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*heoneandonlybutterfly
writes:Wow!! It's being a long time since i wrote Dear Cupid but i really need some help on this one. My (Best Friend??28) left agian to move to flordia but before she left we was not really talking to me and she chose a man over me we have been best friends for 10 years. I am not hurt that she chose a man over me. who cares. i am always going to be there for her but she just stop coming over my house and stop hang out with me b/c her and my brother use to go out and now they dont so to keep the drama down she stop coming to see me. i told her that my brother who is 19 by the way do not rule my house if she wants to come over then come over but instead she never did. she keep herself away ( I did go over there but she was always sleep). She is the only one i really talk to but hold on i am not even finish. my boyfriend of 2 years wants to have a baby. i already have 6 boys and he have none. i do want one more THEN I am done. but i really want to get married before I have another one. but his not ready to have a wife. but he is ready to have a child. i just dont get that shit. how is he ready to get me pregnant but not as his wife. then my sister was trying to steal from me last weekend. what the hell is going on in my life? and now i feel so alone that nobody caring about my feelings on how i am feel about things and that what is so wrong with me that people is just running over me? can someone please help give me some kind of understanding???
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reader, Theoneandonlybutterfly +, writes (25 July 2009):
Theoneandonlybutterfly is verified as being by the original poster of the question THank u so much for ur responds No his not married TRUST ME I LOOKED and no i have not talk to my sister she have done this to me four time already that is often ? her and for my friend she's gone and i have to live with that i just wish we were still cool but u r right i really need to move on! Now my boyfriend does not hold all the cards my hand looks pretty cool since i got my tubes tie and he have to pay 3000 dollars to get them untie I guess i was just feeling really lonely and that nobody respect me often to worry about my feeling but that's life and i have to deal with what ever is throwed at me!! thank u agian
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (25 July 2009):
 you need to calm down and look at the situations all around you.
everything is falling apart and this is a sign to look within yourself for clarity.
firstly your boyfriend has a wife already? and he wants to get you pregnant? without marriage?
this is a bad idea , the guy sounds selfish
& you and that poor baby will always be second best.
as for your friend if she dumps you let it be.
let her go.
in time if she is a good friend she will come back to you.
but dont let her use you.
as for your sister she sounds as if she has problems, have u spoken to her about why she stole from you?
from what i can understand it seems noone has respect for you.
to gain respect you have to respect yourself otherwise noone else will.
good luck
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