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writes:this year i took part in a show and one of the boys doing the show i got on with really well. at that time i had a boyfriend but as i started seeing more of this other boy, i started to develop feelings for him and i didnt know what to do. when he told me he really liked me and thought we could really be something, i was so confused but i did not want to cheat on my boyfriend. then the boy i liked went travelling for 5 months and so i thought i could just forget about him but i couldnt and missed him soo much i couldnt stop speaking to him and thinking about him, and he kept telling me he couldnt stop thinking about me. i broke up with my boyfriend because i felt i couldnt lead him on like i was doing. the boy travelling kept talking about how amazing it was going to be when he came home and how we could be together, even though i knew we only had 9 days together when he came home before i went away for 9 months! but when he came home it was a different story. he told me he hadnt got over me and still felt the same way but he had managed to put his feelings to the side and that he couldnt see me because he knew all his feelings would come rushing back and he didnt want to be left heartbroken again. im absolutely gutted because i was so looking forward to seeing him and cant admit to myself that its over. how do i get over him and stop thinking about him. im going away and need to just forget, but how do i do that if a small part of me doesnt want to forget and still believes we could be together when i get home?? help
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reader, Ditzydaisy +, writes (26 August 2009):
Dear heartbroken.This guys a jerk if he can't see what he has right in front of him. But that doesn't mean get drunk and get off with other guys. Babe it's not worth it. First off explain to the lucky dude that A. you dumped your guy for him and B. That you have feelings and would rather commit suicide than hurt him because that is on the top of your things not to do. Make him tell you about his past incounter with love and tell him all the opposite about how you wouldn't hurt him that way. This guy must be somthing if he's got you head over heels.Hope this helpsxx
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