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writes:last week i said to my boyfriend that maybe we should break up but i was stupid for saying it i just thought it would make him happier. ever since i said it things haven't been the same, he doesn't trust me anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore because it won't work if he doesn't trust me. how can i get him to trust me again? i can't be without, he's the first guy i've been in love with. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 September 2012):
The point is though, why did you say you wanted to break up with him? There must have been a reason that you said that, and it means that there is a problem with the relationship. I suggest that you sit down and really think about whether this is right for you. If he was really the right guy, you wouldn't have said that.
Also, whilst I know he's your first love and that it can seem like he's 'The One', there's a really good chance that he's not, so don't think you have to stay with him just because he's the 'first one you've been in love with'. Most of us have all been there before, and most have realised that there are more suitable people elsewhere.
What was it that caused you say what you did?
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