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Archived questions from: 6 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Got something from the chat that I don't get from my b/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years I love him dearly and he does to, he doesn’t show me a lot of attention, most of the time its xbox, football or sex, we never just sit and chat or he never makes me feel special or loved or like he wants me ...

Relationship with a married man who doesn't leave his wife

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - I met a man online. He is still married, but she has moved out of the home. They run a business together and to date they still draw from the same money pot. I have told him from the beginning that my values want a legal separation and/or divorce, ...

Why is she lying? I don't understand why she'd do that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - Ok I am 40years old and I ran into an old friend who is 43. We had not seen each other in 20yrs. So we started dating and all was well. Flowers every week took her on a little vac and we would go out 2 eat 5 days a week all on my $ she then ask me ...

How should a parent Criticize there adult kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - I am a mother with several children one child is adopted and is now an adult. My child is bipolar and we get along better now but there are times after we have been together for several hours or a few days I find myself criticizing her to the point ...

My Girlfriend wants to break up with me because she can't get over the fact I've slept with other people?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - How can I prevent it ending over something I have no control over!? She resents that I had a past life, where admittedly I slept around with many women I could just for kicks and for self esteem. I changed. Meeting her and starting to go o...

Another girl's boyfriend is turning my head from my own boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - Im in a relationship but cant stop thinking about someone else! Ok so Ive been in a relationship for 8 months, its quite serious, and i believed he was 'the one' although now we are over the 'honemmon period' i can see cracks. he's very negati...

How can I deal with my mum so life is easier?

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6 July 2010 (F) - My mum really upsets me and stresses me out. She seems to have a go at me all the time. Like today, she started shouting at me, because I knocked on the door few times, because I though she didn't hear me. And then I asked her to stop shou...

How can I win back my boyfriend and best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - i need help i love my ex boyfriend so much he broke up with me because he couldn face me after he went to someone elses party instead of mine we were going out for a very long time im going nuts with you the thoughts of him and it hurts so so much i ...

Is it really bad to act like a lunatic in front of a possible enemy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - I fell out big time with my partner’s sister almost the first time I met her. She is friends with his ex wife and there was a lot of turmoil in the divorce. The things she said could be described as ill advised if feeling kind, or mischeivious if ...

How can we improve the communication in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. We love eachother very much. We are young, and planning to get engaged in a few months. We both always wanted a long engagement. We are planning to be engaged for about 4 or 5 years. We know what ...

Custody, bad ex and crazy new girlfriend... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, so I have some concerns regarding custody and visitation. As of now my daughter is about to turn three and her father is most likely going to be taking me to court. The past three years he has had very little to do with her, and when ...

I don't feel like I am getting the respect I should from him or am I making too much out of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - Hi I would like your opinion please on these comments my boyfried keeps making to me. To be quite honest I am starting to feel like he has a very low opinion of me at times and I'm wondering if I should tackle him about this. Here are some of the t...

He walked out promising to get in touch the next evening but I haven't heard from him.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my man for 6 months , he moved in a few weeks ago, to keep it short, he was doing a job for my boss, which they argued about, he walked out on me the same evening, promising to talk the next day, he didnt and since then i have had ...

When do I move on and get over this guy? I can't get closure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - Hi all, I recently started dating a new man. He is nice, kind and considerate. I have just come back from holiday with him. We stayed with his family, and it was very intense as they were all scrutinising me, and I felt hugely under pressure. ...

Keep chasing... or what???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - My ex and I broke up half a year ago, a lot of crap went down in example, I asked her to go to prom with me she needed to think about it. I thought I was getting played and stuff so I said screw it, I told this girl who wanted to go with me sure ...

I hate it when other guys chat my girlfriend up over Facebook, how do I cope with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - first thing my partner is the most beautiful girl ever blond, hair blue eyes she`s such a stunner, but theres one thing i hate OTHER BOYS trying to chat her up over facebook. she has a new friend a MALE friend infact, she has told me about him,she ...

I have broken it off because I cant take the lies any more, but really I want him to change so we can be together again...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - Okay so I have been seeing this guy for a year and a half and I do so much for him I give him money and all lately I been asking him to make me his girlfriend, he is talking about he not ready! well everytime I go on his facebook its always ...

Am I just wasting my time with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating now for 3 years, its always been really hard for us because I’m dealing with depression and anxiety which I am seeking professional help for. My boyfriend cheated on me 2 months ago with a prostitute after getting ...

My boyfriend and I are starting to be sexually active, but now despite asking for these things he tells me I shouldnt be like this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - well, me and my boyfriend have been going out now for 3 months and we've started to do some stuff.. however the other day i was giving him a hand job and he just pushed me aeway nd said 'no, babe i dont want you to be like this'. im confused like ...

Why does my ex partner keep behaving this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - Why does he keep hurting me? I recently split up with my partner.I suspected he had been cheating on me with his ex,i had reasons for thinking this, he called me paraniod, depressed and jealous. I was hurt that he had not tryed to reassure me. I ...

Just going through the motions

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - Hi there! I've never used anything like this for advice, but things have gotten to the point where I'll take it where I can get it. I've been dating the same girl for about 2.5 years now, and we live together. For the past several months I ha...

A month ago he proposed but now I'm thinking it was a mistake to say yes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for about two and a half years. Earlier this year, I was relocated for my job and had to move about 2 hours north of where I lived with my boyfriend. The job is pretty demanding, but I try to visit him once a...

My boyfriend lied about EVERYTHING... but I miss him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - So... I am 18 years old and I was dating a guy for about 3 years... in the last year of the relationship things started to go downhill. My parents started to not like him and neither did my friends... I felt amazing when I was with him... like his ...

My boyfriend thinks his daughter is better than my son!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating a man for 1 1/2 years now. We have become best friends and now have fallen in love. We talk about living together for many reasons, first of all because we love each other and we spend so much time together. Secondly, ...

I'm in love but at the same time scared,,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - Hi! Ok this is going to sound very long but I really need the advice! I'm going to be 20 years old in less than 2 months and I have never had a boyfriend before in my life! Let alone kissed a boy. Everytime I'm crushing on some guy, I think I'm in ...

Boyfriend is mad at me and I don't know what to do, help??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been fighting for a little while, i'd say a few weeks. he says that i am becoming distant because of my job which is understandable because i work most of the week. but when i don't work i'm always with him. he says i'm also ...

My male friend (also ex) is shutting me out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - I feel like my male friend is shutting me out and it's making me upset. He is also my ex-boyfriend, but we have been broken up for almost two years now. Obviously I had to stop talking to him for almost a year to get over him (he broke up with me, ...

My boyfriend grossed out because I dated guys of another race

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - ok so this is my first time talking to an expert about this. i can't talk to my family because all they ever do to me is yell,yell, and yell some more. also because my family and i aren't close. ok so the help and advice i need is about my ...

I felt disrespected by what he suggested, and now I'm getting the silent treatment

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - I an married to a 60 y/o man with ED. I am 44. We have toys and he uses them. We live in a travel trailer. We have this friend and we have been intimate with her like 4 years ago. We were swingers but we got out the lifestyle. We both agreed. To ...

My boyfriend had too much fun without me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - Hi aunts. I have a little problem and I don't know where to go at this point. Well as we all know...yesterday was the 4th of July. So me, my boyfriend and a couple of friends and family went to see fireworks and stuff. It was a fun ...

Is this girl serious, joking, is she not into me, or is this some weird teen love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - Hello all cupids and readers=)! Thanks for reading my troubles and it does mean alot your willing to give free time to help so thank you for being amazing. Well lets just say im not exactly the doctor of love and at that would be an understatement. ...

He refused to add me on Facebook, then made everything private, but still texts me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - A boy who has asked me out (we have been out once so far)has refused to add me on facebook, and since I sent my request has made everything private. This is odd right? Is he hiding something from me or am I just being paranoid? He still texts me ...

Help me with my girlfriend and getting her to talk to me please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - Could someone please help me with me current situation with my girlfriend!? We've been going out for almost 3 months and everything has been going great! Until now! Recently she has suddenly stopped sending as many messages to me and when she does, ...

Does my friend like me more than a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - I have this friend who I only really became friends with because of another friend. For the last few weeks I've noticed some things. He always picks on me. He does this to a lot of people, but he does it especially to me. He knows I don't like to ...

If she'll ever come back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - hello thanx for reading this. your advice will surely be appreciated. excuse some of my typing errors. now that my wife found out about my about five minute affair , my life has been hell. i wsa able to hav my position switch so now im home. ...

He cheated on me while I'm pregnant and now the other girl is pregnant too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - I need help to try and get peace with myself. I'm currently 7 months pregnant from my boyfriend who cheated on me a little over a month ago. This girl he went to meet up with in another town is now saying she's pregnant. He stated that he only did ...

Falling in Love with the " Other Guy"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - I need help. I have been with my bf for over 4 years. We live together and everything. Our realtionship was perfect untill he cheated on me 6 months ago. I rightfully cheated right back on him and hooked up with some random. I thought I was over it, ...

Long distance relationship trouble!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - This is a first and i'm not all that great about talking about my emotions etc so forgive me if this sounds terribly stupid. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 and half years, around a year ago she had to move away because her parents had been...