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Archived questions from: February, 2017 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She says I'm psycho but I hink she is cheating.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - Hi everyone Recently My girlfriend went out for a night-out and came back with a boy (who was her friend) and was in her bed watching a movie.Her flat mate (who has been her best friend since a young child) said she heard the bed moving, breathin...

My LDR boyfriend is so loaded with work we don't have time to talk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hello there! My LDR bf and I are usually quite close, and we try to text each other at least once - even if it is just a "Good Morning" message - but recently, I've noticed a change. We've been going out for quite a while now, and we keep either S...

Did this guy actually love her? Or did he just want to have sex with her, despite her telling him that she was not ready for sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hi.i know someone whose boyfriend broke up with her cause she could not have sex with him. Before she accepted to date him she told him and he accepted. Along the line he started really talking about it saying he thought she will let him have sex...

What is happening here? Neither my girlfriend nor I were virgins when we met. So why am I suddenly bothered that someone else before me had sex with her, before me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - I’m with my girlfriend since almost 3 years and none of us were virgins when we get together. For me non virginity is not a problem at all, but since 1 week the idea of someone other than me inside her started to pop up in my head. I love her fro...

I like this guy. But he has also become friends on social media with a girl who has previously said bad things about me. What can I do in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hello everyone I could use some advice It's a small world, definitely for me. I went for a pageant where my roommate wasn't such a good person. She accused me of stealing because all apple headphones look the same and I took her headphones by mi...

Is there a way to hint to a guy that you are not interested?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - I went on a few dates with a guy, but I just didn’t feel a connection with him. He seems so enthusiastic about our next date, but I don’t want to date him anymore. So is there a way I can hint to him that I’m no longer interested? ...

My FWB grabbed me by the throat when I said I would find sex elsewhere!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a couple months now. We made it very clear we do not want a relationship with each other. It is just friend with benefits kind of thing. We are really good friends and we're not sleeping with anyone else. Last night we ...

I am a married woman who has sex with strangers when I travel for work!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2707 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - I am a married female looking for some help. This is going to sound crazy but I have always had a high sex drive. I met my husband and everything was great. We had two kids, and he is such a good man. Provides well, if I had to honestly rate hi...

The lady I was dating has herpes, did she break up with me due to my paranoia?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - hello, i met some one she was honest with me, she told me she has had herpes for thirteen years, not on medication, but now she is, an we only been seeing each other for three weeks, used condoms, yes I've told her i am very worried about it, it's ...

My boyfriend and I are in a good place, but his mother doesn't me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hi all. It might be a long one so I'm really sorry. I'll set te scene a little bit. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. We are saving for a house but are both currently living with our parents. A while back (probably 6 months ago) we had ...

What should I do? He told me that he "fell out of love" with me like a month ago and now it's too late?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Me and my fight friend have been friends for almost 2 years, 10 months ago he told me he wanted to date. When he first told me he liked me I was really nervous and not ready. I was young, immature, I had a lot of things going on in my life such as ...

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2013 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

His family want us to marry, mine don't!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I 'was' dating this guy for a little over two years. We have both met each other's families and all was well until last December when his family started asking him to get married. Now the problem is I am in my early 20s ...

Is my boyfriend being truthful about his parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over three years now. He's currently in his forties. We broke up last year for about a month because he and I talked about getting married but then when we actually started trying to pick a date he told me ...

I worry I am being led down the garden path again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Im really confused I hope someone helps. A few years ago I've met a guy and I've actually lost my virginity to him. he meant a lot to me and things were going great however I was afraid of commitment and I thought negatively so my thoughts were th...

We/ve been back together for a year but it just isn't like it was.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - Okay so I don't quite know how to start this, but my friends have been helpful and supportive, but I suppose I'm still lost. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years minus the 2 that we were broken up for. We broke up because he said he ...

New man doesn't want me to go to fetish party

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I arranged to go to kinky, fetish-scene party while single but now have new boyfriend who doesn't want me to go. Am I being unreasonable still wanting to go, even though he doesn't like it, and is not into that. He thinks I will be looking for ...

I care my girl is letting herself go. How can I help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

26 February 2017 (M) - Me and my gf been together 4 years. Over the years she has let herself go. I have been encouraging her to keep in shape for over a year. She has been lazy and eats junk all the time. I like to see her happy so if she likes eating, i don't say much. ...

How can I stop comparing myself to everyone else? How can I become Assertive and less insecure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I'm single woman in my early thirties that on the outside most people would say (kind-generous -attractive- nice). My problem is - I'm very insecure ( I worked and work so much on outer appearance ) that I lack self confidence. I can't say no (...

Teen daughter does not believe me. In your opinion did I do something wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

25 February 2017 (F) - I'm a single mother of two children. A girl who is 15 and a son who is 11 years old. We had a good life. We would take vacations and go back to our home country to visit every year. They both attend private Christian schools. Five years ago I di...

We've dated for 4 years, but now she doesn't make an effort anymore. What could improve the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - I am in between a rock and a hard place....I have a girlfriend of 4 years and I feel differently about our relationship to what I used to. I want to talk to my girlfriend about it but she doesn't want to listen! Nor talk...she is pretty closed w...

Should I ? I'm tempted to contact the other people involved and ask them

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - Looking for some advice here.. About a year ago, I found out that my fiancée and two of her (our?) friends had been exchanging intimate photos - and had even been together a couple of times. I confronted her, she broke down, told me that the o...

We are not meeting so often and he is blaming his work!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - Hi, Aunts! I've been seeing a guy for 2 months now. We used to talk throughout the day and text and meet often, but of late he initiates contact less. It's very frustrating when "Work has been very hectic" is the reply I receive as an explanatio...

I lost respect when I found out my friend was a home wrecker.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - I have a friend, lets call him x, who recently told me he's got a new girlfriend. I was happy for him, and asked the typical questions, appears she's a colleague of his and she's got two kids ages 7 and 4, that he hasn't met yet but is excited about ...

What happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - Met this awesome but shy guy for the first time in person last week. We met online on a dating site. We had planned to meet after a month or so of texting, as he had a day off from work and I had a day off the next day so it worked for us both. It ...

I feel he guilt trips me into staying with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - My partner needs help with his anger and possessive behaviour , how do I help him .. I know I can't help him he needs a professional but what do I do in this process !? It's sounds horrible because im finding it hard to believe he will change and ...

Why does he run hot and cold?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - Hi i need some advice here.. I've been seeing this guy for a month now We dont have any label in our relationship The first 2 weeks he's been so caring Were more like a cat and a dog but his sweet at the same time but suddenly he keeps on ignorin...

I need a kick to end this toxic relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - I am in the worst relationship I have EVER been in. I'm totally miserable and bored to tears when I'm with him. He is rude, selfish, disrespectful to me and woman in general. I'm ashamed to admit I have been with this guy for over six years. He ...

I honestly don't know what to do. What can I do? She blames her childhood for her major trust issues

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2270 days ago

22 February 2017 (M) - Hi, I have been together with my fiance for about 8 months now. Unfortunately, she has major trust issues and she fuels it by giving me no space to breathe. she expects me to tell her everything in detail. ie if I get a message from a friend(ma...

Should I move on? She had a crush on this guy previously. They've had recent conversations with each other

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

21 February 2017 (M) - I recently found out that my wife is having inappropriate conversations with someone who she had a crush on several years ago. I know for a fact that she asked this person a hypothetical question saying "Let me ask you something, what if I say he...

How can this be resolved? I want a Baby. He couldn't think of anything worse.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - My husband told me the other day he never wants to have children. I’m devastated. Don’t get me wrong I love him completely and can appreciate that it’s just how he feels but I feel angry and bitter and am having serious thoughts about leaving him if ...

Is he confused? Playing me? Using me as a rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I was seeing a guy for few months, he told me he loved me multiple times but all whilst drunk, i responded saying that i did like him but didn't love him. The last time he said it he made little to no effort to see me, when he would normally come ...

Am I normal for hoping he could overcome his alcoholism?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I want to know if I am normal. I have been involved with an alcoholic on/of for ten years. I miss him deeply, like I am vexed. My mind knows the truth but my heart can not get the message. I weigh out the cons but the love I feel and felt outweighs ...

Why do I allow him to treat me like trash, throw me out and then let him back into my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - Hi, I would appreciate some outside perspective on the situation I'm currently dealing with. I started dating someone last year that I had known for about 10 years though granted we were mostly only acquaintances during that time with limited int...

I don't want to hurt my girlfriend but after 3 years I am not sure that I want to be with her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

20 February 2017 (M) - How can i break up with my girlfriend? Im not sure if i even want to. We have been together for three years. We have been having problems recently. She told me she was not sure where we were going, that we were stuck in the same old patterns doing ...

I feel like my boyfriend is making me chose between him and my daughter

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost six years and my daughter recently moved out to go to college and tends to come home in the weekends. There have been several occasions where my boyfriend has made comments about my daughter getting ...

I feel betrayed and violated that he's been snooping on me on my phone! There's no reason for him to do this!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - I'm so angry as I write this post and a little confused. I was talking to my boyfriend of 9 years the other day and he asked me about something that happened to one of my friends that I could of swore I never told him, I brushed it off thinking...

I can't get over the thought that he stares at my little sister!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm writing this as my thoughts are consuming me and ultimately upsetting me and affecting my behaviour with my partner, which I hate. I have been feeling very insecure lately and issues of the past keep popping into my mind and I find ...

Does she still want this wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

19 February 2017 (M) - Just a quick question? Me and my partner are due to be getting married in october this year not a big expencive one but one we can offord we have put deposits down for most things but now all of a sudden shes saying we cant offord the wedding so i ...

How can I talk to them about this? What can I do about my boyfriend and my best friend? He hangs out with her when I'm not present

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - My best friend and I are very different people and we get on really well, even though I no longer see her very often. We have been friends for years. A year ago I helped her get close to a guy she liked who I liked at the same time. Things did...

Should I get back into the dating world, before my youth fades?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid,I been single for almost going on 16 years. I stopped dating at the age of 32-33. I'm 45 now. My heart has been hurt so bad that I'm in fear of dating again I don't want a repeat of my pass so I just allow my youth to fade away. I ju...

Feel like I'm never going to be enough for him. Is my husband gay or just into weird stuff ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

18 February 2017 (F) - My husband of 12 years has been web camping girls for 8 years about anal play, pegging and being dominated. I just found out and have taking it hard. He has even had advertisements for meeting girls. He says it because he didn't think I would lo...

Is he trying to convey something by winking at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

18 February 2017 (F) - Hello there, My co-worker and I were very good friends at work. We had never gone out together, I felt some subtle hints from him. Then we got into major conflicts, he came by to apologize afterward. After that, I backed off and just be another ...

I cheated on my boyfriend with a co-worker and now my life has become a living hell

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - This is a very difficult story for me to write but I desperately need help. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years now and I love him dearly. We bought our first house 2 years ago and to be honest things were very very difficult and we had ...

Help, he dismisses my feelings of rejection and that he's being disloyal!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - I've been with my partner for 3 years now I'm 23 he's 28. We have a 19 month old daughter and lived together almost the whole relationship. Hes never gave me one single compliment but I've got over it thinking he's just not that type of person. But ...

Is there any way I can remedy this situation? He's avoiding spending time alone with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together all last spring 2016 and part of the summer, but we had known each other much longer then that and I am very close to his oldest son since he goes to school with my daughter and is alway over my house. It was his son ...

How can I stop feeling so very angry with my ex boyfriend? ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - Hi , I used to be in a relationship with this guy , we started off as being friends he was all pleasant he even sat alone with me to have lunch . But then things started to change, we both developed romantic feelings for each other, we both fel...

My boyfriend keeps texting a female co-worker and it's getting inappropriate. Am I overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

16 February 2017 (F) - So my boyfriend has a female co-worker. He told me a couple weeks ago that it was pretty obvious to him and a few co-workers that a supervisor was trying to get with this female coworker, let's call her "B". My boyfriend told me that he told B "I ...

My previous teaacher was awesome. I do not like my new teacher, so how can I stay positive in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - My friends and I have had so many awesome teachers in the last few years, but there is one who stands out in particular. I always learnt best in her classes; she had a tendency to find so many ways to visualize the topic and make even the most ...

I have trust issues. He talked and flirted with a girl. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - So my boyfriend and i have been together a little over 5 months. And things are absolutely stinking amazing! The only issue is.. I have a hard time trusting him and dont know what to really do. Towards the beginning of our relationship he ...