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Archived questions from: October, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Could it be smegma or semen? Or is it evidence of cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - this is a serious question if a man has a white powdery ring around his foreskin head does that mean he cheated and had sex? is that smegma? He is uncircumsized ....when he pulled back the skin I saw white clumpy stuff under the skin looks like ...

He needs time to think about it? What can I do? I am left wondering and waiting if he's planning to break up with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - I am hoping that my boyfriend and i eventually make-up. At the moment he is really angry with me because of something i should have not said to him in the heat of an argument. I have sent him 3 apologies, via texting. After i asked him if he wante...

An Angry Boyfriend? What to do with him when he is like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - I feel like lately things have escalated way out of control. So the other day he and I decided to see each other for a couple of hours before he starts work. While I was waiting for him to arrive, we spoke on the phone and got into a small disagr...

I called my girlfriend fat. I was joking but she's upset. How do I make it up to her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

31 October 2013 (M) - I have got a problem which needs your help. I met my girlfriend in Singapore two years ago and living with her in her small apartment there provided to her by school where she teaches. I do odd job there and grateful to her for that. She is an ...

Boyfriend gets easily irritated at me regarding how I work and I don't know what to do? I am walking on egg shells anymore

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - We live together. He is divorced with a couple adult children. We talk about getting married. We share the same office. I have a home based business. I have a separate work space from the office in the home. He tells me to be myself around hi...

Not all fathers are good fathers, but what do you do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - This isn't a question as such, more to see what other people's opinion on this is. I am all for a dad to have his rights and responsibilities towards his children. But what do people think a mother should do when there was domestic abuse in th...

He's a great guy, except for his sex drive

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - I am frustrated beyond belief and the worst part is, I will NEVER EVER cheat. My boyfriend (who is, admittedly, a very good guy) and I have been together almost 3.5 years. No engagement ring yet and he always claims it's money which I get because ...

I've become extremely needy and emotional, since I'm used to have her around my finger.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

31 October 2013 (M) - Hey, I recently dumped my girlfriend of 4 years. I did it because I haven't lived my life and I was feeling that I wanted to meet other people. My girlfriend was wonderful but we wasn't on the same level, she was very responsible and ...

The last convo we had he said I was acting like a psycho and wants me to leave him alone. How do I fix all this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - I've been dating this guy for aboyt 2 months. He has his own business and works crazy hours and gets stressed about it. In the beginning we spent a lot of time together. We went out and did enjoyable things together. Then he started a really huge ...

My ex won't let go and is telling people how he misses me and sending me things in the mail

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - Can any of u lovely people help me.... I've posted here before. I was with a man a few years older than me for 2 years. In those 2 years he cheated for 15 months (I was the mistress it turned out) I tried to stay and forgive him. It just didn't work ...

I feel like I'm being disrespected, used, and attacked by my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 13 months now, and I have never loved someone so much before. I recently started my first year of college, and my first job. My motivation was him, it was for our future. He on the other hand wont ...

Can I stop him sleeping with a new woman, Just this weekend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - Hi I hope you guys can give me some advice? Here's the story... Sorry it's so complicated. i came to this city to build a career and get over a bad break up.. i built my life up, had a fantastic high paid job i was very good at and got on br...

Will my boyfriend lose interest when his son (to another woman) is born?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is having a baby with his ex and is due very soon, I'm worried once the babys born me and my boyfriend will grow apart as he will be looking after his son and being there for his son, I don't want that to happen me and him are very ...

Will taking this break help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - My fiance and I are on a break to give us time to think and figure things out. He didnt want to take time out but I forced it because we constantly kept fighting and he constantly broke his promise never to get angry at me over small things. And ...

What am I doing wrong in my friendships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - Need advice about friendships.. I'm going to try not to sound too much like a victim here, just bear in mind i've fallen in a heap and am feeling a bit sorry for myself.. For as long as i can remember i've had difficulties with friendships an...

I messed with her emotions and crushed her heart. Do I deserve her friendship again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - Hi. I'm bisexual and some time ago I was seeing a woman during a rough point in my life. I was going through a divorce and simultaneously trying to detach from an emotional affair I was having with my male boss. The woman I was seeing had no idea I ...

Co worker goes from friend to just a co worker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - Hi. I work at a school and it pays ok for now. Well I am engaged and there is a male coworker who is married with a baby. We hit it off and became friends at work, so I thought. We both talked a lot during work and texts about games work etc not ...

My jealousy and insecurities are ruining my relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - I create drama in my relationship because I'm insecure and jealous. And I'm on the last leg with my boyfriend because he hates being treated like he's done something wrong just because I feel insecure and paranoid. Any advice on how I can get past ...

So broken after a fight....Is there hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months and I got into a huge fight last night. Yesterday I came back from work and school feeling pretty overwhelmed the whole day. I came over to his place thinking that he was really excited to see me because he texted me "come ...

How can something feel so right yet be so wrong? In love with a married man who loves me too, but also loves his wife and wont leave her.....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - I don't know what to do... I don't even know how to start. I never been on any of these sites before.. this is also a long story. I met this man at a work place..once I was working there he texted me and would flirt just a little (he had my numbe...

Has he stopped finding me sexually atrractive? What can I do to improve things in the bedroom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - Im 22 and my boyfriends 23 we have been together for four years when we first got together we were having sex all the time but now its like he doesn't want to have sex with me ive tried sexy outfits and he just turns around and says what the point ...

Should I believe that he wants me for more than just sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - Hi, I am from Malaysia. I met a Persian guy online. We talked for few days and he came to meet me up. I kinda like him and we were in love fast, till now its like a month we are together. I dont know him well, yesterday I was asking him about his...

Are we headed for a future break-up? I don't want to lose him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - I'm needing some serious advice/help with my boyfriend of 3 years. We're the same age, don't live together, and spend weekends/any times we can find in our work schedules together. Over the last few months things have gotten really rocky. We've ...

5 years of my life stolen by a lying cheat

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - My whole life has just fallen apart. I have been with my long term boyfriend for 5 years but things have only got really serious in the last 18 months, we have discussed marrige and he has been concidering moving in with me ...I have never met his ...

I'm becoming less attracted to my girlfriend though I love her. What's the solution?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

28 October 2013 (M) - I am a 23 years old guy, and I've been dating my girlfriend for a few months now. I've been alone for 5 years before I met her, and anything before her wasn't very serious, so I may as well say this is my first real relationship. She is 5 years ol...

I hit it off with my builder but now he's blowing cold. What happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - A builder came to do some work on my house. We hit it off straight away. We had so much in common. We exchanged numbers and have chatted everyday since. Saturday he sent me a text asking what I was up to. I said I was just home bored I invited him ...

I don't want to let go of my ex ... what do his recent actions mean?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - I fell for a guy just over a year ago and we got together, we were together for a couple of months and everyday he would message me 24/7 and I would message him back, we'd talk until all hours of the morning until one of us fell asleep. It was ...

My child's father risks jail because of his behavior towards me and I feel guilty!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - I need help.....i feel guilty for putting my child father in jail. His jealousy causes him to do crazy things to me. At first I thought his jealous behavior was cut until it ended with property being destroyed. Now we have a pending court case and I ...

My uncontrollable vanity and low self-esteem are ruining my life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

28 October 2013 (M) - I am obsessed with photos and not in a good way. I spend many hours of my life constantly worrying about documenting what I do so that I can have a good view of my life in the future. Subsequently I scrutinize them to the point of obsession and cons...

Do you think I should have to tell him everything about my life when now hes a friend with benefits ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - Does a guy I see once a week have any right asking questions about where I go and what I do? ive been seeing someone for a year and it turned very serious very quickly. He moved in within four months but it turned sour pretty quick.I chucked him ...

Do abusers ever leave you alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - I recently just got out of an abusive relationship. My family and friends are fully aware of it and absolutely support my decision and want nothing to do with this man themselves. It has been a few weeks since the break up. I have him blocked on ...

What can I do about this controlling guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - i been with my significant other for 6 years and hes always been the jealous type, always in my business, wanting to know my facebook password, my email password my phone code to unlock my phone etc, doesnt want me to have friends and i have lost ...

Can he learn from this and remain faithful or am I dealing with a ticking time bomb?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - I found nasty texts on my boyfriend's phone to a friend of his about his pursuit of trying to find a woman to have sex with while I was out of town. He found a girl he was interested in while he was at a bar and proceeded to hit on her and relay the ...

Boyfriend's boss gave us a dog and now they want it to visit them and I don't want to do it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I adopted a 2 year old boxer from a couple that had too many dogs and the boxer became aggressive. They begged us to take the dog and we did. They were very thankful and didn't ask us to pay money and even gave us the cage and toys ...

Boyfriend has a problem with me catching up with a male friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - I met my bf on an online dating website ( you can look for partners or friendship). We've beem together For 5 yrs. About 8 months before i chatted to a guy on there and we met. I wasnt interested but he was a bit but knew nothing would happen e...

Boyfriend looks through my phone. How to make it stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend latey thinks i am hiding something because i dont let him go through my phone. He has done it for most of our relationship, lookig at photos and even messages. I Dont have anything hide. But Lately i have stopped him going through my...

Does she really want to go out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

27 October 2013 (M) - This girl I like now "used" to like me, I'm not sure if she still does or not, but she gives off the signs she does, and is interested in me still (possibly), but every time I ask her if she wants to come over, or go out to see a movie/eat sometime, ...

I feel unappreciated by my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - I do everything for my boyfriend but he never says he loves me and I feel unappreciated. I have taken him on business trips across the country, expensive sporting events, weekend trips paid for by me, and drive him everywhere when we are together. I ...

Is it normal for guys to ask their girlfriend for gifts at the start of a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - Is this normal for a guy to ask his girl friend to buy him gifts at the very beginning of their relationship and telling her what to buy for him? If she says no to buy then he remarked her as money minded? And if she buys, he becomes very happy and ...

Having trouble adjusting after moving back home

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - When I spent a year working in Australia, I met the man of my dreams. He trained at a gym which had a coffee shop nearby, so as I worked there I saw him daily. After a few weeks of flirting, he asked me out and started dating. When my year was up we ...

I'm expecting my ex boyfriend's child and I don't know if I should tell him and break his current girlfriend's heart.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - I'm expecting my ex boyfriend's child and I don't know if I should tell him and break his current girlfriend's heart. Basically, when we broke up, we made a stupid agreement to still have sex from time to time. I ended things because I got sick of ...

She agreed to be my girlfriend but doesn't contact me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

25 October 2013 (M) - About 2 months ago I met a girl at a convention and we hit it off really well. She lives far from me (about 50 miles), but we started to see each other virtually every weekend. We've spent the night at each others places, but we haven't had sex yet ...

I get self conscious that they joke that they don't want me there, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4050 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - I've always had trouble making friends because im quite shy, i only really have two friends, one is in a relationship so is always off with her boyfriend and the other girl is really popular and literally everybody likes her because she actually ...

My fiancee's mother hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - Okay, I know this is quick. so I have only been with my fiance for 10 months, he asked me to marry him after 5 months we got a ring after 9 months. We met online and I love him so much (success story) we are absolutely besotted with eachother, but ...

Does my ex want me back after I had a miscarriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - Hi. I am doing no contact with my ex but he keeps coming into my work. I am so mad with him for what he did to me I don't think I can ever forgive him. We have split up once before and he would not stop ringing my fone for weeks and then eventua...

My ex-husband told my daughter about my possible diagnosis!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone, I have recently been told that I have possible tumors in my utrius. I am having further tests in a couple of weeks. My ex husband and I have been divorced for 2 years now and we are still close friends. Both of my children live wit...

I don't know if this is love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4051 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - I have been marriaged for 12 years and I moved to another part of the country because of my husband. No friends,only his freinds and family. My family was far away from me,so I saw them once a year. I made some friends but nothing serious. At the ...

Broke up... feeling sad. Thoughts? Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend, of 3 years, and I broke up Sunday night. We're both the same age and don't live together, but spent weekends together and any days during the week if we found time. We were a serious couple and had talked about children and settling ...

I don't feel sexually validated by my boyfriend and have found an online MM in another country who understands me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

24 October 2013 (F) - Where do I start?! My problem seems so silly but it's got me so confused about what I want with my life. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We're perfectly suited in every way apart from he's just not horny! At all. I've tried so many th...

I'm feeling depressed and taken for granted. Please help me to deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

24 October 2013 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years now. We have had an ok relationship, it's had its good parts and its bad but we've usually battled on together. Recently i have come to realise that it is likely that I have depression. On top of this I feel ...