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Archived questions from: 9 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How to stop my man from flirting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Hi peeps hope all is well... My question is! How do I get my man to stop flirting with other girls literally infront of me??!! I absolutely hate it, I dont have a clue what the hell to do!! We've only been going out just over a month.. He's the...

Is he committed to the relationship or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months. I just don't feel like he's committed to the relationship. I haven't met his parents, he has never given me a gift (he sent me a text message for my birthday), and he doesn't invite me to meet his ...

Do you think his behavior is unfair to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Hello Guys, Idk where to start. Ive been having relationship for 11months.. and the begining of this relationship everything was perfect..5 months ago, my bf went to his country for his sick granddad and stayed there 2 weeks and this situatio...

My boyfriend cheated on me 4 times, and I kissed another boy. Can we still work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - [Moderator note: the age posted is probably incorrect. Aunts and uncles please respond to this as you would someone younger.] hi, me and this boy had a thing going on (we werent out)but this boy from italy came over for an exchange visit. he li...

My boyfriend keeps making excuses not to have sex with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I don't understand why but for a while now my boyfriend doesn't really want to have sex. When I met him we were like friends with benefits and he always wanted sex. But now he's always giving me excuses saying that he's too tired. I feel so bad cuz ...

We're engaged and pregnant so why would he say something like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - hi, I am engaged and my fiancee and I live together, however I am currently three months pregnant, he say's to me just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you should have children, help me please my thoughts today are very dark and I am ...

Can social services prevent me from seeing my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - my children on child protecton, the socail severs know i have a boyfriend is there any reasons they can stop me seeing him after 3 years. he has no contact with the girls when he comes to see me ...

How can I show affection without seeming clingy or needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 years. Things have been very good in our relationship up until recently. About two weeks ago we had a discussion. He said that he felt as if I didn't love him anymore and that he had felt that way for a few ...

Why do I keep going back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - [OP original title] so i think im falling out of love. the mysterious phone calls from 'his mate' at 2am the stayin out and not coming home the drugs the living at home with your mum at 31 the lack of respect for everyone the lack of conside...

I'm not sure whether I should break up with my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I am having a problem with my boyfriend. He seems unable to be comfortable with my sexual history. I am 22 yrs old. I decided long ago to abstain from sex until i was able to do it under my terms. I had boyfriends and dated guys but i often felt ...

Is my boyfriend taking me for a ride?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now. He never discusses our future together and if i do mention it we always end up in an argument. He says i have nothing to worry about and he knows what he is doing.He hardly takes me out anymore he ...

Is this man I really liked a con, sex addict and fraudster?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - hi i just got back from turkey i fell in love with a beautiful man working on beach and in bars. he wrote me a note to meet him that night, i was shocked as i had not really spoke to him i went and he told me a story about someone conning him for ...

Stay with a controlling man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - My man and i are complete opposites. he is possessive, controlling,jealous and has a short temper. im a free spirit and love my freedom and independence. but when we are not fighting everything is absolutly amazing. the sex is great and when he's ...

Is he cheating with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - one night i was with my boyfriend and his phone started vibrating so i took it and it was a message from a girl he use to talk to. i read the message and she was calling him bae. now this is not the first time she did this. the first time she told ...

My life is out of control!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Let me start with a brief backround. (I was diagnosed with OCD when i was a teen right now i am 25 years old and still suffer with ocd. I am currently going in grad school ; live with my parents, and have a curfew. Also my boyfriend just ended our 5 ...

Does this guy deserve better than me? Or do I deserve better than him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Hey all, I have something quite personal that I'd like to ask you about. At the beginning of the year, I found out the guy I've been involved with for seven years had an emotional affair last year. It wasn't your typical emotional affair. They'd ...

I have found a really great guy but I still have feelings for my engaged friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

9 July 2010 (M) - The Situation: I found my friend from about 5-7 years ago. We were talking but nothing serious just catching up but i somehow caught feelings for him.(When i found him i was in washington and he is in new mexico) I am now in new mexico and we hung ...

Am I meant to mention every guy I've had a thing with before I knew my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Hey guys just wondering if i could have some opinions! Myself and my new boyfriend, both 21 have been together for about 2 1/2 months. Last night he found out (in a conversation between us two where i couldnt lie) about a guy he knows who i had ...

I don't think our sex life is healthy, but he says I have just got sex on the brain!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend just over a year and live with him at his parents. There is always a problem when it comes to sex. I have to wait months each time. I've tried alsorts to get his interest and nothing works. He told me last nig...

I don't understand what she wants!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (M) - i'm in love with 15yrs old girl, but she don't say anything after proposing her, she only say i don't want to say anything about that matter. and previously we just looking at each other but after some day she inform to her brother about me. so what ...

Is he really only mad at me because I stood up for my friend? I cant belive he is acting this way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Long story,here is the short version:dated a guy C for almost 4 years but we split 13 months ago(last yr in June).A couple of mths later I started dating my guyfriend who we should call J and we dated until Feb. of this year.All I can say is that ...

I love my boyfriend but HATE his lifestyle choices!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about three years this time. We dated before from our senior year of high school into college for about three to four years then took about two to three years off due to cheating, lying, and needing to grow up. ...

My boyfriend wants nothing to do with our baby so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend at a mutual workplace and chemistry immediately attracted us together. We have been a couple for one year now. From day 1, he told me that he had two children (twins) and wanted to make sure I still wanted to be in his life. I ...

He refuses to stop smoking pot. How can I get him to stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of 3 years refuses to stop smoking pot. we have argued and argued about it. when we got together he had only smoked it a few times and so had i so it was fine. then about a year ago he started smoking non stop. all day it seemed like, ...

Am I just being blind to his sister's boyfriend's controlling ways?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Last night me and my boyfriend were discussing his little sisters relationship She's 19 and has been with this guy who's 23 for 5 yrs I asked my boyfriend what he thought of their relationship and he said that her boyfriend is a control freak...

My husband is interested in shemales, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - My husband and I have so much love for each other almost 9 yrs. We are a very loving couple in other people's eyes. However, I found out he is interested in shemale two months ago. Not only spending thousands of money to chat with them and even ...

Are the parents being irrational?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - So, this past year, we had Austrians come and visit our school. It's tradition to spend the whole week with them and just have fun. There was one in particular, who stood out for me.. and I wanted to get to know him. I didn't know where it would go, ...

I really like the comfort of having him around but I just can't handle sleeping next him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

9 July 2010 (?) - Hello everyone. I've been in my current relationship for about 10 months. We're up to that stage where we're just getting really comfortable with each other and each other's places. The problem is I can't sleep in the same bed with him. When I wa...

I have written her poem after poem but she still ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - hiya i am madly in love with someone and it kills me to see them with someone else, i wanna be with them but i cant coz i am a girl, and so r they. But i have told them how i feel and from there on in they hate me :'( i have tried talking but she ...