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writes:Hi my question is how do you tell a relationship is coming to the end I’ve been with my partner for 5 years in the beginning things were good we moved in together after 2 and half year by this time he still hadn’t told me he loved me lately everything I say or do doesn’t seem to be enough everything I say he disagrees with constantly he never makes any time for me we both work Monday to Friday both full time so on sundays we supposedly have the day to spend together but whenever I suggest anything he never seems to want to do anything like yesterday we were supposed to be spending the day together instead he spends the day out in the back garden with his dog building a shelter for something I asked him why he never makes any time for me and he walks out for 3 hours he comes home and doesn’t tell me where he’s been he won’t talk to me so things build up to a point that I end up feeling unwanted and unloved all I want is to be able to talk we have trust issues due to things he’s done involving other women in this relationship I feel really miserable and don’t know what to do do you think this relationship is coming to the end thank you for any answers greatly appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2018): No this is the first time I’ve posted
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 January 2018):
 Is this the second time you have posted about this guy? All I can say is if you are miserable in a relationship then things need to change. If he doesn't listen to you and won't make the effort then I cannot see any other choice but to either end the relationship or continue being miserable. I know it is difficult to end a relationship, especially when you have been together so long. But if he has stopped making an effort and is not willing to change I know I would end it.
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reader, N91 +, writes (23 January 2018):
 You said it yourself, you feel 'MISERABLE'.
Why stay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2018): From what you've stayed I can't tell whether or not you've confronted him about this pattern , or the affairs he's had with other women. I say you should have a heart felt talk with him, if you haven't already. It's best to see things for what they are. The signs are obviously pointing toward him being over the relationship. You can ask his feelings on making it work and accept his response, negative or positive. ...Or you can simply move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2018): Seems he's taking you and your relationship for granted. He is acting passive aggressive about nit wanting to be in the relationship anymore. At this moment you seem to still have fight in you for him and this relationship. However, soon you will find yourself impartial to what he does or how he feels. At that time either one of two things will happen : 1. You will break up. 2. He will come chasing you, asking you why you don't care anymore. So yes, your relationship is heading south. The sooner you focus on yourself and not him; the sooner you start going out with friends and family, excluding him; and the sooner you stop paying attention to him, is the sooner you will find out whether your relationship has gone all South, or has a chance to take a u-turn back up North. Good luck!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (23 January 2018):
 remember: If your partner DOESN'T tell you that they love you..... LISTEN TO THEM!!!!
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