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writes: Aunt Agony,I wrote a couple of years back regarding a lost love that returned to me after many years. I'm married with kids, and you advised to tend to my marriage. My husband discovered the relationship which was very emotional, however not physical. At that point I ended it to save my marriage. Now, two years later the marriage has been saved, but I'm miserable. I can't do anything without thinking about him. I try to keep busy and resemble a happy life, but I don't know how much longer I can keep up appearances. Therapy and antidepressants helped, but I stopped both at the insistance of my husband who was hurt that I should need such help. What do I do now?Always Blue Reply to this Question
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reader, becky05 +, writes (9 July 2005):
Talk to your husband sbout how low you feel,tell him youre going back on the therapy and antidepressants because you felt they helped you, dont let him talk you out of it. If he wants to save your marriage, he'll help you in any way he can.
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reader, pops +, writes (9 July 2005):
Talk to a medical doctor about your depression. And, talk to a marriage counselor about your inability to show your husband the same kind of attention you give the old boyfriend in your dreams. He may also need a tune up in the caring department, so make sure he understands that he may be joining you with the marriage counselor. The time and money spent will be worth it for both of you. Best of Luck. Pops
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