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Archived questions from: June, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We broke up over a misunderstanding! I didn't cheat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - hey im jenny 18 , iv been with my bf for a year and a half, the other day on the 23/6 somethin happened, wen my bf asked me abou this guy i met in , there was a misunderstandin, he asked abt that guy who lived in germany, so in my head al i ...

Is this normal to feel upset after sex or a hook up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I had sex for the first time this week with a guy who is three years older then me. I really liked it and he was so sweet about it but we aren't dating and there are storys of him being a player but I let him do it anyways. It's been two days since ...

I know he was a jerk, but I don't FEEL he was a jerk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I have serious problems letting go of a guy, who I know (rationally) was a jerk! But I love him so much, and I feel bad all the time. I mean, he was jealous of my past, and because of that, he called me names and was verbally/emotionally abusive to ...

Questions about cheating and ex-wives and other things.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Maybe you can help me interpret these remarks made by my Ex-wife. It has bothered me and I know I should just leave it alone but still, I would like to know. When your Ex tells you that their new Man is the best ever (cheating partner turned new BF) ...

It seems to me that we will never change our men. Take them as they are.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I have been reading everyone’s posts and I am new to this but it has helped me already and I feel my husband is not as bad as some. I have been married for 20 years and I have a daughter with cystic fibrosis. This has caused an immense strain on our ...

I love my parents and I love my boyfriend but I can't have both!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 24, and i've been in a great relashionship wit my boyfriend he is 42 my parents hate him because of the age difference and they think he is wrong for me but to be honest he is wonderfulllll,i Love him so much he really cares about me and ...

I made a big mistake by having sex, my fling started to ignore me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - had a fling with a guy for 2months who recently chatting up a girl in front of me on the street 2 weeks ago, and has the cheek to call me asking if he can see me cos he wants sex. so i told to f off then he said don't talk be talking to me that, ...

I refuse to be a walking doormat!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I been dating a guy for almost 2 years. We had a lot of problems because of him. Recently, a friend of his asked him to let a girl from another country stay with him for a few days. She came here looking for a career, and it turned out a scam. So, ...

From "Too Good to be True" to not answering my calls. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I have been dateing this guy of the late 3 months. when i met him I questioned why he wanted to date me. He has dated lots of beautiful women and is Friends with pro football players and nba players Me im just the girl from the neigborhood. I just ...

I gave him a love bite and now he's acting all weird

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Im so upset rite now, Im having problams with a guy im sort of seeing but where not in a relationship but sleeping together, anyway a few days ago i gave him a love bite and obviously he noticed it, it wasnt huge and could hardly notice it, ...

My man is defensive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - my boyfriend i have been together for two years now and we just recently just moved in everything is good.i have problem with hem every time i ask hem why he gets so defensive whenever i ask somthing about hes exwife he gets realy mad he doesnt want ...

The sex in our relationship is too good to lose......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - hi, my boyfriend and i have the best sex i have ever had in my life. always passionate and honestly he is pretty kinky, bit of a freak. but.... i think we've broken up tonight.!! we fight so much now we barely have any sex, but is more intense ...

I'm worried I'm not pleasing my boyfriend enough in bed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - i dont know why but im worried im not pleasing my boyfriend enough in bed. he seems happy with me, he gets an erection just by me kissing him and he never loses his erection, is that a good sign ? and he usually always climaxes when we have sex...

I don't want to break up with him but I cant stand feeling like he has gone off me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I am 17 years old and have been with my bf for about 6 months. I really like him but every so often it's almost as though he's gone off me but anytime I ask he says everythings fine. I feel like I'm just paranoid but a lot of the time I text him ...

My feelings for my father are verging on hate and I feel nothing towards my mother. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - This is a bit of a strange question, and I feel awful about it, but I'm 18 and I don't think I've ever properly loved my parents. This isn't by any means just a recent thing, I've felt this way my entire life. Whenever either of my parents have ...

I kissed another man, but then my boyfriend found out about him! Do I keep the new man or try to get back with my boyfriend?

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30 June 2010 (F) - hi i am a 19year old girl.i was in love with a guy for around 5years.he too loved me a lot.but now things are going wrong.nowadays our communication ends up in fight.he uses literally bad words at me.i hate it.but in some corner of my heart i feel ...

Why is my girlfriend so secretive over her phone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Hello. Ok let's get into this straight away. I am in a relationship and its going well. We are in love and going to be having a baby in Oct. Not married but we are strong how we are. I Don't know why but my GF always has a secretive mind. For...

I want this relationship to work but his age is creating a problem for us in the bedroom

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 41, I'm 24. We've been together 2 years. I go to Uni so we see each other for a month or so at a time, then we are apart for a month or 2. I love him very much. When I met him i thought he is my perfect man in so many ways and i co...

One night romance with co-worker gone bad.....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I have an office mate. He is my crush and I did everything so that he will knew it. One night. He invited me to join clubbing with his friends. After that, he took me back to my place. He wanted to stay for a while so I let him. We started to ha...

Girl thing gone bad? But why? Where do I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - I've been going out with my, as of last week, ex girlfriend for about 3 years now. She broke it off. I've been in bad relationships and understand most problems. I'm a very nice guy...and everyone says too nice...bringing her flowers just casue its ...

Interferring mother making our relationship problems 10 times worse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for over two years on and off. We are both 22 now. We have had our issues, he is a mummys boy, he thinks his mum is amazing. which is great, exept his mum hates me with a passion. We have had our ups and downs in the...

I am worried my colleague is suicidal, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Afternoon aunts and uncles. I need some advice about a colleague of mine. Over the last few months she keeps talking about suicide and killing herself. She even asked what is the best way to kill yourself. At first I thought it was just attenti...

I didn't mean to act uninterested; how do I make him come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Ok. A guy liked me for about a year. Shortly after he started liking me, I realized I liked him too. As the year passed, the feelings grew but since I'm generally a shy person, I never really responded to his staring/attempts to communicate. From...

What did this dream I had about my boyfriend mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - hi im an 18 year old female ,a few months ago i had a dream where my boyfriend who is 22 was just standing there in the pitch black with a heavy mist passing behind him , he looked lifless and pale.. he is a heavier guy about 210 lbs. in my dream he ...

Should I stay in this relationship and if so do you have ideas on what I/we can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Me and my girlfriend have had a roller coaster of a relationship...we are at a point now where we fight all the time and I have resorted to reading articles about how you know you are in a toxic relationship or not...so i went through and answered ...

I have found out my boyfriend has been lying to me for nearly a year, I'm scared there could be even more he is hiding!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a little lost as to which dirction to turn. My boyfriend lied to me. Everyday, for nearly a year. He told me that he lost his licence because he never converted his international licence to an Australian one about 1 year ago. I recently ...

Will he choose me in the end over his other girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - im dating a guy who has a girlfriend already he's been with her for about a year and i knew but i let my feelings get in the way and i told him i wanted to be his girlfriend too. so we been dating a while im really falling for him and want him to ...

B/f too possessive of me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - hi i am a 19year old girl in relationship with a guy for the past 5years.we both loved each other a lot. but for the last few months we are fighting so often.he uses bad words like hell.i couldnt bear this.i know he is too possessive on me...

I just can't seem to get a hold of my boyfriend!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - So I've been seeing this guy for approx 2 months now (physically, more like a month and half because I did some traveling in between). I don't want to pressure him or sound like one of those girls who freak out on little things, but there are times ...

My girlfriend is pregnate with another mans baby... what do I do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend really love eachother... A While back we split up.. and she was with another dude.. and didnt think we'd ever get back together, though she tried. We've been back together now for about two months.. and she just told me that ...

Will my second chance end before it has a chance to begin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - After not talking or seeing an ex I cared about for over 10 years we recently reconnected with each other. By chance both of us are currently single but she is going through a divorce right now. We started talking and it as if we were never apart. ...

I know he is no good for me and I need to stay away but I cant get him out of my head, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Hello, i need help, or an advice maybe....i am tired of crying for this boy and i trully love him but something is wrong..few months ago he and i fought because he saw me talking with a boy he doesnt like but it is my friend...the boy i love was my ...

Dating for 2 months but now he stood me up, what is going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I have been going out with this guy for about 2 months and everything has been very well. He is very nice, takes me out a lot, to good places and stuff. I have been to his aptm several times and meet some of his friends. However last week I received ...

Help - Relationship Falling Apart -I Love My Girlfriend, But She Is an Irresponsible Slob

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Help. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for just over three years. We have been living together in an apartment for almost two of those three years. I am 25 and she is 21. Things seem to be slowly falling apart. I almo...

Boyfriend doesn't make my low self esteem any better!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I have a low self esteem but i don't think that my boyfriend makes it any better. My boyfriend is a beautiful boy. He's the kind of guy any girl would love to be with (on the outside of course) he's tall blonde with beautiful glossy blue eyes with a ...

Anger or abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - hi everybody, i've been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now although i think we just broke up for real. and i think i want to break up but for some reason i cant bear to be without him and i have a panic attack and freak out when we're cl...

It's been rocky for the last while

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i met about 8 months ago and has been together ever since. Im his first girlfriend, so i feel kinda honored. But, the thing is, he lives in Missouri and I live in North Carolina. We've been so much in love an...

Is our long distance relationship over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - My long distance girlfriend said that she doesn’t love me the same way as when we first met 3 months ago. My feelings for her are as strong as ever and ive also got a plane ticket to see her in October. Ive asked her to judge me in person when I ...

After eight years he says we're just close friends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Please advise me what to do! No matter what I do, my boyfriend seems to think we're just very close friends. But that is not how it appears to me or to other people! We've been seeing each other since 2002, and he practically lives at my apartmen...

Is he maybe having regrets about telling me he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for seven months now and just recently he told me he loved me. He's known for about three months that I loved him so hearing him say that, and knowing I'm the first girl he's ever said that too was a wonderful ...

Should I leave him with that girl he doesn't know or stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month. He's 14 and im 13. just a day before at nught when i was sure we were meant to be together. he tells me he got another girl pregnant. and then he said that it was a few months ago. tha...

He had a bet that he could last a month without liking me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - the guy i talk about (pretend name) - S, not the nicest looking, on the chubby side. the girl who i mention - L, a mental girl who asked him for sex when he was 10 and then asked a girl for sex. okayy x soo. this all started back in january...

My husband spoiled his ex'es, and now I have to help pay the debts! Should I ask his mom for financial help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - My husband and I are in dire financial straits. My husband has a big fault; he is too generous. It will most definitely help him get into heaven but it's not helping much here......right now. He was took to the cleaners by an ex wife and then a ...

His ex is forcing him to chose between his son or me and now he isn't contacting me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, I met a guy off a very well known dating site and we hit it off straight away, we became very close in three weeks to the point where we even told each other we loved each other, I know silly really when we hadn't even met before ...

Constantly fighting, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little under 2 years now, next week it will be 2 years and for the past 3 or 4 months we've been having major problems. I don't know what to do because i have no one else to talk to. I don't have as many ...

Why won't he date me when we are having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Hello, I had been having one night stands with a guy from work for about 5 years . It was so painful because he would always say he didn't love me and then we would have a row and and I would try so hard to forget about him that I ended up seeing ...

After becoming angry about her past that I just now found out about, she is depressed and can't get over it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - Me and my girl friend are in a wonderful relationship for last 2 years. Only recently i found out through her emails that, she shared a casual relationship with a few men before she dated me. This was a long kept secret so i got angry and vented out ...

The baby's father is ignoring me

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29 June 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years...he cheated on me once at the start but i forgave him...i found out he has been telling somother girl he loves her and they talk all the time....he said he was sorry and again...like an idiot...i forgave ...

He's working again but I don't understand where his money goes

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29 June 2010 (F) - I just don't understand thing sometimes. Me and my boyfriend have been together for years. He lost his job about 7 months ago which wasn't a big deal since we are both in school and I had a job. So for 6 months I had to pay for everything which ...

Where did our sex life go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - Hi I need help!! I have been with my gf for about 4 and a half years. For the first 3 years we had a great sex life. We were ripping each others clothes off and experimenting with things ive never experienced in a relationship before. 18 mo...