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writes: hey :)ok so me and this guy "R" have known each other about 6 years but i would only say we've been proper mates for about 3. anyway ive never really liked him before, id say hes always just been one of my better boy friends. recently though we been hanging out a bit more, just as friends, with other people, not on our own or anything, but ive started to get feelings for him which is really weird coz hes always just been a mate. he drives so whenever we go out he always picks me up and drops me home which is nice of him, and i know he does this because we are mates and hes nice like that. when were together were like a married couple haha, people even think were together but when they ask we're both veryyy quick to set them straight! but sometimes i wonder, i say "no!" as if eww never, but really i like him.. does he ay it for the same reason? :\ we are really mean to each other but only in a flirty way, everyone can see it apparently, and we make each other laugh, and its since we been hanging out a bit more ive realised i like him. but on friday night we were out and he got very flirty giving me weird signals, because he is so jokily mean to me, i think is it just him being how we've always been, or was the whole flirting thing alot more heavy because hes feeling something too? then on sat we were out and we both got a bit drunk.. nothing happened, but we sort of had a little tiff, i think i was being a bit more full on as i was drunk and he started trying to get a reaction from me by saying i was jealous of other girls.. it was all jokey and my mate reckons its coz he wants to know if i like him, but then i got a bit annoyed at him for it and i guess that made it pretty obvious how i felt.. anyway we didnt speak much after and by the end of the night, we were fine but there was definitly some awkwardness. the next day i text him because i still had his hoodie but he didnt text me back :\ so anyway now i dont really know what to do, i feel like there is some awkwardness still, i want to be as normal as possible but i dont know why he is ignoring me, is it because he feels embarrassed that he maybe gave the impression he liked me and is that because he does or doesnt? i feel quite upset, and i dont know whether to say anything to him just telling him how i feel, because we might not be able to hang out anymore if he says he dont feel the same?? :S it sounds like a silly teenage problem but i would really appreciate some help. :D
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reader, all of my imperfections are perfect!  +, writes (16 October 2009):
Well since the two of you are friends call him or text him again !!! Sounds like he likes you. Just joke with him and tell him your wearing his hoodie nothing but his hoodie, then LOL ! but wanted to remind you i still got it for you. See where things go from there. There is no reason you two cant talk, you didnt break up, you didnt spill your hearts ( though both of you probably feel the same way - confused ) nothing has changed, except the fact both of you know you like the other one but still arent sure if the other likes you. I think its a go -
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