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writes: I have been dating this guy for two months. When he is withme he is seriously the most chivolous, gentlemen guy ever! All my friends are mazed by him. He is just amazing but with one flaw. Recently, the past 2 he has been making lil plans here and there and then ditching. Seriously, first timeit was a plan to visit a place and he didn't txt until about 6:30 pm, 10 hours and wrote that he was about to pick up his mom (he did mention this the night before but saidhe would haveplenty of time to hang out). The other timeshave been small insignificantoutings, like meeting up forlunch before work. The thing is that he won't text and say he's not showing and won't call til like one/two days later. Today was the first time he used an excuse and he was way all over the place, tripping over his words and all. I wanna know if I'm beingplayed. Just last weekend after the Sunday ditch he was all over me telling me how much he missed me and as using words like "love" then I feel like I am just his weekend fling and feel forgotten during the week. What should I do? he has done so many wondeful and sweet things for me, carried my bag all weekend when we went away even though it was so heavy and just other things alike that showed me he really cared. now i am not so sure.........he doesn't text everyday like he used to and barely calls.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (26 May 2006):
 My personal opinion is that he either has a girlfriend, married or he has found someone else he likes hanging with and just doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2006): Hi, I was dating a guy like this for quite some time. I thought he was a proper gentleman. However on many occassions he was very unreliable, ditching me at the last minute etc. Again he was very cagey about texting, phone calls and the like and he only seemed to want to meet up on his terms. After 9 months, I believed him when he said he loved me, but found out he had been seeing other girls. He said that they were only friends etc and that I was being possessive, paranoid etc. I gave him another chance only to find out that he was cheating, I checked out his cell phone.
So my advice to you is, if something doesn't feel right for you in this relationship then move on. I'm not saying he's cheating, but if he really loved you, then he would want to be with you as much as he possibly could.
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