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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend says we're only friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - for the first time in my life I am so seriously discouraged, I wonder what I can do to cheer myself up. They say publish or perish, but while you try to publish, your relationship perishes. Men run away from women struggling to make it in the ...

Ex promised to go 1/2 on baby supplies but now he doesn't want to pay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Me and my ex are having a row about money and maintainence payments four our 4 month old son. Basically, we split when I was pregnant but he told me he would help me raise our child and pay his way. We agreed to go splits on baby stuff and he would ...

Am I doing MYSELF a disservice being with a wonderful man, who I love and who loves me but has no apparent time for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Ok, here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been together for several months now. We just got over a fight which kept us apart for about 2 weeks, but we seem to slowly be returning back to normal. The problem is, that back to normal still isn...

Exhausted at being Mrs. Transportation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - my boyfriend lost his vehicle over 8 months ago so ive been taking him back and forth to work when he is schedule he works 10 minutes away from where we live and writes his own schedule for work when i have to be at work at 10am and my job is near ...

I know that he loves me, but he doesn't spend time with my girls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I am a 35 year old single mom with 2 girls. I have been dating a man that is 11 years younger than me for about 2 years now. I know that he loves me, but he doesn't spend time with my girls or come to any of my family gatherings. I get along great ...

Should I ask him why he stop calling me beautiful or babe?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Hey well my bf used to always say "morning babe" or "morning beautiful" but lately he hasnt been he just says "morning". I miss him calling me that stuff do you think it would be ok if i asked why he stoped? Its only been like 3 or 4 days but i ...

Sex life died in the first year of marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - "OP Own Title" This is my third marriage. The first two were when I was quite young so I have definitely gotten over them. Then ten years ago, my daughter and only child died and shortly thereafter, my sig other of 20+ years dumped me for a bar ...

How can make my girlfriend be more open with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - Hello guys I have a big big problem right now, how can I make my girlfriend to be open to me, I'm really confused, she's everything I need from a girl but she never talks and worse she ain't open to me and we have together for almost 2 years now. ...

I don't think my fiance is fit to be a father... but how do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - When I accepted to marry my fiance I knew that I would be giving up the family I have always wanted to have. Our parenting styles and ideas are too conflicted. I love him so much I'm willing to give this up, but recently he has started talking ...

Is he telling the truth or could he be a very good liar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Hey there, So i have quite the problem here and i would really like some opinions on what i should maybe do. Ok so my bf and i have been dating for a little over three months now and i honestly love him so much and have fallin hard for him, i stay ...

Please help me clear my head and pick myself up, I feel like I have lost my world

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13 July 2010 (F) - "OP Own Title" Hiya i need some help clearing my head out. I've not had an easy past couple of weeks. My lifes feels like its gone for all to nothing. I feel in love with a friend of mine but never had the guts to tell him. He, alike me was also ...

Should I stay with him? I feel like he's going nowhere fast.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, he is 30 and still lives at home with his mum he doesn't pay rent, clean up after himself and to be quite honest I'm sick and tired of it. I love him, but I feel like love is not enough anymore. All my ...

Do I fight my corner and stay with him? Or do you think he will eventually get back together with his ex wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a man whos wife left him for another man and they set up home together, with a very large sum of money given by my b/f and this was half of the proceeds of their house so she could by herself and the b/f something. She ...

Is he just being nice, or is he confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - So confused! Dated this great guy for several months. Things were going great. I think he got scared b/c he told me he needed to take some time to think about the relationship (he did say he cared about me). After a few days, I get an email ...

How do I bring it up with him that I am unhappy he did not get me anything for my birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating about a year and a half now and my birthday has just gone. All week he had been asking me what I wanted for my birthday and to let him know so he could decide what to get me. However, I haven't received a present. ...

14 years of abuse and I want out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 14 years. He's very abusive both mentally and physically. I want to leave, what do I do?...

Should I marry her and have kids or live alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - Well, my question is probably not that different from most. I had a relationship with a girl for 6,5 years. Around 3 years we broke-up because she wanted to marry and have kids and I just didn't know if I wanted to do that (I already have a s...

Should I get back with son's mom as my heart wants to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - i am 18 n have a 4 yr old child, who i only get to see him once a week, i feel as tho i am in love with my sons mum, but my friends tell me it is because i want the best for my son. should a fallow my heart n ask to get back with her, or should i ...

Should I let my girlfriend decide what to do with a guy hitting on her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I've been helped many times here before and i'm grateful! I got a question..Me and my girlfriend love each other. Our relationship is long distance. She mentioned helping someone and likening him to me. After she helped him carry something, he as...

Is loving two people ok?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - My Ex fiance admits shes in love with a co worker and me. But she wants me to try and work to see if we can get back together after she ended our engagement, canceled our wedding and moved out because of this guy. She said now that she loves me ...

Should I allow him to continue to see me when he has "chosen" another girl over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I had been dating my ex for about 15 months or so. We met online, but we were virtually inseparable. Every moment of our spare time was spent with one another. Alright sex life for what you are capable of on camera/phone. We had planned to meet ...

Wants baby but not marriage? We live together so why cant he marry me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Ok, here goes. I met a really great guy in November 2009 and he moved in with me a week later. It was like magic we got on very well and still do. In January he proposed and in March he told me he wants to postpone the wedding which was booked for ...

Set to be married next month, but things have been quite rocky. Needing advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - Hey, sorry that this is going be to quite lengthy. I apologize for any ranting. Lately my fiancée has been acting completely different than she has in the past. I love her more than I can explain, but have been questioning whether this is the righ...

I don't want my son to have a bad role model in the form of his dad, but then again I don't want to keep my son from having a father! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Hi, So I have a problem with my son's father(20).A few days after he left me he was dating my little sister(14). They were dating for about 5 months, during this time he was smoking dope and had nothing to do with our son.He change into a completely ...

Ex girlfriends panties in my boyfriends drawer. I am shocked! What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Panties of ex gf in the drawer... Hey all, I found penties of ex girlfriend at my boyfriends drower...and I don't know what to do... The problem is that I found it in his bag, which was closed and contained other memorabilia from his ex girlfrien...

He wants me to meet his daughter but I am uncomfortable because his ex (the child's mother) will be staying at his house

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating this man for 9 months. When we met he told me he had been divorced for 2 years after a 20 year marriage but in his Younger days he had a gf who he never married who he had a child with, however he raised this child on his own, ...

Having doubts we can make it work.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and half, he broke up with me back in september because of fight in december he wanted me back and we got back together. now we have been fight lately and he says that my insecurities are pushing him ...

We generally have a wonderful relationship but there are a few things eating away at me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Help! I have been seeing this terrific guy for 1 1/2 years. We are the best of friends and we have so much in common. The thing is friendship grew into love and we have been inseparable pretty much since we met.He is good to me and I am good to ...

I want him back but I don't want to hurt my friend who he is now dating, and I don't want to ruin what we already have

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I loved my boyfriend so much, and I still do however he is my ex now. He claims to have dumped me because we never get to see each other, but two days after the harsh break up he was already in a relationship with my best friend! Now it has been ...

Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship and i decided to leave without any notice. I went to my college and met this guy there. Me and him hit it off great then my parents started getting annoyed with us so they kicked me out of the house and i ...

Cheating with sexual texts, visting female friends etc

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - The guy I'm seeing for the last year and half has texted someone sexual text message asking if she was still coming over and then if she would"---" on his face"..There has been some other questionable actions, Ie "visiting A friend from high school ...

Why hasn't he contacted me in three days and what should I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been "seeing" each other for six months, most of that time he has been deployed. For the entire six months we talk almost every day - if he got really busy for a day or two he would send brief notes and say he was busy and ...

He said if I cried during sex because of the pain it is all on me because he is not stopping!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - This is a conversation between me and my ex. hes 19 and im 16. we were talking about visiting each other, we live in different states now, and he is coming here at the end of the month. please read! him: "how many guys have you had sex with since me...

Intelect and the uneducated.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I recently met a woman who I'm not sure I should be dating. Here are some facts about us. She is beyond a masters degree, I have a HS diploma. She is highly intelectual, very smart. I am not the brightest bulb in the box. She is Jewish, I am ...

He doesn't think a long distance relationship will work and I will cheat, but I just want us to try!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Ok so I'm leaving for college in 25 days, and I currently am in a relationship with a guy that I truely care about. I believe that we can make a long distance relationship work. I have no doubt in him being faithful to me and I believe I can stay ...

Only 17 years old living a very messed up adult life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I am in a very messy situation. I am 17 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. We have an 11 month old daughter together. He is violent. (Name calling, put downs, death threats, pushed me, broken things) for the past 18 months he ...

Am I subconsciously pushing him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - A few weeks ago i was having serious doubts about my boyfriend. He's a great guy, but i guess you could say he's not "everything i want." I decided to stick with him because i do love him. Now my feelings are pretty much back to normal, but i can't ...

How can I overcome jealousy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend been going out for two months.But I get too jealous when he's talking to other girls. He be saying their beautiful.And how he's thinking how beautiful they are. And yes he compliments me I just want him to talk to me and ...

I'm hesitant to move in with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I've been with my BF for a year now. Great guy, fantastic relationship, respects me a lot, we’ve met each other’s families etc. He’s been talking about living together one day and recently the talk’s gotten serious. He’s got this plan that he’d l...

I'm unhappy in my current relationship and can't stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - so me and my fiance have 2 kids. we just bought a house. but i am so unhappy. i cant stop thinking of my ex bf. i think about him everyday and every night before i go to sleep. i dream about him. i am absoloutly miserable with my current boyfriend i ...

Can you honestly love someone else after having had such strong feelings for someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I broke up with my ex little over two months ago. Things were complicated between us because of jealousy. His jealousy. It was too much. We told each other many hurtful things in the relationship, and sadly, we got into a circle of breaking up and ...

Why would he blow me off and then come back as if nothing happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Hey all, so I started seeing this guy four months ago and we talked about dating, well then he got a letter saying he had to go back to the military and stopped talking to me after telling me that, he didn't have to go until November. However, he ...

My b/f has gone from being a fun,loving and talkative man to a coldhearted, unpassionate and noncommunicative man what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend at Home depot. We both worked there. He is 41 I am 24. There is an age gap but we hit it off I fell for him and he said he loved me. After a couple of months he started treating me badly...I broke up with him and dated other ...

I really want revenge on this shameless, unthankful liar...help?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I was unhappily married for 13 years.I still respect my wife but love was just not there anymore.We have together three beautiful kids.I was more and more sad by time and didn't know what to do.Then two years ago I meet new love of my life.I am 35 ...