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Archived questions from: 14 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We haven't had any physical intimacy since he told me he cheated on my while I was pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me towards the end of april while on a night out with his mates. It was just a one night stand, and he told me a few days after it happened. He even went and got a STD/STI test the same week. He seemed really guilty about it, ...

Vacation with him or see my parents, what shoukd I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - I live in North America but I am from Europe. My partner is also from Europe and lives in North America with me. We have been living here for 2 years now, but we have a recurring arguments about how we should spend our vacation. Being North America, ...

Why is he sending another woman text messages saying "hey beautiful"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - i have been living with my boyfriend for a year and lately he has been distant. Not ass affectionate and attentive as before. I just felt like something was off so i checked his text messages (up until now i have never felt a need to) and saw ...

B/f a complete stranger now! Is he cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a few days. Before we went out I had just gotten out of a nasty relationship about 1 1/2 months before, maybe a bit longer. He used to text me every night 'I love you sweet dreams!" and cute ...

I had an emotional affair and the woman is still on my mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 July 2010 (M) - Hey, everyone. I am in a relationship of several years. It's rocky. We have trouble communicating. She often won't tell me what she's thinking and a lot of the time I keep things to myself because I think she'll get sad, defensive, or ju...

He never tells me something is wrong until we start fighting!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - Okayy so me and this kid have been going out for about two months. And yesterday for example, we were talking all day and he was acting totally fine. And then that night i asked him how his game went...and he said that they won and so on. After that ...

PLEASE HELP - I'm jealous and I shouldn't be!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

14 July 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 7 years and married for 2. A year or so before we got married we broke up for 6 months and ended up getting back together. Everything was going well (leading up to the wedding) and then she told me th...

I lied to my b/f and now I think he is punishing me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - hey, i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and we have a 14 month old little boy!!...we are currently on a break because i lied to him about money which has got us into debt and he is really angry with me so we are now on a break...i have ...

He's in the army and I'll wait for him but I don't know if I can trust him

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14 July 2010 (F) - My question is about the army. I don't really know that much about it and the guy that I'm with loves it he has been in it for a long time and recently got deployed. It has been hard enough not talkin to him for weeks but idk if I can trust him. ...

I'm caught in a sort of love triangle, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - so there is this boy that i was getting with and we liked eachother quite alot then we slept together, then he never really contacted me again (i know he used to like me cuz he told people he did) then we seen eachother a few times after an we didnt ...

All I wanted was this one weekend away and he couldn't give me that. Is this enough to call it a day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - I need some advice, I'm feeling really low right now. My boyfriend and I were due to go away this weekend. It was his idea. I booked everything. My sister has been having some problems and I have been there for her as much as I can. I told my ...

She says if I hang out with my friend she is going to act single and do whatever she wants. How do I take care of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 July 2010 (M) - my girlfriend of a year and a few months is trying to tell me that if i hang out with my friend (that she doesn't like because he doesn't like her) she is going to act single and do whatever she wants. how do i take care of this...

My husband has lied to me and cheated on me. Why can't I forgive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - my husband has lied to me and cheated on me thru phone sex,date sites,porn,actual contact with another female,i have caught him everytime,and confronted him,but i cant seem to move past it,he says he is a sex addict,and goes to therapy,and has made ...

My husband keeps texting sex lines!

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14 July 2010 (F) - my husband keeps texting sex lines. i have asked him to stop several times and told him i will leave him if it happens again but i have just seen his phone bill and once again he's been doing it! We have 2 small sons who are 18 months and 7 wee...

He doesn't want me to come out with him on his work nights out, is it normal for couples to go out drinking without each other?

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14 July 2010 (F) - This is going to be long, sorry :X My boyfriend and I have been dating since our high school days (started when we were 17, now we are 23/24). We've been living together for 2 years now and are both in university. However, lately we've bee...

I want to spend all my time with him, yet when I'm with him I find myself wishing him away! Why am I feeling like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - Hey i dont really know where to start. I guess i just want someone to try and tell me what they think im feeling, because im so confused i dont know. I was in an abusive relationship for 2 years and spent everyday crying and arguing and pleading...

I want to leave my boyfriend but I moved to TX to be with him and now I have nowhere to go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - Help i just moved to tx with my boyfriend and now i want to leave bc i found out he has been looking up kid p--no. i dont know anyone and have no where to go. what should i do?...

Who do I choose, the guy I cant trust or the guy from my childhood who flirts a lot with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - Ok there is two problems, the 1st one is Well im with this guy Max now but i am having a hard time trusting him. Not that he lies a lot its just that i just cant buy his story. Anyways, i like him and he says he likes me too much.but i told him that ...

Am I right to be mad at my boyfriend because he commented on another girl's picture saying she is sexy?

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14 July 2010 (F) - quick question. My bf of 3 months commented on a girls picture saying that she's sexy. We went over what we expected of each other at the begining of our relationship. So my question is, am a right to be mad about it? He's been posting things for a ...

I feel like I am spending my life trying to make her happy when I am unhappy myself!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 July 2010 (M) - Ok so I've been staying with my girlfriend for about 4 months just us two, but at times I feel unwanted , and wanna pack my stuff and just go else were but I never do, I try my hardest to make her happy, but it seems like I'm not doing enough, I ...

She told me she wants to see me again but she doesn't know when, am I just wasting my time here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 July 2010 (M) - I have this lady friend I'm very much in Love with, we have met and talked on the phone and text each other a lot at first. When I went to see her I stayed for three days. We made Love a couple of times and it was great, I enjoyed her company ...

Do you think our friendship is over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - This is an issue I've had before but it has never frustrated me this much. so...i was seeing this guy for a couple months and the thing just kind of died out when he moved back home. however after he left i started hanging out with one of his ...

How can I get her to open up to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 July 2010 (M) - lets see where to begin, well me and my girlfriend are great, we never fight, we always talk things out if or when something is wrong, we've been together just passing 8 months, and I've fallen in love with her a long time ago, we both did, I'm ...

I'm stuck with a controlling boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - Hello everyone. I am having a huge problem. Please don't jugde me and be mean I'm honestly looking for some good advice. See, me and my bf have been dating 1.5 years. I live with him, his mom, and sister. When we first started dating everythin...

My girlfriend of nine months is ignoring me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 July 2010 (M) - i have been in relationship from past 9 months. i love her very much. but now she is ignoring me. she doesnt call me. she is calling me for 1 week and saying that she is having some problems in home thats why she is not able to call me. now what ...

We've been together a year, and he's completely different! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

My boyfriend becomes angry and defensive when I try to talk to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - Im not able to communicate with my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 years now. Yes, hes always had this issue so its not like I didnt know about it however, now that we are in the middle of a serious relationship, it bothers me. Exampl...

My daughter refuses to speak to me, how can I get over the depression caused by this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - My daughter is 42 years old and we never had a "mother/daughter relationship". She always said I was never there for her and always put her smartness down. This is not true. I was always there for her, but she would never let me in. We are at the ...

Even after we had broken up and his new girlfriend fell pregnant, we were still having sex. Now he won't speak to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - Hey,i have an ex bf who i was with for 1 year,i broke up with him,after about a month after we had broken up he got a girl pregnant. during the time he was with her we was still having sex. i thought that would make him cum back to me. no all of a ...

I cheated while my fiance was in a coma!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - I've been with my fiance for 4 years now. Things got a bit rocky and i cheated on him about 7 months back. It was wrong and I regret it. I decided that I truly loved my fiance and he was the one I wanted to be with and I broke it off with the other ...

He never comes to visit me, I always have to go to him! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - My new boyfriend and I haven’t seen each other since two weeks. He calls me everyday and says he misses me and he calls me honey and sweetheart. Every time he wants to get together he wants me to come to him. I can’t go to his house because my ...

I don't know if I love him any more, but can't leave!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - hi, I am 27 years old i married at 21 and have been with my husband since we were 15 years old. we are coming up to our 6 year ann. and i feel things have gotten out of control. we found out that my husband cant give me children and this is very ...

I know he's using me but I just can't let go!

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14 July 2010 (F) - I am a 48 yr woman obbessed with a 32 yr guy I have been seeing for 5 yrs, I know he is using me bur I cant let go. Help!...

Please help me to stop feeling so down and to understand why people do this to each other.

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14 July 2010 (F) - I am really heartbroken, I feel so stupid and hurt that I've let myself feel like this. I really liked this guy at church and I thought he's a Christian he will be different to all the other guys I've fancied before he'll treat me with respect. I ...