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Archived questions from: 4 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I leave a controlling cop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Help, I am living with a controlling man, who is also a policeman. I own my own house and have told him to leave but he refuses to. He had a messed up upbringing, doesnt speak to his family, has issues beyond belief and is manipulative. ...

Problems with my manager, any suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - recently at work ive been having issues with a manager.. everytime i go into work she tends to boss me around and hurrying me up to do everything fast... im tired of it... she only picks on me.. i found out from another employee. that she told my ...

Found items which may mean my husband is masturbating, he denies it, what do you think??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - please help me, about 3 months ago i found two socks under our bed with what looks a lot like semen stains i questioned him about it he said its not semen! and the other day i found another one screwed up in the wardrobe which again looks like dried ...

Her fooling around... Do I have the right to be angry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - I just found out that my girl fooled around with this guy from work. We had known each other at the time but it was before we started dating. It just repulses me to know about it. He is a truly disgusting guy. She got checked for STDs because of him ...

How do I turn his "I love you but am not in love with you" into love???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend says he loves me but he's not "in love with me." We've been together for four years. He knows that I AM in love with him but i can't tell him how i really feel. what should i do? and don't say "leave him" 'cause i won't. Please, ...

When there is a history of lying, how can you rebuild trust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - Please excuse the length, but I really need some advice. I've been dating the same woman for over 5 years and recently we've had some serious troubles. To make a long story short, I recently moved away for graduate school (just 2 hours away) and ...

I don't know what my Turkish lover wants......Is he genuine???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - I am a 22 (nearly 23) yr old British female and I am very confused right now.... I have been meeting up with a Turkish 20 yr old male who lives in the same town as me for nearly 2 weeks. I know he does not require money as his family are in the ...

My abusive boyfriend won't leave, and I can't pay the bills on my own. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Okay, I really need help. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, about 3 years ago he cheated on me and I decided to stay in the relationship. Well, since he cheated I just lost so much respect for him and he has lost a whole lot of respect ...

Help! I don't want to be a pscyho gf!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Hello, I have been daatingmy boyfriend how's in the military for almost two years. About a year ago I found some stuff that I thought to be unfaithful. (in my book) 1. He was texting another female friend (that he had already revealed to me th...

How did he let go so easily?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* How did this happen? My boyfriend and I had been together 9 months. We'd known each other and been really in love for almost 2 years. I gave him absolutely all of me. We really were great together and always had fun and ...

Help! Sex with my bf is a chore!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - I'm not sexually attracted to my boyfriend any more and it's really getting me down. When I'm alone and I think about sex it turns me on, I even have erotic dreams but when I put him in the situations its like all feelings of passion and want fade. ...

How do I prevent arguments before they start?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of a year and four months are going on holiday for a week very soon however as of late small things he does seem to be annoying me more than usual. Also we have very contrasting ideas about what makes a 'good' holiday as we come ...

My wife is acting crazy! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - Hi folks, I am in a serious situation. I married a girl who was my girl friend for 2 years. And we used to love each other dearly. In between due to family problems we needed to spend 6 months apart. Then last year we got married. All of a sudden ...

He hasn't apologised this time...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - When my boyfriend gets upset or angry over something, he sometimes takes it out on me. This is something he's always been aware of and normally he makes an effort not to do it and apologises if he does. But this time he hasn't. At the very beginni...

My first serious relationship and she's already broken my trust

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - Hello guys, I'm new on here, first time I've used anything like this. Now to get to the point.. I've been with my girlfriend now for 5 and a half months. It's been going amazing. I've never felt so close to someone before and she tells me ...

Should I go on holidays with a pedo uncle?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I wrote on here before about my uncle. This is the link to it. This tells you everything from the beginning. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/inappropriate-touching-from-an-uncle.html Well it hurts me so much that my pearents are on his side...

Are all men like this?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

4 July 2010 (?) - Me and my bf are almost every time fighting over the same darn thing. SEX. If we didn't have sex in a while like for example in a week he starts telling me that this isn't normal, that we should have it more often, that no man can control it and ...

Opinions on what you consider to be acceptable behaviour from a couple living together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - (OP's own title) OK I have been living with my gf for 8 months now. The relationship is sometimes rocky but quite serious. Only one thing is really ticking me off!! When I come home from work, there's no sign of my gf. She's off with friends o...

I want to keep my baby, but my partner thinks it could split us up for good. Please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Hey, i am in a real dilema....me and my partner of 3 years on a break as we have got into alot of debt and it is getting us down...plus i have lied to him about alot of things that have got us into debt so he is hurting and needs a break..we have a ...

Afraid of commitment, of just trying to let me down gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for three months since I met him in one of my classes at college. He showed interest in me from day 1 and asked me if I can talk to him on the phone so he could get to know me better. There is a 10 year age difference ...

My friend thinks I said mean things about him but I didn't say those things!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - my best friend and I are extra tight but my other friends started saying kinda mean things to him on facebook and saying it was me. He wont talk to me at the moment, even though my friend told him i didnt say those things, i dont know whether its...

Is it unreasonable to want time without his friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - I'm in a new relationship and this will be the third week. We sort of jumped right into it, so there are still a lot of kinks and problems we need to sort out. This is also my first relationship. A major problem that I'm confused about is that 2/3...

Does she still like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - I have a friend whom I'm in love with for 2 years plus but she's attached. At first, she didn't like me as she was happy with her bf. Then after some months, she started liking me. She tells me that her bf is very possessive and then she got slapped ...

I think he might be cheating on me, should I stay with him anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for a long time i love him a lot but he has done a lot of things that are weird but i have never caught him cheating but i dont know sometimes i feel like he is and hes kinda mean sometimes but he always tells me im the ...

He wants to leave me after the summer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Ok, so I've had some ups and downs with my relationship and whatnot. Next week it will be two years being in this relationship. We've been living together for the past year or so and I've been in high school I know really young age to be living with ...

Is he just going through the motions to keep me close and have a potential sugardaddy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - I'm a single, successful single company manager and have been seeing a 23 year old guy for about a year. He's cute, bright, charming and i enjoy our time together a lot. In spite of my initial hesitation because of our age gap (... and don't give me ...

He was my everything, and he's the only Daddy they know.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Mod Note: Posters Own Title My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. I thought we were perfect together, we didn't fight once for the first 8 months of our relationship, and get this, he adopted BOTH my kids. But lately all we s...