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Archived questions from: 2 October, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I don't know how to handle this relationship with a mooching friend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

2 October 2013 (F) - There's this mooch of a friend I had a while back which I recently unfriended on Facebook , but haven't met her since. She was basically taking advantage of my generous and "patient" nature. I was rather passive to be honest and when mistreated, ...

How can I possibly get my ex to see what he is doing to our daughter, without causing more trouble?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

2 October 2013 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles. I have a problem that I am hoping you can help me resolve. I have a beautiful daughter with my ex. We had a messy split, 6 months ago. Although I am trying to communicate with my ex, regarding our girl, I feel I am hitt...

My gf wants to mantain friendship with her ex and her former sex buddy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

2 October 2013 (M) - I have what it's called Retrograde Jealousy (form of OCD) My gf (which I love a lot) has a strange past with a relationship (sex buddy) with a best friend (man) and after that a long relationship with a girl (which was the only one that she had - sh...

I have mental blocks now around him, should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

2 October 2013 (M) - Hey all, sorry for any vagueness in this post. I’ve got a problem with one of my best friends. We’ve known each other for 3 years now and we went through periods of being really close. He used to tell me everything that was bothering him and I’d do ...

Guys, would you take her back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

2 October 2013 (F) - This is a question for the guys, mostly! If you were a 29-year-old male, newly divorced, and in love with a new woman, would you take this woman back? - You have your daughter for the weekend, and decide to surprise your new girlfriend of ...

Complicated setup for a concert, should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

2 October 2013 (F) - Ive been in a relationship with a man for going on three years. He has been in a relationship with a woman for thirty yrs. He treats me very well...Ok heres the deaL.. He purchased the Whispers concert tickets... He also invited and old time ...

First boyfriend and first time in love... but he changed and stopped courting me after we had sex. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4067 days ago

2 October 2013 (F) - Hi guys! I'd like to ask for an advice. I am turning 29 and have my first bf. He's my co worker. After a week of being bf and gf, we had sex. He was the same man I wrote last september. I felt cheap when I gave myself to him. I only go with the flow ...

Getting frustrated at the way he's treating me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

2 October 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I work in same office as of my bf of 3 years. Lately he was vey busy at work, lots of work load as he was trying for promotion. As he was busy at work, he stopped even being civil to me, its like i dont even exist for him. Its bee...

I got in to a rebound relationship/ dating too soon. What is the right thing to do regarding the guy I'm dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

2 October 2013 (F) - I am in a relationship with someone for just about one year now. He is great, a very likable person. The thing is, this all started as a "rebound" type relationship, literally as I came out of a very tough four year relationship. We immediately ...

I have to dump my boyfriend... not sure how to move on. :(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

2 October 2013 (F) - I'm needing to "officially" end my 3 year relationship. We're both in our early 30's. I love him but he isn't good for me any longer. He has emotional abandonment issues so every so often he goes "missing" for days or weeks and then comes back like ...

Sex life at its lowest. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

2 October 2013 (F) - This is gonna be a long one guys I don't know where else to turn to to get peoples thoughts and advice. really hope I can get some advice here over my troubles with myself my boyfriend and his ex ... I've been with the b.f for nearly 4 years n...

Concerned about my boyfriends previous anal sex experiences, when this is something I never want to try!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

2 October 2013 (F) - My boyfreind of almost 8 months recently confided in me that he had ONLY anal sex with his ex from 3 years ago on multiple occasions b/c they didn't want to get pregnant. (He was 16 at the time). We have never had penetrative sex yet but have done ...

How do we get back together without being pushy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

2 October 2013 (M) - Hi all, I've been talking to my ex about possibly getting back together. A week ago I wrote her a long letter about how my life has felt empty and how much I sill love her since we broke up almost a year ago. She said she'll think about it, but she ...