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writes: I have been with my Boy friend for a year and a half and we have our ups and downs and at one point I left as he was not given me what I wanted. he made a real effort and I finaly came round because he told me he loved me and that was horrible with out me, he is from another country and is in the Military here and always goes back home to see family and friends, I have always known that there is one girl he has grown up with and been close to but nothing has ever happend. How ever I now found by over hearing on the phone that while on holiday this year he had taken her way for 3 days and took her out and wine and dined her I was fourous and told him that I could hear him on the phone, so I have asked him for the truth he said that he is love with her and has been chasing her for 8 years and that he knows nothing can happend cause she is there but is going to wait and see what happens! but try and live his life as he goes I walked out on him but I miss him every day and he also says he does not know what to do please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Redshoes I am trying I really am and I did walk away but it is hard to let go...and at the same time see someone ruin they life his has already been waiting 8 years and nothing has happend between then! but then I guess he will find out on his own.
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reader, redshoes83  +, writes (26 August 2009):
 I really think you should leave him. You dont want to live you rlife with someone who is waiting to see what happens with someone else. why not go and find someone who wants you as there number one?i think its all very well if he had said, yes i took her out, it was a mistake and i am very sorry, i love you and want to be with you, forgiveness is very different to acceptance. You do not just want to accept that he will be waiting for someone else. I really think you should hold your head up high and walk away, and be glad that you are a strong woman with respect for herself. let me know how is goes miss xxx
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