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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:So there's this guy. I met him about 3 months ago on a friday at an event. It was a big weekend with tons of events and we kept bumping into each other. We talked about many things and really connected. A few days latter I found him on facebook and wrote him a private message (I never write on walls) about a movie he recommended he answered but with noting that allowed me to continue the conversation. Two weeks later, he invited me (and many other people) to an event where I went with some friends. He was VERY shy which was out of character from the first time I saw him. We still talked a little bit and the very next day he shared a link with me on facebook about something we discussed. Since then, he often share links to things he found that might interest me (articles, pictures...). That tells me that sometimes he sees stuff that makes him think about me and I see that as a good sign.However, I always comment on the links and try to get him talking a little bit, it never works, he'll either not answer or give answers that don't allow for further conversation. I don't know what to make of all of this. What do you think?
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reader, emilia80  +, writes (29 September 2012):
Hi,I am just going to give you an honest answer, as I have often been in similar situations in the past, and I want to save you the heartache. The truth is this guy is not really interested in you, or at least not in the way or as much as you would want him to be. I know it sounds like a cliche, but 'he is just not that in to you'. When a guy is interested, he is interested, and he shows it, he will chase you down, he will ask for your e-mail, your phone number, and he will ask you out. What do you think of his behavior? Well, what does it mean when you yourself behave like this with a guy? In other words, what does it mean when a guy sends you fb messages, and sometimes you respond and sometimes you don't? You are not that interested in him, right? Because if you were, you would always reply to his messages, and you would find away to allow for more conversation. The guy you met 3 mos, has got other things going on, there might be other women, and you might just be one of the women he is talking to. This is my thought. Just don't lose too much time thinking about this, instead invest more time into meeting a guy that is actually interested to get to know you.
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