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writes: We were friends when we developed the liking between us. We kissed. We are together for about 5 months but we have said the magic words, "I Love You" only a few times. he says that one should feel love and not to say it at all tines but I want to hear it, especially when we make love.He hardly texts me and doesnt seem to be care and hardly appreciates everything I do for him.I feel he is taking me for granted. He makes no initiative to show me that he truly loves me. what should i do. i can't concentrate on my daily routine.
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (28 May 2006):
 You have only been together for 5 months and relationships do take time to build so perhaps you are expecting a lot more right now than he is prepared to give.
Men don't often say how they feel as they think we are expected to know. Remember Men are from Mars and Women are From Venus. Men go to their caves and women like to talk.
On the other hand, if he is never the one to make any contact with you or just goes along with the flow, then you have already started to question this yourself.
Don't always be the one to race to see him or contact him, let him do the running as the chase is half of the attraction for men. Don't always be available, be a bit elusive and if he still does not show any interest then it is time for you to face facts that he is possibly after someone else or just can't be bothered any more.
Just think about how much you are getting out of this relationship right now and if it is nothing then you have already found out where it is going.
Don't be the consolation prize, you are worth more than that.
Get out with your friends and enjoy life.
BFN
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