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writes: Dear CupidI'm having a problem with myself. I've been with this girl for a while now and having a baby now. But she keeps saying that I'm judging her on my ex-girlfriend. My ex she cheated on me with a few people and I can't trust anyone any more. Not even my best mate, and she thinks that we can't go any futher in our relationship because of this. I don't know what to do. I don't want this to ruin us. I don't know. I really love her but I can't help feeling like this my ex has messed up my head. Please help me. Thanks
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (26 May 2006):
 Dont let the ex ruin anything you ever take part in from this moment on. A relationship is based on trust, no matter what type of relationship it is, it needs to have trust. You were hurt deeply, but you cannot let the ex ruin the rest of your life. take control now! Every relationship is different and every person is different. Dont punish yourself and others for something that someone else did, be strong and starting from today put the past issues in the past and move on. Start afresh, I know its easier said than done, but believe me you cant carry on like this or you will ruin every relationship you ever had over one bad experience. Do you think the ex is having a tougher time as this ? NO shes not, she doesnt care, dont let her impression on you ruin what could be the best thing to ever happen in your life! Enjoy your girlfriend and the baby, look to the futrure its rosier than you think!
Take care
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