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writes: My friend has a problem with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend have a close friend and that girl fell in love with him. sMy friend doesn't trust her boyfriend because she thinks the relationship between them is more than friends. Her boyfriend says that there're nothing between them and she's just friend but in his actions he always care about her, call her(by phone), sms to her, and remember things about her that make my friend think it's look like more than friend.What should I suggest to her? Help me please!I don't know what to tell her. I don't want to see her cry. Thanks!
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reader, becky05 +, writes (19 July 2005):
If I was your friend I would not be happy about this at all and demand that the calls and texts to his ex stop.
Unfortunately, you cant tell your friend what to do, be there for her when she needs you.
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reader, communicatrix +, writes (19 July 2005):
 It's a tough spot you're in, watching your friend go through this.
Unfortunately, this is her thing to go through right now, and there's really not anything you can do to help her other than to be a friend: listen to her as she sorts this out aloud, be supportive as best you can, and be there to pick up the pieces if things do fall apart.
If the circumstances change—if you wind up with hard information that the boyfriend is cheating on your friend with this girl AND your friend asks you point blank—then you can rightfully share this information with her. But in the absence of hard facts AND your friend's point-blank questioning, unless your friend intimates that she's on the verge of doing something dangerous, all you can do is be kind and keep your unsolicited counsel to yourself, no matter how sound it may be.
Good luck!
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