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writes:Hi,me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month. He's 14 and im 13. just a day before at nught when i was sure we were meant to be together. he tells me he got another girl pregnant. and then he said that it was a few months ago. that he bearly found out that morning. annd that they were both drunk. he told me he doesnt even know that girl. and i started crying myself to sleep. idk if i should stay with him or leave him.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (30 June 2010):
 There are so many issues with this situation that I don't even know where to begin. *sigh*
You're only 13--you do not need to tie yourself down to a BOY who is about to be a parent. The fact that at 14 he's getting drunk and having unprotected sex with someone he barely knows says a lot about who is he and I think you need to judge him by his behavior and not his words. He's not ready to be a dad, and you're not ready to be in a relationship with a teenage father. His life is about to get a lot more complicated and if you stay with him, yours will, too.
You've only been together a month. In the grand scheme of things, that's not a long time at all. Let him go on his way. Whether he goes to the other girl is not important; what's important is that you don't screw your life up by getting involved in a situation that you aren't ready to handle.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (30 June 2010):
 Get to know him better.........you've only known him for a month! See what kind of person he is and if he's worth being friends with. What happened in the past is in the past, it doesn't matter now. He made a mistake by sleeping with a girl he didn't know very well and the pregnancy was an accident but he didn't kill anyone! If you get to know him as a person and you find that you like and care for him, it won't matter, you may even want to be supportive of his role as a daddy. He cannot turn his back on this child if that girl decides to have the baby so prepare yourself to share him with the baby.
I say give him a chance, get to know him better and then decide what to do. I hope this helps a bit hun:)
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