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female
age
41-50,
*heysmom
writes:ok well here goes i really need some help with whats going on in my life, im young and i have started out at a bad start already i will be 19 years old next month got a wonderful lil girl, i had her with my bf xbf what ever he is. im very confussed and feel stuck and would like some input on things, im starting to wonder if im going crazy!my boy friend is now 36 years old we are always up and down and i hate it but i have to live with him ive no where eles to go i my family doesnt help much and the bad thing is i have came real attached to him,he takes all my money and puts it with hes says its our money the baby gets what she needs because i make sure she does but when it comes to me i dont hardly get anything most of the time it doesnt bother me but i really need him to step up and grow up he acts younger than me when i was pregnant we fell on hard times and we moved in with hes mother and now i cant get him to move out! 1 year later there driving me crazy he was better to his ex than me how do i get him to see where i am coming from ????
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): I think you should tell him how you feel. Sometimes when people think they are doing right, they become oblivious to the harm they are cause because they are so strung up helping their loved ones. You need to tell him that what he's doing(or not doing) is making you very unhappy verbally because he wont respond to any visual evidence that proves he's doing you wrong.
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