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Archived questions from: 9 June, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What is this female manager's problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - I’ve been working at the place for about a month now. But when I first started most of the people didn’t really like. And one day the female manger asked me if I wanted to work nights and she made sure to say that the male manger works at night and ...

Is he cheating, gay, or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - Hi, please someone help! It's driving me crazy! Basically, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years... Things were so good to begin with, we did everything together. He stopped seeing his friends a few months before we got together because ...

Long term relationship for 8 years but am thinking of others

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - I just want to find out if this is normal or... something else? I have been in a long term serious relationship for the past 8 years but lately I have been thinking about other people. One person in particular. It is someone I used to like and we ...

Got myself into a dilemma but did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. He is a Muslim and I am converting to Islam. We have been together for just over a year and have been having pre-marital sex. I have been a bit upset and ashamed of this for some time as I know it is wrong. I f...

Can someone help me figure out how my strange partner's mind works?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - Im with ths guy 4 2yearz nw.we got a baby gal 2getha.my bfs ex tries everythng to break us up.cumn to my joint to bring maintanance letters 4 the kids he got by her.shes just everything bad.my bf whom i dnt knw is scared of her or sumthn, plays like ...

Do I dig and dig and get to the bottom of it all, or leave it for an easy life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - Should I tell my fiance what I know, or leave it? OK this is a bit convuluted so bear with me. I met my fiance James through a friend from work called Lisa. I knew Lisa for a few years before meeting her friend James and, as you do at work, she ...

Can I carry on with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (M) - I Met my girlfreind where( i was her first boyfreind) i work and we have been with each other nearly seven months since christmas.! the first few months were going well but lately i have seen her true self.! At first when we went out if ever there ...

.why so hot now so luke warm

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

9 June 2010 (M) - I have been dating a girl for the last four months, we have known each other 3 years. I am 39, she is 26. I have 5 kids , she has one but he is only with her during summer. She went really fast..pushed relationship for first four months...telling...

Boyfriend seperated for 5yrs and still no divorce and now we have a child. what should I do?

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9 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I been dating for almost a yr now and we have a 3month old lil boy together. we use to date before and he has been seperated for 5 yrs now and supposably getting a dissolution so we can start our lives together and still nothing has ...

What would you do about the sister's visit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - Hi guys I have had a really tough time being with my man, although things between us a mirculously fine now. We have come through the storm! When you read this you may think I am a martyr or perhaps a fool, but now things really are OK. My man le...

I cant bear to see her with someone else...but she doesn't return my feelings

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (M) - Hey. A couple of years ago, I started talking to a girl that was in my class. She was in a relationship with a very controlling and hurtful guy. I somehow became the person she turned to everytime she felt bad, or was hurt by the guy she went out...

My ex has a girlfriend and she is pregnant so I want to leave him for good, but I need advice on how to do it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - i been being with my ex for a while and i just found out that he's still with his GF and that she's prego.. he doesnt know that I know yet.... what amazes me is that when he come over he act's like nothing we get along great, he doesnt try to ...

My ex suddenly lost interest in talking to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (M) - My ex broke up with me 3 months ago. I implemented NC and a month later she writes telling me how she misses me incredibly and wants to know if I've been thinking of her since she's been thinking about me. She continued to contact me often on afte...

How can I make him realise I am the one for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - I've been involved with someone for five years I love him soooooo much. He loves me too but we've never committed to each other. In the beginning we were amzing friends that grew deeper now five years later we barely speak. Ive been fighting for us ...

Is he getting sprung?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - Okay so my bf always wants me to give him head I give him head more then we have sex, he say's he loves they way I do it, Is he getting sprung????...

I love my partner very much but I am worried he will never ask me to marry him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years we moved into together last Oct. I love him very much but I feel like he will never ask me to marry him. I know the past is the past but he was with someone for 8 years and never had any intenetion of marry ...

Should I try and find the spark with him or should I leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

9 June 2010 (?) - My bf has got everything I want in a relationship except... there is no spark, he can feel it but I cant! Should I risk all of this just to get that spark or must I live with it... a good man like this is hard to find. :(...

Apparently I have made him paranoid because of the porn I have been watching!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - Hello i am in need of some advice. My partner and i have been together for 4 years and have 2 children together, 3years and 6months, and recently we have been arguing a lot. Since having my second child i promised myself i'd get out more and have...

What is this guy playing at? And should I invite him to my flatwarming party?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - I need help with this guy (lets call him andy) I first met andy when he came to my flat with two of his friends for a party, i spent the whole time getting a chat on with andy and eventually andy and his friend got up to leave but invited me and m...

Cant talk to boyfriend about this because he said he will leave me if I do? Help please!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - Ive been seeing a guy for about 5 months now, long distance. Ive always felt a bit untrusting of him. He voluntarily told me the other day that his ex who recently got out of a mental hospital contacted him and wanted to "get ice cream with him". H...

Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - I am trying to decide whether to stay with my husband of 20 years. We have four children together, ages 4 to 13. I just am not in love with him anymore. I can honestly look at him and feel empty. When I told him this, he was devestated. He ...

How do I make the right decision? I have to choose between my boyfriend and caring for my mother

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - I hope you guys can help... At the end of last year I had started living with my boyfriend of 5 years in New Zealand (he moved out there a year prior to me to get established) but then my Mum got cancer. I told my boyfriend that I wanted to come ...

Girlfriend not making contact - do I chase it or leave it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

9 June 2010 (?) - Here's the situation. My g/f of just over a year is finishing her college course at the moment, and pretty stressed by it. She hasn't been in touch for several days (and no response to messages). This itself wouldn’t bother me (I know what that ...

How do I know whether to believe my fiance?? I found 100's of porn and dating sites, but he blames a virus!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - Well basicly last night i accidently stumbled across porn that had been viewed on the computer...I had to know where it had come from so i looked and it was from my fiances acount...hoping i'd made a mistake i checked again and to my horror found ...

My sister's tragic death and my parents' misdirected blame at my bestman for it are causing me strife

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (M) - My friend was lived with my sister for three years. My parents never liked him and gave my sister a lot of problems over him. My poor sister died of a heart attack. It was tragic. She died in her sleep right next to him. He was asleep and ...

She's feeling like she doesn't have time to do her own things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 June 2010 (M) - So for the first time, I (31) am dating a girl(33) that I am head over heals in love with. It has only been 4 months, but we have known each other for about ten years. Our relationship has been incredible. We get along so well, that I can't ...

Still in love with my ex and don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - I just don't know what to do. When I first met my ex it was love at first sight we starting going on great dates, and I lost my virginity to him but it felt right and he was comfortable with it. From the moment we met we were bf/gf and even though I ...

Lost my first love after two years. Confused, hurt, and scared. What in the world do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 June 2010 (M) - Recently the girl I've been with for two years, minus a four month period in the middle, left me. Up until a few weeks ago she was telling me she needed me, was in love with me, etc. Then one night, she just said we can't be together. The very ...

Why does my ex treat me like dirt and should I move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago. And I know it was a good decision, yet I still think about him a lot. He holds grudges and it's so apparent in the way he treated me. I want us to be together. He has his good and bad traits just like me. ...

What more do I have to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 June 2010 (M) - Me and this girl have been dating for 11 months now and ive been doing everything i can to make her happy, but sometimes i feel like im doin all the work and she is just going along with the ride. For example im always the one going to see her...

Am I that horrible a person to judge so wrongly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - I am 18, he is 20. I am 114lbs and 5' 1 1/2" tall, he is 250+ (somewhere around there) 6' 2". Already there are differences. What scares me, what really scares me, is the fact that recently I am pulled between two things I want. To be with him. To ...

We are in an argument...how do I fix it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 June 2010 (M) - Hi, im 19 and my girlfriend is 18 and we've been together for a little over a year now. We have always had a very good relationship for the most part with only a couple bumps along the way. Lately it seems like she has been taking me for grantid and ...

Help! We've been fighting lots!

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9 June 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been fighting alot lately i love him and i want to be with him and he says he love me we've been together going on 4years what should I do...

Every week she brings home a strange man she's just met!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 June 2010 (F) - im really scared for my friends safety and i dont know what to do. i used to try the soft approach but ive now started telling her exactly how it is and she is still being so stupid. She is 22 and has had 67 sexual partners. we live together an...

Have you ever been through this and how did you know it was real?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 June 2010 (M) - Girls and guys have ever been in a relationship with someone and they loved being around you and a few months into it they broke up with you because they weren't ready for a serious relationship. Its not ony that, but whenever we were apart she ...

I'm a girl who met a girl....

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9 June 2010 (F) - so basically, im a girl and i met a girl. we got on as friends. i started having feelings for her and told her. she got all weird about it and started distancing herself from me. then all of a sudden she started wanting to hang out with me, just the ...