A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I need help! I had an emotional affair about 9 months ago but it was because i didnt love my gf "K". The other girl "A" stole my heart and apparently i stole hers. "A" now cant bring herself to trust me so that i may prove that i love her and "K" isnt helping. What do i do?!? I love "A" more than life itself and cant prove it cause she cant trust me anymore. If you can help you'll have my gratitude.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): The reason behind it: I know this will sound fake but i cant bring myself to hurt anyone without a good cause. And i dont consider my happiness a good cause. I left "K" because i knew it wasnt fair to her to keep doing that behind her back. But "A" thinks that i was using her because "K" found out and started talking to her and has convinced her that i am "incapable of loving anyone". I would do ANYTHING to get her to see how deeply i love her and that i'd never hurt her. What do i do?
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reader, scrambled brain  +, writes (26 August 2009):
If you didn't love "K", why didn't you just finish with her before starting anything with "A"??
Does "A" not trust you because she thinks if you did it to "K" you could do it to her eventually and what input is "K" giving that doesn't help?
I am confused apart from to say that my husband cheated on me emotionally (I don't think it became sexual) and it's the worst feeling to be cheated on.
Over a year later it is still the biggest thing in my life. Infact at this very moment we are texting about it and he is saying yet again that I will never be able to get over it and there is no future for us.
We have been going round and round in these circles since I found out.
I am not really sure what you are asking and why does "A" not trust you? If you stole each other's hearts I presume you are in love so what's the problem? Is it that you don't want to hurt "K" but she must already be hurt?
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