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Archived questions from: May, 2006 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

i love him but i want someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - hi, i think i want to break up with my boyfriend,gary, but i just dont know how or when? we have been together for 3 1/2 yrs. we split breifly after two years as we both agreed it wasn't working,we were constantly arguing and sex was virtually non ...

We've been married for 3 years, living together for 13, hes cheated since we got married, and is still in contact, how can I make him give her up ?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - my husband of 3 years, living together for 13 years has had an affair since we got married. Now he says that he wants me and loves me but can't get his lover out of his head and don't know what to do. he promises me every week that he won't text her ...

All I could do was think of him when we were apart, but he rings an ex....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6739 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - myself and my man just recently moved in together,we get on well but when we argue he seems to take it too far and drag it out, anyway we had a major fall out last week and he moved out. we got back together and we where getting back on track then ...

I'm shy and not sure about going to a wedding with my boyfriend. He's distracted and won't say whether he cares!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - Hi, My boyf and I have been together for 18 months, and are currently living together. We argue a lot, usually when I'm upset about something and he tries to tell me that I need to grow up and stop being pathetic!! This really hurts as I don't...

He says that it would be so easy to cheat on me, but he don't want to....what am I supposed to think about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6739 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - My b/f i think has a lot of sexual experience. We have gotten into a lot of arguments about various things not just trust and all that. He says he does not want to argue as much and its too stressful. He said if he wanted to mess around on me--he ...

I moved in with My partner and his teenage son, I feel like im a housemaid that gets critiscised all the time and its getting me down!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6739 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - I am a 28 year old woman I have recently moved in with my older partner and his teenage son. Although I love my partner dearly and I am a very strong and out spoken person I cant help but feel I am being taken for granted. I dont just mean in the ...

She doesn't want to talk about this, but I feel alone.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

31 May 2006 (M) - I am a 26 year old male who has been in a relationship with my girlfriend for just over four years. When we entered this relationship she was physical and sexual, but shortly after the official commitment, the sexual activity dropped. I love her, I ...

I gave him an ultimatum: The dogs, or me. He chose the dogs...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6617 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - my husband has chose to keep his two dogs over our relationship did i do the right thing in making him choose as the dogs ruined my home and took over our bed or do you think i am unreasonable...

I'm scared I may have HPV now or even be pregnant!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - Okay im turning 16 june 26th and i really need help with a problem i have...My aunt was messin around with her friends husband(a 36 year old man)...so i hear about this guy for awhile then i meet him...well on my aunts birthday he calls and ask me ...

I cheated by mistake with my Ex, now my man cant forgive me, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - Hello all, I ruined my life the other day by cheating on my boyfriend of 2 years. Ive never done anything like it before. Not that this is an excuse but I didnt consciously choose to cheat. I slept at my exes and woke up to him having sex with me....

My ex of 3 years ago still loves me and wants me back, I dont know what to do as I dont want to let my current BF down!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - I need some advice.... I was in a relationship for nearly 5 years, from the age of 16. My ex decided to break up as he believed he didn't see a future for us. Although this was over 3 years ago it still left me in bits. Looking back we were only ...

We've been together 12 years, he left and came back and promised me the world, now he doesnt even hold me what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - my partner and i have been together 12 years, with one child.the year before last he left me on my birthday, and returned in april 2005,promising me the worldetc etc.since then he has tried to move the goal posts. i always wanted to marry him, he ...

I believe someone lying to me.....how can I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - ok my current bf (17)(and i am 16) thought i was going to dump him so he went to my best friend and told her he had feelings for her then when she told him she had feelings for him too he said he was staying with me. but that is only the beginning ...

I've never been in love with him, I have affairs for fulfilment, he wont hear of divorce, what do I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - I have been married for the past 7years. But never been in love with him in the real sense. I just cant stand his way of making love. I have been having a couple of affairs for the past 4years. Even if I dont orgasm I love their ways of kissing and ...

I am in an abusive relationship and he makes me do things I don't like

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - i am humiliated i am back again with the same old problem.the situation is unbearable my relationship is seriously faulty.everytime he looks at me or speaks to me he either shouts critisizes and has an obsession with my bum.he is continuously ...

What can I do about my bfs nightmares?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and we've had our shares of ups and downs. Now we are looking for a flat together..however every night(or there abouts) he has nightmares about the mistakes that I have made. He doesn't let it affect h...

My fiance is not sure if he feels for me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6741 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - My Boyfriend *now fiance* said to me tonight that he's not sure he feels any feelings for me anymore. I was shocked, so i asked him if it was over. He said i need to think about stuff. Before that he was very distant from me. What's going on? I ...

I don't feel safe alone at night and my BF acts like I am overreacting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6741 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - Question: I've been dating a guy off and on (mostly on) for about a year and a half, and it seems like things are going well enough. There are problems, but we're both in love. He's a good guy. Is it weird that he doesn't seem to worry much ab...

I'm hurt because he called an ex gf just before ringing me. I found out by checking his cell phone. Need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - im in need of male and female advice here.so if you could just bear with me here. ive been with my boyfriend now 7 months its been both fantastic and so full of fun most times but we have had a lot ov problems too, we both have kids and x's. ...

My BF says he's "busy" all the time. Does he mean we're over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I am confused... Me and this boy are meant to be going out and have been for a few months but haven't seen each other much. Recently I phoned him up to ask if he wanted to meet up but he said he was busy. Then a week later, I phoned him up ag...

All of a sudden he doesnt want to get married, and cannot give me explanation! What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I was due to get married on August 19th. My fiance told me that he doesnt want to get married and he isnt sure if we have a future. He says he loves me and doesnt want to hurt me, but other than this he cannot give me a reason why this has ...

I want to talk on the phone, and my BF doesn't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I are having terrible disputes over being on the phone. Ikay I've been with my bf for 2, going on 3, years and he knows I love talking on the phone and particularly with him. So he always gets on the phone and don't say anything and ...

I don't understand what is going on in his head

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I have been casually seeing a freind of mine for a three months now. We had been freinds for a while and kissed one night when we were out drinking. We are both single and happy to be single. We kissed the following weekend have been kissing and ...

He has a problem with alcohol, should i try fix his problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6742 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I've been with the same guy for about a year now and it seems that we have overcome every obstacle that was in our way. We overcame the age difference of 14 years, we got our parents to accept the relationship, and we made peace with eachother's ...

I worry he enjoys the company of his female friends more then me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6742 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - My bf and i,are staying for 4 years.... When we was 2 years,i discovered some letters from his things founding out that he has a girl,a friend of his sister, and he keeps on denying it.. I love him that's why i am still here for him, now i don't ...

He has herpes and I dont want to get infected, do we have a future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - Hi---I really need help...my bf recently had a physical examination and the doctor told him that it looked like he had genital herpes, but he also had a blood test to confirm whether or not he actually has it but results haven't come in yet until ...

We want to move in together but his mother just won't let go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6743 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - I have been with my partner for the past twelve months and I feel it is time that we move in together. He is 15 years older than I am and is still living at home with his parents where his mum is having a hard time letting go of her son and also ...

We dont see each other any more, I think im going off her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6743 days ago

29 May 2006 (M) - i think im going off my girlfriend. wev been together for a little over 4 months n its difficult getting a chance to see eachother. wev also been arguing a bit reciently-which is probably due to the fact were both going through a bit of a stressful ...

Boyfriend treats me like unwanted object.. What should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6742 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and i already dont know if i can trust him. i only get to see him once or twice a week and when he goes out he never asks me to come, and when i call him the next day he says that he didnt get home until 3 ...

Husbands holiday is really getting to me... What should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6742 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - My hubby and I haven't been married a year yet... The opportunity came up for him to go to Myrtle beach with his friends and he of course with no hesitation, agreed to go with them without discussing it with his wife first. When he asked me if he ...

He doesnt include me when he goes to church, what should I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6743 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - What should i do , when my partner of 7 yrs has been invited to church several times by his boss and family and he does not include or invite me,but he continues to go alone? Then acts as if nothing is wrong? ...

Possesive boyfriend is making my life hell.. Please help??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6742 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - i cant make my mind up to be with a guy.. its really stressin me out and making sick - how do i make the right choice? This guy is very jealous and possesvie and smashes my things - he has had girlfriends but always came back to my house and we h...

I have moved on from my ex, but she has issues and I want to help, should I try to ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6743 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - I still care for my ex but have successfully moved on to seeing other people, the days feel less boring and I feel much better about myself, etc.. etc.. In other words I'm over the break-up... And wanted to thank everybody here for the g...

I'm contemplating divorce... here is my dilema...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - Should I finally get divorced to my wife? My wife and I have been married now for 17 years, I am 38 yrs old, she is 35 and we have one kid 16 yrs old. We got married early as you can tell if you do the math. The reasons I have thought about ge...

After my pregnancy the relationship is fading away...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - I was in a relationship for 10months then i fell pregnant we split up then got back together when my daughter was born at first our sex life was great but over the last 6months it has gone down hill it does not feel the same as we argue most of the ...

How do I make my boyfriend care for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - how can i make my partner care? my partner and i have been together for 3 years. We just had a baby. He does not work and i went back full time. the problem is that finacialy it is not possible to live the life we used to and it became so bad ...

I broke my girlfriends trust, how do i get to let me go out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6744 days ago

27 May 2006 (M) - HI, basically i have been with my gf for 6 months now.. i enjoy going out after a long week at work an seeing my mates having a laugh etc.. but well last week i went with another girl out round town i told my gf an she has made up with me but says ...

Always thought i was straight... now I'm not so sure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6744 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - hi im a 23 yr old female, i have always thought of myself as a straight woman and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 years. last year i got a new job and met a woman who i have become attracted to, we are really good friends, but i ...

He takes no initiative to show me he cares-is he taking me for granted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6743 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - We were friends when we developed the liking between us. We kissed. We are together for about 5 months but we have said the magic words, "I Love You" only a few times. he says that one should feel love and not to say it at all tines but I want to ...

He's become friends with a girl from work! How do I get over my jealousy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6743 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - how do i get over my jealousy problem? i have been w?this guy for 8 amazing yrs.sure we've had ups and downs but until about 6mo. ago i was never the jealous type,now i worry myself sick. there is a girl from his work moved in next door they ride ...

My lovers wife found our sex tape, hes turned to religion and doesnt want to know me, but I cant be without him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6738 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - I'm married. it was an arranged marriage. i live with my husband. i have 2kids. one from my hubby. and a one year old kid from my lover. have been in an intimate relationship with a married man for the past 3 years. my hubby knows about our ...

I think our relationship trouble is due to our drugs-and-alcohol lifestyle. He thinks we just need a break...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6745 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - I've been seening this guy for over 1 yr. We have recently been having problems in our relationship. I have gotten violent 1 time but I'm sure it has to due with the alcohol and drugs that we both do together. I've not done this stuff since I wa...

Alone after abortion and feel so low.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I have recently split up from my boyfriend of a year because he wanted to go back to his home country. I offered to go with him but he said he wasn't ready for that kind of commitment because we would have to get married. This was back in feb that i ...

An emotive issue - support please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I found out 2 days ago that I am pregnant. My boyfriend has 3 children already and I don't want us to have anymore children around the house right now. He's asked me if I want to have an abortion and we have both agreed. I made an appointment, but ...

Should I go with true love or happiness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I'm currently in a 5 yr relationship with my bf, and we're preparing to get engaged. However,I've never forgotten my ex.My true love is my ex bf, but I know that we can never be happy if we get married because he and I can't support each other ...

My Bf seems lost and cant finish anything he starts, its costing money now, what do I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6744 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend never finishes anything he starts! I love my boyfriend very much, we been together for nearly 9 years and we’ve had lots of fun. Because of him we went abroad and taught English for three years and had a fantastic time. He’s funn...

My amazing guy tells me he loves me, but why is acting so casually ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I have been dating this guy for two months. When he is withme he is seriously the most chivolous, gentlemen guy ever! All my friends are mazed by him. He is just amazing but with one flaw. Recently, the past 2 he has been making lil plans here ...

He used to take Drugs, now I fear he will never grow up and I will up looking after him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and when we first got together, he had the worst friends. They were immature and took drugs and did not know what life was all about. My boyfriend followed them around like a puppy dog and did everything ...

I know he has a girlfriend, but I cant stop thinking about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6745 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I met a guy who I was instantly attracted to and it was pretty obvious he was attracted to me (he wasnt subtle about it at all). I wanted to ask him out but then I found out he had a girlfriend and thought it would be a bad idea....but then asked ...

My ex messed me up by cheating. Now I can't trust my girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6746 days ago

26 May 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid I'm having a problem with myself. I've been with this girl for a while now and having a baby now. But she keeps saying that I'm judging her on my ex-girlfriend. My ex she cheated on me with a few people and I can't trust anyone any...