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female
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41-50,
*ixieGwen
writes:So I've been talking to my ex frequently. Even though our breakup was recent and andom and didnt seem to have much behind it *hes having financial/work trouble* and ended it but still wanted to stay in contact/hang (we supposedly broke up cos he wasnt feelin it anymore but he called/msged me daily/came over daily,told me I was better than the others/said I was a great gf/the best/fam loved me and he said he wanted to keep me..), so i find that reason hard to believe). We hung out before I went on my NY trip *currently on it*. We watched a movie and had alot of sex(I prob shouldve restrained..but is hard when ur really attracted to someone).He seemed he was holding back a bit and claimed the reason y is 90% of the time things like this dont turn out well.(I had told him previously that i wont take anythng he says/does in a way where i think we're gettin back together..-just enjoy it for what it is).So after hanging out he's msged me daily sinc then.I enjoy hanging out w/ him - hes a great guy, hilarious and a blast to be w/...but at the same time I get these lil bits of missing him/wanting to be w/ him.He mentioned he'd be financially ok in a cpl weeks and mentioned us maybe dating again.He agreed w/ me that he didnt wanna see others, that he likes my company/sense of humour etc (obviously attracted to me).I easily excite him.During my trip he msged me to say he hopes I have a nice time in NY and mentioned what he was upto for the day.We were talkin bout bikes/I mentioned mine needs sprucing up etc (its old) and he volunteered to fix/look at it (I never hinted at it).For someone that doesnt want me as a gf.. he msgs me and offers to do things for me.I just wish we would get back together... When im hanging out w/ him - I dont think about that..but ocassionally I do. Im wondering if we just get to know each other better/spend time together ocassionally.. Im wondering if things may go that way..Its just frustrating to want something to work out or get put back together..when ur unsure.Opinions are nice...
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reader, superali752  +, writes (26 July 2009):
if you really love him then try to get back with him... his financial problems shouldn't effect the relationship. i agree with the anonymous reader. relationships aren't fair for men, because when men have problems with jobs women dont help them instead if he cant satisfy her anymore because of his financial problems the woman will leave him. on the other hand a if a women has financial problems then a man helps her out because he loves her. not only in this type of situations.... in every single situation its a man that gets blamed, its a man who cares for a women no matter what, its a man who keeps her happy no matter what, its a man who has to satisfy her no matter what. no matter what the situation is... from sex to romance, from special occasions to everyday life issues.... its a man who does everything to satisfy a woman... and when things get to rough, a woman blames the man and tells him to **** off.
anyway if you really love him then you should show him as much love as u can and help him with his life if you can.. try to make him happy.
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reader, PixieGwen +, writes (26 July 2009):
PixieGwen is verified as being by the original poster of the question i have no idea what u just said or what it had to do w/ my situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): let me number one say that woman never love a man....period.....lets say u r working and all is well and dandy and so suddenly you lose your job watch what shell do.......on the other han when a woman is not working the man will take care of them with no problem and at time of fight he will never through anything at her face..man love woman dont...period...if you dont believe me try to talk to a woman and say i dont have a job and let say if a woman say well i dont have a job ull say well babe ill take care of, but chick would never do that....periodddd..can live and can't live w/out them....this is ridicoulus.....period.....
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