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Archived questions from: 20 July, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why does my wife behave like this? I love her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - I have been married last 30 years, but not happy from my wife just because have the filling that she never loves me from her heart. The reason for that she never smiles, she has never told me once that I love you or never expressed any signs of ...

Why does he do this to me?? am soo depressed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - so my ex came to my house he told me to make him some tea i did. he asked if am dating anyone i said yeah.. he said he regrets getting with me cos i couldn't even kiss and then he showed me a text message from some girl who is in love with...

Should I or shouldn't I go out on a date with an old friend? My boyfriend and I are having big problems.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. We lived together for 2 of these years, and moved out a couple of months ago, because I wanted to further my education and I couldn't afford living on my own and school. Since then, th...

Cheated and now confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - "OP Own Title"I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years with my best friend who I've known for more than 9 years. It only happened once and alcohol was involved, but I still feel awful about it. Before this incident we had never slept together and while ...

Shady goings on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend is my soulmate. When we are on good terms we tell each other that we feel so complete with each other. But we argue all the time, my boyfriend is the type of guy that will bring stuff back up just to keep the arguement ...

I cheated, now I'm heartbroken and filled with guilt. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what I should do....I cheated on my fiance with a co-worker. We are supposed to get married in 6 months. While he's the one who has cheated in past relationships (not ours that I know of), I am the one who screwed up now. I am confused ...

Why is he acting so distant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Here's the story: I confessed my love for this guy and he told me he felt the same. He didn't make any first move so I asked him out first. And it went okay. Eventually we went out a second time but it was always me, making the first moves like...

My mom hates the age gap...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm in love with a nineteen year old.. I'm 15.. he is the best thing that has ever happened to me and my mother completely disapproves.. I can't go on with her prodding me to break up with him. He is very nice, and smart, and absolutley ...

Engaged for 8 years, how do I tell him I want out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for 14 years. We have been engaged for 8 years and lived together for 7 years. Over the last 6-8 months my feelings for him have changed - I no longer love him! I don't have any conversation with him and I don't want him ...

12 years together with 2 kids and he STILL won't marry me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 12 years. We have two children together (9 and 4 years old). I feel that getting married is very important but my boyfriend always has an excuse as to why it is not feasible. I am getting tired of waiting ...

I moved a long distance to be with my fiance and now he's addicted to porn

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - HI, I have a problem with my Fiance. I moved to the other side of the country to be with him as he was a passionate loving man. When i moved down her suddenly went off sex with me, and to cust the story short, i dicovered he has a porn addiction, ...

My wife is haveing affair with another men I forgive her once and she started it again plz tell me what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - "OP Own Title" my wife is having affair! we had relationship throught phone and net for 3 years after that we agree to go for marriage life she was living in canada and i was in afghanistan sometimes when i was talking to her on the phone she was ...

I lost the love of my life to WoW and we're still in the relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - "OP Own Title" Hello, I'd like to start off by saying that I am not an anti-gaming activist. I do not hate video games. To an extent, I am a gamer. I have a soft spot for the older Sega Genesis and Super Nintendo games and occasionally FPS and the ...

Should I believe him or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I found text messages on my husband-to-be's phone implying he cheated on me. He denied it of course. That someone used his phone at work even though one text message is at 12:15am and he's never at work later than 10:30 at the latest. We are getting ...

Is it normal that my boyfriend does not hug or kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - is it normal that my boyfriend does not hug or kiss me? We have been together for 4 months and he has requested for blow jobs which i did. No actual sex is involved yet though he had asked. But he doesnt kiss me at all. He only kissed me once o...

I was so understanding for the 8 months while he was away, but as soon as I got drunk and had a fight he wont stand by me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - My boyfreind and i have been together for 1 year 2 months. 8 of those months he had been away from me, from October to June. We wrote letters almost daily and called once a week. The letters were so sweet and he made it seem like I was the one for ...

He cheated and we were going to give it another go, but he wants space to figure out why he did it, now I am wondering if I really should forgive him for this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - This might be long, so thanks for anyone that takes the time. A few months ago my boyfriend of three years and I broke up. He cheated on me, but ended up coming to me and telling me. We talked it out and we decided to try and work on the ...

Why am I so hung up on not being her first kiss? Is it just the distance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Ok so my first kiss was with my girlfriend almost 6 months ago. I started dating her the during the school year I mean and it is now the summertime. I am obviously a virgin as is my girlfriend. I had never done anything with any girls except "booty ...

Did I damage the friendship? Did I do the right thing? Was I creepy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - I have a relationship with a woman that started as a flirtation, then because of me being unavailable at the time, it turned into a close friendship. We talked about it and agreed to "just be friends" because neither of us wanted an affair. Now,...

Is it normal to feel this guilty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Lately, I haven't been able to get over my guilt. My boyfriend and I are very much in love. He is the most wonderful, understanding, and loving partner I could ask for, but he's so wonderful that I feel guilty for being unable to measure up. Late...

How can I bring back my interest in sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Hi there, I am currently in a very serious relationship with my fiance who i have been seeing for 6 years. We have a little girl of 2 years. Lately, within the last 6 months i have had no desire to want sex (at all). I had the mirena coil put ...

Is there any way for me to make it taste better when she goes down on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend 9 months and she will not let me cum during oral - the slightest taste of pre-cum and she makes me put something on. It really annoys me as I regularly spend 30 plus minutes going down on her before sex, as she love...

Productive ways to deal with flakey people...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - This is a recurring problem in my life: flakey friends, partners, ex'es. I get really upset and angry when this happens, because of a history of friends letting me down at the worst possible time. I realise now at 25 I have to confront this an...

What can I do to make him feel he dosen't need to lie about his porn and masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - I'm a gay male 25 been in a gay relationship for the past 6 years, he is also 25. he is addicted to porn and always wants other men he hasn't yet cheated in the flesh. my question i guess is what can i do to make him feel he dosen't need to lie ...

He invited an ex round to our house when he knew I was away for the weekend, but he says it was only for the company! I don't know what to believe.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend invited someone he had previously had an romantic encounter with around to stay when he knew i was away that weekend. He didn't tell me about it but i found out and presumed it was for more than company on a night in. He said it ...

What does anyone think he wants because I am so confused right now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - i was seeing a man for 2 years, he became a very very good friend to me, we helped each other throu difficult times, he told me he didnt want a relationship just yet, was into his work and enjoying himself. i had no problem with this man, he was ...

We have broken up but she still talks to me, what is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - earlier this week my girlfriend broke up with me mostly because of religious beliefs as I was black and she was white, she was suffering a lot from her side and says she doesn't want me back but still talks to me but never mentioned that we were ...

He wants to leave his girlfriend for me but now he has said he wants to wait a bit, what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - The past 3weeks a guy i really been saying he loves me, iv been saying it back. cause i really like him, he says he likes me more then his gf, and he wants to leave her, tonight he told me he wants to wait a bit n get to know me more before he gets ...

Why do I keep wanting this intimacy with my ex and why am I not able to break away from her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Okay, i seem to have found myself in a bit of a circling depression with my relationships nowdays. I saw a girl from my work who was adorable cute and generally want i wanted for a girl. the relationship went on for 3 months and in that time, sh...

I'm worried that I may lose him and confused on what I would need to do to keep him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Ive been in my relationship for 7 years. Weve had our problems , but as far as i can tell we have been very happy and comfertable. Unfortunatly i suspect hes getting bored with me. We only get to see each other on the weekends since our schedules ...

How can I deal with her stresses in life which mean I don't get as much attention from her as I would like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 1 year off and on. She has a 2 yr old son and is in nursing school and has two jobs. She is usually stressed out a lot and because of this she has broken up with me twice and then later wanted to get back ...

What could it be that went so wrong for her not to tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Hi, I am going to try to make this short as much as I can I’ve known this 22 year-old girl since she was 16. We’ve always been good friends and I have always had a small crush on her. 3 years ago she moved a few states away with her family, we m...

My cousin dated the guy I liked once I had moved away, but now we want to give things a try but I am worried about hurting my cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Hello guys I really need some good advice,i am in a very complicated situation! So 4 years ago I was 16 I dated this guy but only for a one month(we were very close friends before anything) he was my first love and I really loved him,but for some...

To all the cheaters and heartbreakers out there; start being sincere and stop being deceptive because time waits for no-one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

20 July 2010 (?) - This is for most men,especially the cheaters and the heart breakers. Women are supposed to be loved not abused or get their heart broken. Men were made in the image of God and to hear how some men treat their wives,girlfriends,significant other or ...

How can I bring her desire back? I am worried she has gone off me becauase I am no longer the mysterious bad boy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Hi, I beg for your help, something is driving me totally insane. I'm dating this chick for 8 months. She is the most beautiful, smart and elegant lady i've ever seen. We go along so great together and our relationship quickly became very...

Where is this going? Does he care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - We have been together for nearly 2 years we are both in our forties, I am going through a huge financial crisis now, and barely making a living, my boyfriend has knowledge of this and makes great money. I have never been known to ask for money and ...

He was the one that cheated on me but now he accuses me of wanting other men, says he doesn't love me and wont let me go anywhere! How can I change the way he is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Ok my husband and i have been together 3 years and have 2 children. About a year after we got together he cheated on me with my best friend. So we got through that now he accuses me of wanting different guys. He tells me all the time he does not ...

Why is my boyfriend acting like this? And what should I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - well , Me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot recently right . . And he has been acting smart to me calling me names and all . . . Weve been going for 3 months and the 1st 2 months were alright going smoothly then he has started being a wanker...

I have discovered my true feelings for her but now we are apart, should I ask her to wait for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - I have been in relationship with this girl, i know beyond doubt that she loves me but i did not love her that much, until I traveled out of my country now i started having the feelings i never had for her, i have discovered that i love her, but we ...