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writes:Hey,i need advice on how to tell my next door neighbor that i dont like him in the way he likes me.My next door neighbor is 1 year older than me , he has had a crush on me for 2 years now , and im not joking about that. He trys to make me jealous with making up girls names and saying that he loves them, and then like not even two minutes later he asks me out. I tell him over and over that hes not my type of guy, and when i was in a relationship with my now ex boyfriend he tried to convince him to dump me. Me and my ex lasted 4 months b4 we did break up but my next door neighbor just wont stop. A few weeks ago i have went swimming with him and his brother , and he told me that he loves me, so i got out of the water and then ignored him, but how do i tell him to get over me in a nice way without ruining the friendship? I have had enough with him and am clueless on what to do. Please Help
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reader, Trans Am Man  +, writes (26 August 2009):
 I know this isn't what you wanna hear but I think you should give him a chance, I bet you'll have a good time or something. Before I started dating my girlfriend I hated her, to me she was just an annoying little b*tch and I didn't want anything to do with her, but over a years time we got closer and closer and then I asked her to go to go to the movies with me and now I'm happier than i've ever been.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): you can't say it in a nice way. Say it straight, say that you don't fancy him at all and only like him as a friend, a kinda brother.
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