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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend's son is the first priority in his life and I hate myself when I get jealous

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I'm sorry I'm not very good at explaining stuff. I'll do the bast I can: My boyfriend has a 6 year old son and they have been the only real family eachother have had since the kid was born. My boyfriend's parents have never really been in his life...

Today marks the end of our month break... now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - Well today is day 30 of our 1 month agreed to "break". For those of you that have read my other posts you will know that I've been through a lot with my boyfriend of 3.5 years and while he kept telling me he wanted to marry me and that we have the ...

Is my boyfriend's behaviour normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I just wanted opinions to see if my boyfriends behaviour is normal or not. so I left his house around 12 this morning to meet my best girlfriend for a coffee and I told him that i MIGHT go to a shop to look for bridesmaid shoes as my friend a...

Can't believe he spoke to me this way! Should I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were having a disagreement tonight, and it ended with him saying 'f**k you you little piece of s**it' then he hung up on me - in the 2 years we've been together hes never spoken to me like that, I can't get it out of my head he ...

He treated me badly, I knew we couldn't marry so why do I still miss him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - SORRY FOR MY bad ENGLISH.... I met my boyfriend one year ago,it was a rebound relationship, I was so much attached to him, we used to talk 7-8 hours in day. He used to tell me he wants to marry me, but we both belongs to conservative fam...

Why do I feel so sad with this kinky hookup? The sex wasn't that great!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I am confused about my emotional reaction to a lovely guy I recently met by chance. It was on of those rare encounters where the physical attraction is so strong and obvious. We are both in our 30's and turns out to be single. To make a long story ...

My g/f has been away for 6 days and I sexted another girl. Do I tell my g/f?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Hi guys, This website is really great and I hope i can get some decent advice from you :) So first off I am going to admit I am a douche regarding what I did, and I feel terrible. My current gf who I have been seeing for five months now is...

He said if I dislike his pot smoking I can leave

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - Ok! So me and my fiance have been together almost 9 years. When I met him he did not smoke, we've broke up and got back together in between that time, but here we are together again, and now he smokes weed. I have a serious problem with it. I mean...

I asked him where the relationship was headed and now he seems distant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 3 months. Everything was going really well until I commited the ultimate girl mistake in a new relationship: I asked where this was all headed.... surprisingly he was very calm (i could tell he was annoyed but was ...

My boyfriend has exchanged disgustingly sexual emails with girls online and when I confronted him, he said he was "bored" and then accused me of cheating!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - okay so i've been dating this guy now for almost two years. I thought he was perfect in almost every way. We're nearly the same person, which may be the reason for some of our heated arguments, but besides those few fights I thought we had a great ...

Why can't I ever get a guy who cares about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Ok so here I'm going to give a little back ground before I ask the question hopefully so you all somewhaht get a better idea of what is going on. In July, me and my ex broke up because I found out he was cheating. Well, I gave him another chance a...

Are we just numb from everything that has happened? Or have we lost our spark?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been with a truly lovely man for 4 years and we were that couple that were so into each other, laughing together and holding hands all the time, absolute best friends. The last 2 years has been a very difficult time for both of ...

Do I keep it to myself or tell my sister? My sister's husband of nine years told me he is having an affair

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Yesterday was the worst day of my life. My sister's husband of nine years told me he is having an affair,he trusted me enough to tell me, but I feel like I'm betraying my sister. Please help me what should I do????? My sister also has a life treat...

I have concerns about returning to my FWB. What should I do though? He wants to resume, but his past actions concern me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hi I realise there is a lot of questions asked about this thank you for any answers in advance I just need some opinions on this situation I have been in a FWB for 18 months now he asked me if it could just be me and him sleeping together and not ...

Can I regain his trust? He doesn't trust me anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4442 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - last week i said to my boyfriend that maybe we should break up but i was stupid for saying it i just thought it would make him happier. ever since i said it things haven't been the same, he doesn't trust me anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn...

My first serious relationship. But many anxieties:( Did you go through anything like this? What helped? What didn't help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I'm currently in my first serious relationship, and have been finding it very hard to settle into things. I love my boyfriend very much but it has taken me a while to trust him, how to balance my relationship around my life appropriately, how to a...

LDR - Is he taking me for granted or am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I met this guy online around 6 months ago, we are both mature people so I think we both knew what we were doing when we got into this LDR. I let him know about my health which is a severe neurologic condition from day one. He says he loves and ador...

I need some suggestions to help me understand why this is happening? I'm having some communication difficulties with a guy I met.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4442 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - So there's this guy. I met him about 3 months ago on a friday at an event. It was a big weekend with tons of events and we kept bumping into each other. We talked about many things and really connected. A few days latter I found him on facebook...

My longterm boyfriend wants to sleep with someone else but doesn't want to cheat. Is a threesome the answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years, and we have both only been with each other during our relationship. He has suggested him sleeping with another woman, but not wanting to cheat on me, suggesting a three-some. His ex-wife ...

Together 2 years, moving in, talking marriage, and now he hardly ever wants sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4443 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Hey, I need some perspectives to try and help me understand my boyfriend's reduced interest in sex and how to handle this, please, as at the moment, I just feel stupid and rejected. We've been together 2 years, and are planning to move in together...

My very serious boyfriend has a 4 year old daughter he never told me about...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Ive been dating my current boyfriend for 10 months now. Although ive had a couple of boyfriends in the past, this is the first time that I know ive fallen in love (im 23, boyfriend is 26). A couple of months into our relationship, my...

Is he playing games or is there hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Ok me and my ex been off and on for about 2yrs. I just want to know is he sincere about us. Like he tells me that he knows that I'm the right one for him and no matter who he is dating or talking to whenever he think or plan out his future I'm t...

Should I be worried about my girlfriend's talk and actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4443 days ago

28 September 2012 (M) - Me and my girlfriend hve been together for 4 months now and our anniversary is coming up. Since its finals,we havent met for like 2 weeks since hers ended n mine is still going on and its going to b like a week more b4 we sees each other again. I m ...

He played me and tore out my heart. How could he do this to a good hearted person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. I hope you can help me because I have never felt more down or heartbroken in my life. I have been married for ten years and my husband left me about a year ago. I do not have a lot of experience with men. I have only had my hus...

We're getting married in a few weeks and something seems off with my fiance. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - My fiance and I are getting married in a few weeks. Everything's been great, until a couple weeks ago. I started sensing something was off with him, so I brought it up. He explained everything's fine and normal, but my instinct is feeling like he's ...

Dealing with toxic relatives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - i'm growing apart from my cousin (about the same age) as she is hanging out with the wrong crowd (parties and drugs are her priorities) and takes no responsibility in life... She always has some kind of problems and is always taking the role of the ...

Why won't my boyfriend initiate conversation with me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of nearly 3 months and I are both 18. We used to talk just about everyday. Then my phone was stolen which pretty much coincided with exam week, during which we barely talked. He said it was because of exam week, which was ...

Flirt at work

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - okay so there is this guy I work with and I am starting to like him never liked him at first but he has pretty much swept me off my feet in a sence.I never had a crush on him at first but he was so sweet to me and got me thinking a lil.He would go ...

She never talks about anything so what are we?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4441 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - .. I never posted or asked anyone before for a help .. but what im going through is just too much and I dont have the strength of holding it anymore, i need to have an advice or i need someone to take the heavy weight ... see I met this girl who ...

I'm tired of him treating me this way, but I don't want to leave him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - My bf of 2 years never has time for me, whenever I call he picks up a fight and tells me not to call him ever. After 2 or 3 days he calls me back and apologizes and the same thing happens again. Whenver i try to talk to hiim regarding this, he ...

I'm not the bad one here am I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Hello, please help me! I'm in a relationship I can't get out of and depressing me so much I don't want this relationship anymore. Ill start from the beginning, me and my bf have been together nearly a year, weve known eachother from being little. He ...

My boyfriend asked me if he could be friends with his ex girlfriend who he was deeply in love with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - We are engaged to be married and have been seeing each other for 3 years. His last ex-girlfriend dumped him badly. He was deeply in love with her. When we got together after their break-up which was only two months later, he called me her na...

Things have gone downhill with my boyfriend since I had a termination...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 years now, our relationship is the best thing in my life. About 3 months ago I got pregnant but I wasn't ready to have a child cuz I'm working and so is my boyfriend and I just wasn't ready to ...

My boyfriend of four years is becoming more racist by the day and its driving me mental.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of four years is becoming more racist by the day and its driving me mental. When I first met him he had virtually no interest in religion and if I had known then how much he would change I would never have gone out with him. Now we h...

Sick of being seen as one of the guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Once again I have fallen into the 'you're like one of the guys' category with another guy. I love having guy friends, most of my friends are guys because I don't get along with girls my age. I get along with older women really well, but most girls ...

After I posed nude for her, how can I be comfortable around my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2262 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - Ok this is really embarrassing, but a female friend of mine is this really awesome sketch artist. It's a little hobby of hers, but she's studying to be an interior designer. After sketching my face a couple of times, she asked me if she could draw ...

What can I do to remember important things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - I am nineteen. I always forget important things from my family, friends, college and I hurt some people by forgetting about something I said I would do for them or similar. I am not trying to forget things or ignore people; it just happens but then ...

The wedding is planned, I have even ordered my dress but I'm becoming more and more insecure in my relationship because of my boyfriend's actions

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I really need some advice. I am 30 and engaged. We are supposed to be getting married mid next year. My fiancée and I have been together for nine years. However for the past year I have been feeling less and less secure in the relation...

Struggling to forget the threesome she had in the past....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months now and we are still and I hope will always be together. I actually am wanting to marry her some day. In the beginning through general conversion we found out something about each other such ...

My boyfriend has stopped talking to me since I got a job, am I too independent for him now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - My friend and then boyfriend of many years doesn't talk to me anymore because I have a job now at first he would tell me I love you at the end of our conversations on the phone now he just doesn't answer the phone his mom lies and says honey he just ...

I like my friend, I don't like his uncle tagging along

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Ok, so I have a male neighbor, younger than me, that I have been spending a lot of time with since I moved up the street 6 months ago. Before I became a neighbor, we were casual friends, as he brings his grandmother into the beauty shop where I ...

Did I make the right decision to leave my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4444 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a couple of days ago. We were living together for 2 of those years and frankly I was beginning to despise him. I'm not sure why I have so much anger towards him. He was really expressive with his love, always ...

Do you think something is up with this unusual lodger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - i need some help and its not the usual stuff. i had to take on a lodger, i got contacted and put someone up and he moved in on the monday for 3 wks, the 1st day (mon) he gave me the rent, he went home on the fri came back on the sun and then didnt ...

Every time a budding relationship ends I get more depressed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4441 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Hi there I am really suffering in many ways. I was seeing a guy after a very bad break up which led myself and partner abroad only to realise that we were not compatible living together. It was heartbreaking. I went back to uk he stayed in ...

My friend keeps devouring my food...help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

26 September 2012 (M) - My friend Bridget drives me absolutely crazy with her eating habits because she is almost ALWAYS sponging off my food. It doesn’t matter if she just had a meal as long as food is around she always wants a bite or a sip or a few of whatever I’m ...

First Run In With A Narcissist

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - I Love My First Run In With A Narcissist By: raingirl14 Written on September 20th, 2012 We all look for that soul mate in life, a person we connect with intellectually, physically and spiritually. It's a basic human desire, something that e...

Is he being honest or is this his way of trying to end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Over a month ago I met this guy in a bar. He seemed like a nice guy but I was not particularly physically attracted to him and I was only recently out of a six year relationship at the time and only looking for superficial relationship (so hot guys ...

Should I contact the girl I'm jealous of?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over 6 years now. After all this time i am still incredibly in love with him and the feeling just doesn't seem to fade away at all. we have moved in together a few months ago, i us...

Messed up real bad! Need help and advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

26 September 2012 (M) - Hello! I am new to this but I am trying to get all the help that I can get at this point. Well here it goes. Four days ago my fiancee and I got into a little fight at a wedding and left there right away which turned into a bigger fight down the ...

I always think about my ex's in my relationships and I can never be satisfied with the present, and its stopping me from falling in love! What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - I don't know what's wrong with me, but please help me out! When I start dating a new guy, I always think about my exes and I don't feel happy because I'm thinking of/comparing him to the previous guy. It's like I can never be satisfied with the ...