my boyfriend for five years. To be honest things haven't been right since the second year. I met my boyfriend on online dating. I was 22 and he was 25. We are now 27 and hes 30.At the time he told me he was in and out of a gardening ...

Will we ever come to a compromise or are we just way too different with our goals in life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2482 days ago

24 January 2018 (F) - My fiancee and I have been together for just over 3 years. We have been commuting back and forth for 2.5 of the 3 years (6 months ago my fiancee decided he'd move a little closer so that we could see each other more) And since the first week we met, ...

Is this what to expect after 10 years? Or has my relationship run its course?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2484 days ago

23 January 2018 (F) - Hi, I've been with my partner for over 10 years now. I'm not sure what to expect out of the relationship. If I'm looking for too much and it's unrealistic. I feel like we don't have anything in common anymore. He just plays computer games a...

Why do you think he unblocked my number and responded to me, and do you think there is

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2480 days ago

23 January 2018 (F) - I was seeing someone ( we would have been together exactly a year next month) , but he broke up with me just over a week ago. We had an on and off relationship . He broke up with me because he said he has depression and was put on anti depressa...

Do I stay? I have a lot to consider! Any advice would be helpful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2484 days ago

23 January 2018 (M) - My problem is quite complex and works across a number of different levels and areaa. So i want to break it down and look at some of them piece by piece. The under pinning issue is that 18 months ago i moved from the UK to Norway (Oslo) to be with ...

He is very confused, should I give up?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

22 January 2018 (M) - Hello everyone, I'm 25 years old homosexual guy. two months ago I met a guy on Skype (who lives not so away from me). At first we talked like friends, but then we started flirting and now it seems that we like each other very much. we talk on Skype...

Its to the point where anything with my family causes problems between my husband and I

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

22 January 2018 (F) - So my sister and I have never got on, even when we were kids. Now days we have little to do with one another, we have to get together occasionally because, you know, family, but we never talk, or have a conversation unless i'm being made fun of (I'm ...

Is this the end of our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2482 days ago

22 January 2018 (F) - Hi my question is how do you tell a relationship is coming to the end I’ve been with my partner for 5 years in the beginning things were good we moved in together after 2 and half year by this time he still hadn’t told me he loved me lately ...

How to get rid of a clingy yet toxic friend ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2484 days ago

22 January 2018 (F) - I am a female student presently studying at a university where I met this other woman friend at a social gathering through some common friends.She was whining a lot about how she was not coping up at studies and with university life in general. Some ...

How do we build a lasting partnership?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2484 days ago

21 January 2018 (F) - Hi. I’m in my 40’s and recently started seeing a chap in his 50’s, who I knew over 20 years ago. There was always something there, but we were both attached to others, so lost touch. The spark was still there, when we bumped into each other. We ...

How do I change this pattern of negativity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

21 January 2018 (F) - How can I believe in love and stop being so jaded. I have been in two horrible relationships that have broken my spirits but on top of that I am surrounded by men that are horrible. At work I see some men that are married but act like someone that ...

What hope for this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

21 January 2018 (F) - I’m heartbroken and confused by all of this and appreciate any insight. Please bear with me and my story. I’m 30 and he’s 32. He’s Single. Never married. About 6 months ago, our friendship progressed to us having mutual feelings towards each other. ...

He's abusive and I need to get out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2487 days ago

21 January 2018 (F) - I'm going through a really difficult period in my life and don't know what to do. How to restart and go on... I'm 41 and have been with my husband for 15 years, no kids. Good times and bad. Well now things have gotten pretty bad. The good times y...

Is he using me as a means to come to Canada?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

20 January 2018 (F) - Hello I married a man from Africa and I am Canadian. We have been together for 11 months and I am trying to get him to Canada. He has been good to me but very dominant and expects I be submissive and do whatever he says to me. If I don’t he ge...

Boyfriend shows no respect

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

20 January 2018 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and we have been practically living together since day one. First off he is a total momma's boy, which I have no problem with. But I know he will never out me first before her. My problem is that he ...

I feel I owe this married man an apology

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Hello Aunts, I met this man sometime in 2015 when i was on a temporal job in another state in the country. He is Married with a son. When we first met, he was attracted to me and we pretty get along so well. He dropped hints about dating me bu...

How do I get my life back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2487 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Husband found out I have been using tumblr for fandom stuff and threatened to smash my phone. He didn't understand what "reblogging" meant and thought that character pictures were actually real dudes. I'm not allowed to talk to "strange people on ...

I'm in the relationship because of obligation and chivalry. Should I give her another chance or end it for good?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

19 January 2018 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend on and off for over 3 years. In the beginning she was a work colleague I was hesitant to get with her as although we flirted, played about together and eventually slept together, I wasn't looking for commitment. ...

My ex treated me badly, now I don't have the confidence to date again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2491 days ago

17 January 2018 (F) - I don't think I'm still fully over what happened with my ex/ex friend and it still affects potential dating. It's been over a year now since I last saw him. We started out as friends, then it became more, but he wasn't treating me well so I ended ...

Apart from these issues my boyfriend is great.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2489 days ago

17 January 2018 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for four months now. We get along really well. He use to be a well known player in our town. The sex is alright. He likes it better than me. Hence the fact I've had better lovers. The two issues I'm having are this: ...