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writes: I met a guy who I was instantly attracted to and it was pretty obvious he was attracted to me (he wasnt subtle about it at all). I wanted to ask him out but then I found out he had a girlfriend and thought it would be a bad idea....but then asked him out anyway. He seemed really up for the idea and asked for my number and gave me his number. We agreed to go out after his exams were over-so this last week I havnt seen him all week because he is busy revising-I sent him a message just saying hope revision is going well and good luck with exams-i didnt get a response.....but i supoose the message i sent didnt really require a response so wasnt too fussed. Last night I sent him a message just asking him when was he free to go out....and again I have had no response. Have decided not to contact him again, but cant stop thinking about him! I know he was off limits anyway-with him having a girlfriend but have got to know him and really like him. When we talked about his girlfriend he genuinely seemed unhappy with the situation....don't know what to do!
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (26 May 2006):
 If he is unhappy with the situation then in all fairness to his gf he should sort that out before dating somebody else. He should leave if he doesnt want in the relationship not cheat with you. You did the right thing in not contacting him again. If you do you should insist he gets thing sorted before you can see each other.
In general the only advice I can offer is that you look for the qualaties you find attractive in this guy in other more avalible people. Hope that helps.
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