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writes:the only time i get to see my bf is on the weekends, and this weekend i was meant to go over on friday night, but i have been too sick, i wasnt in the mood for the 2 hour train ride so i told him im too sick, ill see how i am tomorrow. so i call him today and he says well if your too sick still i don't want you getting everyone here sick, my mum doesn't want to get sick because then she cant visit my grandma, so i said ok i wont come then, i'm still sick.Now he is angry at me because its my choice not to come? he says im angry your choosing not to come? does he have a reason to be angry at me??
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (25 July 2009):
 if your ill then it isnt fair he be angry with u.
u made the right decision not to go.
in time if your bf loves u he will forgive u.
be patient and see if he comes round.
if he carries on like this leave him becoz maybe once in a while he shud take the train down and come & see u!!
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): just speak to him calmly when both of you arent mad. because clearly this is a misunderstanding. tell him your side of the story, how you would love to visit him but you have been very sick. and when ur bf said that dont visit because he doesnt want his mom getting sick or anyone, you took it literally, and you really dont want to spread the germs.. not that your angry and dont want to see him.
dont worry and dont make a bigger deal out of it than it has to be. it will work out!! :)
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