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He had a bet that he could last a month without liking me!

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Question - (29 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *udeywoodeyrocks writes:

the guy i talk about (pretend name) - S, not the nicest looking, on the chubby side.

the girl who i mention - L, a mental girl who asked him for sex when he was 10 and then asked a girl for sex.

okayy x soo. this all started back in january, S told me that he likes me, we got talking loads, then he told me that he loves me, i fell for him and soon enough i felt love for him too. since then there are times when i treat him like shit, and soo we stop being friends. then we become friends again. this has happened several times. except this time i didnt do anything, i just logged onto msn and he said goodbye. i said i dont understand what just happened, he said you are L, i dont want another one of her. so the next day i said hi to him on msn, he said hi, i said you okay? he said no, today i thought i had lost you forevaaa but that was just a dream. i said what i dont understand. then he said i dont want you, i dont need you, i dont care for you or about you, you are here and i want you gone. i said well then i will go, i will stay out of your way at skool, then he said thank f**k. i cried me eyes out for about an hour. i love him sooo much. then today i found out that there was a bet going on between him and his friend, he has to last a month without liking me, if he does it then his friends gives him a pound if he doesnt then he gives his friend a pound. i dont like to be messed about. you see i love him soo much. he makes me soo happy and when he's like this i just want to end everything.

what should i do? move on? keep trying? give up? i dont know what to do.

please help.

signed; hopelessly in love.

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A female reader, judeywoodeyrocks United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2010):

judeywoodeyrocks is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you . thats what i will do. i dont see the point bothering with him. he makes me really sad and i already have a depression problem (which i get from my mum). you messes up my head i love him but what is the point in trying anymore.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (30 June 2010):

Oh sweetie, please ditch this useless little boy. You've admitted that you've treated him badly, but you both worked hard to overcome that. But for him to actually put a bet on with a friend and then go out of his way to really hurt you is very cruel, and shows him for the immature young boy he really is. You do not need a guy like this in your life. You really don't. He's playing with you, and hurting you. And that's very unfair and cruel. And this bet for a pound really is the mark of a total loser. Block contact with him and really work hard to get over him. I promise you that there are some many better guys out there.But don't bother with this one anymore. He's really very cruel.

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