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writes:I really don't know what to do anymore..my boyfriend is always ignoring me but he gets mad at me when i talk to other guys. hes always so rude to me. i dont get him. he acts like he doesnt care, but sometimes he can be really sweet. i broke up with him 4 times before and all those 4 times he was the one that kept asking me to give him another chance and so i did..he is so confusing. i asked him so many times to just break up with me if he doesnt want me anymore but he always says he doesnt want to..i was talking to someone and i told that guy that i have a boyfriend and he still got mad and now he wont talk to me anymore. i said sorry and explained it to him and all he said was ok bye. ..i told him that he was messed up.. and he just ignored my message..i dont know what to do cuz im gona look stupid sending him messages and he just ignores them.. i just want things to the way it used to be when he was sweet..he changed.. how do i handle this situation?
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reader, CuriousMe  +, writes (25 July 2009):
Let him go, give him a taste of his own medicine! You are to young to waste your time on the loser seriously!!! So you probably still have feelings for him right?? Im sure thats what your thinking. Does he care what hes putting you through though? More than likely not. If hes ignoring you and is rude to you and ignoring your messages do the same for him. If he sees two can play that game, cause thats what it is a game, then maybe he will wake up!
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reader, Jamez +, writes (25 July 2009):
 just give him one last chance, say if you dont get intimate with me and treat me like s**t one more time we're through for good.this should make him see scence, alot of guys just need put in the right direction.jamesxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): He obviously has intimacy problems, hon. He sounds like a "wanna be macho bloke",.."keep the woman wondering and never show a soft side". This is adolescent stuff. You don't need these games. I suspect he usually puts on this show when other friends of his are around. Right? That is part of the show. He is doing it for their benefit. If he can't show you simple respect in public, he does not deserve you. Tell him as much and say you are through with his games. But, you have to mean it. He will either get the message or not. If he does not,..dump him like a rotten fruit. And don't take any messages and get out and meet new people. There are good men out there, hon. But, you must make yourself available. I don't mean push yourself, but, just let it be known you are a free gal. And try to go where you might meet a better sort. Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): Sounds to me like this guy is very insecure. It would be in your best interest to let this one go and move on to someone that isn't so jealous.
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