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writes: What should I do ? If my friend and I like the same woman. My friend and I liked the same woman . My friend is the best friend but we liked the same woman . We studied in same faculty but the woman studied different faculty . When I know he liked woman that I like . I 'm very angry , jealous . I didn't want to be a friend with him . We had a phone number of her .We call her every day . But I didn't know about what's woman that my friend liked . And he knew what's woman that I liked . I should be a friend with him or not . I should talk with woman that I liked about this problem or not . I should fight with him to grab the woman or not . I should talk with him about this problem or not . I don't know what should I do . Helpppp!!!! Me PLEASE Could you help me what should I do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2005): Well, there is something to be said about loyalty and friendships. Lovers come and go but friendships are usually long lasting and forever. My opinion: NO woman
is worth losing a good friendship. If you disagree with this, then all I have to say "May the best man win!"
If he wins her attentions...keep your feelings to yourself. Cut the anger and jealousy stuff..you are after all...a mature, grown man. Cut your losses and look for someone else...move on. But for goodness sake...do not lose a good friendship over this! Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2005): Hi, I have had the same problem, only difference was she started phonin, textin, and sleepin with me before they decided that they were 'right for each other' on one night where the three of us were - due to the same hobbies. Anyway, now I have lost her and he was won - the way i felt is that when we were happy together - m8s dont do that to each other - and now - within 14 days of knowing each other - i've been told by her that she's expecting his baby, that they are engaged and that they are moving away together.Yesterday (Sunday) was the hardest day ever for me - when they were walking around hand in hand and rubbing it in my face. I feel he is a real scumbag though i've known him 4 life and she aint much better - but I LOVE this girl 4 being her - and I know 4 a fact that he's only with her 4 1 thing!!!I suppose my advice to you would be - let nature take its course - you cant make anyone love you - and if she does then it's great - but if she dont then there are plenty more fish...Only trouble is I can't seem to find any!!
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reader, Courts +, writes (11 July 2005):
dear friendi tell many of my friends, women or men come and go but friends are forever. if he is a real friend, tell him how you feel. if he understands how you feel about the lady then he would then back off. then pursue her. but if he doesnt want to then weigh up your options. is this friend really valuable to you to lose over a woman. if so cut all ties.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (11 July 2005):
Both of you should stop talking to this woman if you want to remain friends.
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