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writes: I still care for my ex but have successfully moved on to seeing other people, the days feel less boring and I feel much better about myself, etc.. etc..In other words I'm over the break-up...And wanted to thank everybody here for the good advice you've given meI am still in touch with my ex we still talk and sometimes meet up and hang out for a couple hours, even though she has another boyfriend and it seems she still has certain level of trust with me because of the subjects we talk about.. I do still care for her alot but for some reason, I'm worried about her...She tells me stuff like when she turns 18 she going to leave our town and never come back because too many people have emotionnaly hurt her in the past.Like you could hear it in her voice that she's unhappy and she has also turned to drugs and alchool, like parcticly every weekend she gets hammered and stoned and doesn't often see her new boyfriend, even thought they work at the same store...I tried asking her about it and wanting to help her but she refuses and says that she does those things to make her relax...Is there something I could do or do I let time go by and see what happens ... ??
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reader, Ainley +, writes (28 May 2006):
 i think although you care for her well being you have to let her go, if she comes to you let her but in general it's all up to her as long as she knows your there that'll be enough, she has to deal with it not you, your there and thats great she knows it.
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