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writes: Hi, Been in a relationship for 3 years. I love my boyfriend but he treats me really ungratefully. The thing is, I have a male friend who is older than me, who I really like, and is more than willing to treat me the way I deserve. Every time I'm ready to leave my boyfriend, he sorts his head out and makes it up to me!! I'm at the end of my tether, finding it hard to make a decision. Help if you can. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2007): i was in the same kind of situation. I lived with a bloke who did not care about me, but had become close to another man who said he would offer me what i wanted & needed.
The only problem is that 9/10 times the same problems will arise after time "the grass is greener...".
Are your feelings to leave him triggered by this other man, or were they there before he came along?
If they were there before, then you should leave & have fun with the other guy, if your feelings weren't there but you still want to leave him, then do, but don't go running to the other man.
Have time to find yourself again
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reader, becky05 +, writes (28 July 2005):
If you choose to begin a relationship with this other man then you must end things with your boyfriend first.
Tell him how you feel about his behaviour and why.Maybe he isnt as ungrateful as you think.
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reader, ladyyunax2 +, writes (27 July 2005):
Dear Reader,No offence but your boyfriend sounds like he takes a long time looking for a girl, if he treats you ungreatfully leave him but try and sit him down and talk to him ask him whats making him get upset and unfair ask him what the matter is and hes surely to tell you once you made up stick to him but if anything goes bad then take the male friend.ope I have helped.From ladyyunax2
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