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writes: My Boyfriend *now fiance* said to me tonight that he's not sure he feels any feelings for me anymore. I was shocked, so i asked him if it was over. He said i need to think about stuff. Before that he was very distant from me. What's going on? I don't think that i could live my life without him. Please help.
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reader, Mother hen +, writes (31 May 2006):
I agree, give him space. You deserve better and you can live without him, even if you dont think so now. If you believe there is "always something better" you WILL find something and someone better. I know its a shock, right now, but you have to beleive in yourself and its better you are set free now, than enter a roller coaster relationship. Focus on what you want and the type of person you want and open your front door all the way and as loud as you can and shout "NEXT".
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (31 May 2006):
 I can only guess that he is feeling pressurised and is waking up to the reality that you have now got engaged and will be married, this is a huge commitment and one that he may not feel as ready for as he initially thought when he asked you to marry him.
He is getting cold feet and is questioning himself and your relationship.
The only thing you can do is to give him some space and time and listen to his doubts, it is better he does this now even if it does result in postponment or cancellation of the wedding than at the alter or worse when you are actually married.
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