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Holiday romance ... what is his problem?

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Question - (26 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *izababy writes:

hi my name is lisa and i met this guy away on holidays and i spent the week with him. it was like a holiday romance, but i didnt do with him. we all got back to dublin and i forgot bout the holiday. he never asked for my number but he found me on bebo. ever since that we have been txtin a year and i met up with him a few times as friends but he had a gf. now he askin me to meet up while he has a gf. i did and nothin happened again but hes sayin he wants to be intimate but yet he doesnt try it. someone help me with his problem?

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A female reader, Twistedbaby420 United States +, writes (27 August 2009):

Twistedbaby420 agony auntIf you two were meeting as platonic friends, there would be no problem.

Now that he has stated that he wants to be intimate with you - even if he hasn't tried it yet - it wouldn't be appropriate for you two to get together since he still has a girlfriend.

Respect yourself and respect his girlfriend (he isn't respecting either one of you!).

If he really wants to be with you, he should break things off with his girlfriend. If not, don't put yourself in a bad situation.

(Switch places with his girlfriend, put yourself in her shoes... what would you want/expect?)

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