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Archived questions from: July, 2005 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

We were having problems and he accepted a date from a client...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7036 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going through lots of problems in the last month. We have been together almost 7 months now. In the last 4 days everything have improved immensley. He has started to act like himself again ie. wanting sex, giving me ...

My partner and I have 5 years of history, but his wife is still in the picture...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 5 years now. I am divorced, my partner is still married but not living with his wife. We both have children but not together. There is no sign that he is going to divorce his wife, his usual reason is money and ...

Is it unfair of me to feel upset that she's going camping with a male friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7043 days ago

31 July 2005 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for the last 16 months. We don't live together and only see each other at weekends. We chat on the phone mid week. She recently told me that she will be spending a night away camping with a male friend that she ...

Not sure where my ex and I stand. Should I wait around or go with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7042 days ago

31 July 2005 (?) - hey, Me and my boyfriend split up, yet we maintained 'everything' you get in a relationship. This has been kinda painful. He hints that he likes me but I dont know if we would ever get back together. The person who I have been confiding in recen...

He flew me from Miami to Boston and we had an intense time. Now what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6990 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - I was on vacation in Miami (from London) and I met a guy who I instantly took a strong liking to. After only a couple of hours, we slept together (I couldn't resist) We got along really well and had a lot in common and seemingly a lot of chemistr...

Do I tell my co-worker the way I feel and hope she'll leave her boyfriend for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7042 days ago

29 July 2005 (M) - Six months ago my office hired a new administrative assistant. She is very beautiful and we hit it off great. As we got to know each other, I realized she was not just a pretty face, but that she had a great personality too. We talk on the phon...

Never took the chance with the girl when I could have. Can't help thinking "what if...?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6794 days ago

29 July 2005 (M) - I fell in love with a girl a few years ago, she knew I liked her a lot, and we were good friends. I felt she liked me a little too, but she was with a guy, and she was happy with him. One day she came in upset, crying her eyes out; her boyfriend ...

My girlfriend's getting serious with me, but I'm starting to be attracted to someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7047 days ago

28 July 2005 (M) - I have been going out with a girl for 1 year and a half! She is starting to take things seriously but I feel that I am madly in love with another girl who happens to be my mate's girlfriend (not serious though)! What can I do?...

Trying to decide whether to leave my ungrateful boyfriend for my male friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6430 days ago

27 July 2005 (?) - Hi, Been in a relationship for 3 years. I love my boyfriend but he treats me really ungratefully. The thing is, I have a male friend who is older than me, who I really like, and is more than willing to treat me the way I deserve. Every time I'm...

My lesbian partner took advantage of our open relationship for sex with a man...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7049 days ago

25 July 2005 (F) - My girlfriend and I have a great open relationship. It's open because we're experimenting with the whole lesbian thing. We share the shame interests and values. When we met we made a pact that we would wait to have sex with each other as well as ...

I dated someone else during the split. Now the other man is pushing to marry me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7050 days ago

24 July 2005 (F) - hello, I am a lady aged 29. I have been going out with my boyfriend for five years now. We once broke up for 4 months (it really affected both me and my boyfriend) and I left my country to visit my sister abroad. During my visit I was so despera...

My 40-something wife sometimes likes clubbing with her 21-yo gay friend. Do I have anything to worry about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7051 days ago

24 July 2005 (M) - I have a wonderful wife who is very loving. But I have some problems accepting that she likes to go clubbing now and again till 3 in the morning with a 21 year old gay male friend who has shown some interest in her. She is 40. Am I being over ...

Due to be married in 9 months, but I'm falling for a co-worker instead!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

23 July 2005 (M) - I got engaged 5 months ago to my long term girlfriend. We are due to get married in about 9 months. In the last two months I have met a girl at work, who has been there for a while, but now I have very strong feelings for her. The worst of it is...

My partner says he doesn't want a relationship with his ex, but he's there to care for her any time she calls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7053 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - It was in 2003 when I started seeing the man I love. He had a bad relationship and was going to break up. Let me just say we were friends before lovers. He told the girl it was over, she had a stroke that night and has brain damage. He moved me...

In the 4 months since leaving my husband, my lover found someone else. I'm devastated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7054 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - I had a four year affair with a single man who I was desperately in love with. Eventually, 4 months ago I finished it as I could no longer cope with the double life, I broke his heart but we stayed friends. I soon realised I could not live without ...

Why does he continue to call me when he's in a new relationship now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7054 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - About 5 years ago my boyfriend moved in with me and we have 2 children together (1&2). Aout a year and half ago we were not getting along and he said he was leaving so I locked the door behind him and didn't let him back in. He went to his sister's...

Do I have the right to give my boyfriend of 4 months an ultimatum about leaving his wife?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - I am a 35 year old divorced mother of two. I have been divorced 9 years now and I have dated off and on. I am now in a relationship, only four months in mind you, but a serious one at that. He calls several times a day, I see him at least 3 ...

My holiday fling turned into the Real Thing for me, so why haven't I heard from him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I just learnt about this site from a friend,. I have a problem, I just had a vacation, a well deserved one. I met someone through work, we talked for hours we conneceted. For the first time I met someone who really listened to me and made feel ...

I'd love to go out with the new guy, but will I risk contracting herpes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7052 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - Hey there. I've been with my boyfriend, Paul* for 18 months now and he's a great guy but I've fallen for someone else. Craig* is older than me, 27 (I'm 18) but he's amazing and I want to be with him. I've decided to finish with Paul* but I'm worr...

My girl's "friend" is making romantic gestures to her, and I just hate it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6999 days ago

20 July 2005 (M) - Hi My girlfriend of 6 months has a lot of male friends. She went through a pretty bad break up with her husband and has surrounded herself with a lot of male friends who have supported her and helped her out. I know all of them would love to b...

How do I tell my co-worker about the special way I feel for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7056 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - I currently work in an office and am very good friends with one of the assistant managers. I feel I can tell him anything, speak to him anytime, and take comfort and security from his presence. I have had deep feelings for him in the back of my mind ...

Four years with my partner and one night with a stranger. Who's the baby's father?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7056 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - After breaking up with a possessive and extrememly jealous partner I found myself out on the town for the first time in 4 years. Drinking way too much and not knowing where I was at iI had a one night stand with, well a stranger. Nine weeks an...

I thought we were more than friends, but he confessed he wants to date a girl in my class...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7056 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - I fell in love a guy who have been my friend for 5 years. He is handsome, smart and kind to me. We are close and we are talking and laughing every day. I used to think we are more than close friends but one day he told me that he loves my friend w...

Is there more than "friendship" going on with her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7057 days ago

18 July 2005 (F) - My friend has a problem with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend have a close friend and that girl fell in love with him. s My friend doesn't trust her boyfriend because she thinks the relationship between them is more than friends. Her boyfriend says that...

Unsure of how the man I'm dating really feels about me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7057 days ago

18 July 2005 (F) - Well I am in a bit of hot water. I think I have feelings for someone but I am unsure how he really feels. He does have a partner but sometimes I feel as if he deserves better and he always has respect for me, but some of the actions he addresses me ...

Our months together suddenly vanished when he received an email from his ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7059 days ago

15 July 2005 (F) - hi, I'm 28 years old. I am a stable, funny, talented, adventurous, artistic woman. For the past 7 months I have been seeing a wonderful, loveable, musical, handsome 20 year old. Young yes, but damn handsome and truly loving. He moved out here t...

I caught my boyfriend in an elaborate lie about a phone call he received. Can I still trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7061 days ago

14 July 2005 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months. He is real sensitive and wants me to move in. He gave me the key and said come and go as I please. I really love him. I know were he is at all times. We are together more than 1/2 the day. I...

Our relationship is on hold while my boyfriend and his ex get counselling!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7060 days ago

14 July 2005 (F) - I have been dating the same guy for 10 months. We enjoy each other very much but have agreed that it is non-commital relationship. His ex-fiancee left him over a 1 1/2 years ago. She showed up unanounced on Father's Day and announced that she wants ...

Flirted with him for 11 years, but now he's moving i, just down the road from me and my husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7051 days ago

14 July 2005 (F) - Hi I'm married with 4 kids and love my family to bits, but I'm in love with a married man. I have had feelings for him now for 11 years. As I have gotten older and he has gotten more used to me say, in the last 7 years, he has been flirting...

Choose my friend, or choose my friend's boyfriend? What do I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

14 July 2005 (F) - I have a problem.I love my friend's boyfriend and I think he love me too but my friend don't know about my relation.Both of them are very good to me.I am confused that I should choose my friend or him.What should I do?... ...

He cheated at least a dozen times, but now my ex wants me back. Do I leave my current boyfriend for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7062 days ago

13 July 2005 (F) - I was in a 7 year relationship marred by continuous affairs by my man. I know of at least 12. I lived with him on three occasions but always moved out becuase I found he was cheating. He always came back to me, always said he loved me. I paid...

My old lover is stable and says he'll take me back, but my new lover is younger and exciting...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7061 days ago

13 July 2005 (F) - I recently broke off an 8 month relationship with my Ex boyfriend and met someone new. While I have only been dating for a month now, I really feel like I have found real love. The problem is that this new love lives a few states away and works 6 ...

It's a cliche, I know... but I've fallen for a young, blonde attractive member of my staff...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7055 days ago

13 July 2005 (M) - This sounds like a cliche but I feel that I need help to get it out of my system. I have fallen for a member of my staff. She is 10 years younger blond, slim attractive and available. I have been married and faithful (ish) for 21 years so there's ...

My ex seems way too close to her gay friend. Is she using him to get back at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7058 days ago

12 July 2005 (?) - Hi all, I'm in desperate need of help here as its really affecting my everyday life! To keep things short, my girlfriend and I broke up a month and a half ago. The reason for the break up was because we were arguing too much(it was basicall...

She won't go out with my "in case she hurts me". What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

12 July 2005 (M) - I'm in love with this girl, but she's seeing an older man. Since she's been seeing him stuff has happened between me and her, but she said she loves me more than she does him, but she cant have a relationship with me, in case she hurts me. What do I ...

We like each other, but he's my friend's boyfriend...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

12 July 2005 (F) - I'm a freshy in the university. I've met many new friends. One day I met my friend's boyfriend, I think he quite likes me and I feel that too. We exchaged our phone number and went out together. But the trouble is he's my friend's boyfriend. Please...

Met an online lover, but he was sprung by his wife. Now he won't talk to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7060 days ago

11 July 2005 (F) - My husband doesn't have sex with me. About three months ago I took a lover, who is also married. We met online and his wife recently found out about the affair and has requested a divorce. I am very distraught because I am very emotionally attached ...

Now that Miss X wants me back, I'm engaged to Miss Y. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7062 days ago

11 July 2005 (M) - It's a mad situation... I was with a fantastic young lady called Miss X (now 35) for three years, we got on brilliantly, I (now aged 43) bought a house so we could be together, it was just great. There was a problem though, I didn't get on with her...

My friend and I are pursuing the same woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7064 days ago

11 July 2005 (M) - What should I do ? If my friend and I like the same woman. My friend and I liked the same woman . My friend is the best friend but we liked the same woman . We studied in same faculty but the woman studied different faculty . When I know he l...

My boyfriend and I broke up 3 years ago, but he spends his time between me and his other girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7064 days ago

10 July 2005 (?) - POPS Split with partner of 18 yrs 3 yrs ago due to his drinking & there was another woman involved. He's now with someone else, living with her since August 04. He has been back to me 3 times each for a week. He says he's leaving, it's not workin o...

A month before he proposed, my boyfriend cheated and I can't even think straight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7064 days ago

10 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of two years proposed to me last November. AFter the Engagement Announcement was posted in the paper I received a call from a woman who confessed that last Oct. or Nov. she had an affair on her husband and it was with my fiance'. My ...

My close friend spends all her time with her boyfriend now and I miss her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7064 days ago

10 July 2005 (F) - I am an 18-year-old girl.I have a closed friend who I love very much.She has just had her first boyfriend in her life.She loves and cares him very much. They are sticking themselves together all the time and this makes me feel lonely. Sometimes...

I came to help with her kids and fell in love with her, but she's married. Should I pretend it didn't happen, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7067 days ago

9 July 2005 (F) - Hello. What I am really looking for is advice. I have a really BIG problem. I am gay. But that is not the problem. Me and my partner have just separated while my best friend's boyfriend was in jail. Her and I started a relationship, and it was more ...

I saved my marriage, but now I'm... miserable.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7067 days ago

8 July 2005 (F) - Aunt Agony, I wrote a couple of years back regarding a lost love that returned to me after many years. I'm married with kids, and you advised to tend to my marriage. My husband discovered the relationship which was very emotional, however not phys...

Is there a chance that the other guy is really interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7067 days ago

8 July 2005 (F) - Ok...here goes. I have a boyfriend of two years, our relationship is pretty dead! I met his friend three months into the relationship and It was love at first sight. I don't belive in that..but he broke all the rules! Not a day goes by that I don't ...

My new boyfriend feels threatened by the friendship I have with an old, old flame. Am I in the wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7061 days ago

8 July 2005 (?) - An old friend who lives far away, called me last night when I wasn't in. He and I have been friends for many years. He and I were engaged and in love about 20 years ago but he wasn't ready to commit and we split-up. From time to time, he calls me. ...

I think things went wrong right after I got with my friend's ex... Help. How do I fix things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7067 days ago

8 July 2005 (F) - I recently spilt with my boyfriend of 2 years (my choice) and got with someone else. We got on really well but then he dumped me due to problems with his ex. Anyway it all got sorted out and we said we would give it another go in the future. Whilst...

I'm getting the cold shoulder from my fiance ever since we had that threesome...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - Hi. I had a threesome with my fiance and his friend. He stayed with me and now he's giving me the cold shoulder big time. I love him to death and I don't want our relationship to end but I have no clue how to say I am sorry or how to make it up to ...

My girl has been with someone else for 4 years, even though she says she loves me best!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7067 days ago

7 July 2005 (M) - I am in love with a girl, who is in a relationship with another guy. Our relationship started in a strange way a year back. We were very good friends and then we realized that we have other feelings towards each other... After that, we have ha...

I was sex-texting a guy on the side and I got caught, but I've learned my lesson...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7068 days ago

7 July 2005 (F) - Hi. i am in a bit of a predicament. i have been with my fiance for almost 18months now and for the past few months, i have been sending "text sex" sms messages with someone else. We never actually physically touched, or saw each other during the...