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writes:I am unsure as to what I can do about the intimacy with my girlfriend. The first few months with her, she was the one getting all of the action and calling all of the shots. Now that I have more of a say, the sex and being physical is erratic and scarce. I have asked her if I am giving her what she needs in our relationship, and she has responded with a definite yes. I have directly told her my concern and tried to make it as clear as possible that she is not giving me what I need in the relationship. I love her to death and don't want to let her go, but this issue is making me extremely depressed. What could I, her, or both of us do?
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reader, timbo +, writes (26 July 2009):
Just went through similar thing, over for good now. She might be giving you all that she can. Everyone is different on all aspects of love, thoughts, feelings, wants, needs. If you do love her, try adjusting your needs. I didn't, but I could have in hindsight, and I messed things up. Now she's gone. Good luck
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (25 July 2009):
 well being that you have already voiced your concerns, and you are getting nowhere, I suggest that you find someone that will. But be respectful enough to let your GF go first...and don't cheat on her.
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reader, Her.  +, writes (25 July 2009):
I think you need to tell her how it's making you feel. If she loves you as much as you love her, she'll make it better. Tell her honestly and openly, and she'll undersatnd. :)Hope this helps.xxxxx
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