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writes:My girlfriend has just told me that she wanted to kiss her male friend while she was on a night out where he happened to be. She didnt kiss him but should i be worried by the fact she wanted to? Also i tried telling her i dont want her to keep in contact with him and back off but she continues to text him? Can i trust her and should i continue our relationship. We've been together 2 years and this hasnt happened before. What do you suggest would be best to do to get back to normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011): She told you a truth where she could have chosen not to tell you and you would have never known, men kissed and more but wouldn't tell even when asked. They wouldn't tell even they're caught, it's just a man thing right? ...perhaps more than questioning her loyalty and asking if she could be trusted, why not start talking to her, i'm sure she has pretty good reason for telling you that story...do not second-guess, go to her and know straight from the horses' mouth. Men are not good in asking, but you can start there and face it squarely.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): Dude you know in your heart the answer.
You are hoping that we will tell you it might be purely platonic or out of curiosity tht she wants to kiss him and text him but you know that is not right.
Move on plenty more nice girls out there.
Its not fair what she is doing to you and she should know that
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wasnt with her because it was when she went to stay over at her cuzins house to go out with her. We had been arguing abit and i thought something was up so i asked her had she went with him but she said no she wanted to but. She also says she doesnt anymore.I trust that she hasnt kissed any1 else but after this i cant be 100% sure.No i dont think she would be ok if i told her that i wanted to kiss someone else.She may want to keep in contact with him as much as she may have feelings for him?what do you think?
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