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writes:Why do I feel so disappointed right now and who is at fault? I was supposed to see my bf today, he is in another state at a sports summer camp but came home (a 6 hour drive) today to spend some time with me. We are both teenagers, so we both live with our parents. I told him my parents would only be gone until 6 and that if he was going to see me it'd have to be before then. and he knew this before he even came home. Now he is home and he cant get here because his mom made him babysit and he doesn't know when she is coming back. Well turns out she gets back like 5 and now we wont get to hook up. Of course our parents know about us and everything , we just graduated HS and they know we have sex but regardless we cant hook up with them in the house because that's disrespectful and I'm severely disappointed. Now we will just end up watching tv or something. What a waste of a perfect opportunity. I just dont know what went wrong and I feel so disappointed and I dont know if I'm just blaming him because I'm feeling disappointed and emotional that it didnt happen like i wanted it to - or if I'm justified in feeling like he failed me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou guys... thanks for helping keep my head on straight. I guess I overreacted. I'm so emotional at times :c
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (25 July 2009):
I think your making way too much of it. Don't let the lack of getting to physically intimate with him as dissapointing. It jus didn't happen this time. There will be much much bigger issues to deal with down the line. You do seem mature as you won't engage while parents are in the house out of respect and that is considerate of you. I would just say relax and hope for better next time
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reader, Alexiedos  +, writes (25 July 2009):
 I've had the same problem before whith the mother seemingly stopping him from being with me. What you have to realise is that some mothers dont really care about the girlfriend until they are living with the son. They still see their sons as their little boys under their roof and therefore will think they have a right to control what their son does. If they have something that needs to be done that is the most important thing to them and nothing else matters, when everything they need to be done is done then the guy can do what he likes. Its not personal they just are selfish and the son sees his mother as authority and probably wants to help her out. Dont be mad at him, its not his fault he's just being a good son.
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