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Archived questions from: February, 2016 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I'm feeling guilt and shame about meeting up with my ex when my now fiance and I were first dating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

29 February 2016 (F) - Hi, Hope you can help with a dilemma. I met a great guy 18 months ago and now we are engaged. Our first two weeks were strange though. He was convinced it was the real deal me less so. Two weeks later we split before getting back togeth...

LDR girlfriend is back in touch with her ex- how do I avoid letting jealousy ruin things?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

29 February 2016 (M) - Hi All Ive been with my partner a while now, it is LDR but we have done the usual normal couple stuff, gone on hols etc and talk every night, and see each other every week (and spend all our hols together). We are planning to move in together in 5...

Is my ex manipulating me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - Dear cupid, is my ex boyfriend trying to manipulate me? My 3 year relationship ended several months ago. He told me he was no longer happy and that he met another woman and was very sorry for hurting me. Only about 3 weeks after our break up, he...

My ex has taken a shine to one of my closest friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - My ex-boyfriend (of 2 years) and i broke up and its been rocky ever since (and by rocky i mean absolutely awful, one second we'll be joking around and then next were screaming at each other), he's now trying to get with one of my closest friends of ...

We broke up in November but still coming to terms with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - Hello everyone! So my boyfriend of 6 years ended our relationship back in november, just as we were about to move in together. We left it a few weeks then started meeting up again. But the past week he just ignored me, so I finished it. I don't d...

Finding a nice guy makes me want to run. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I dumped my emotionally and verbally abusive BF about 4 months ago. I have absolutely no feelings towards him and am thrilled to get him out of my life. When I date, I tend to be a "woman who loves too much". Each relationship I have had ends in...

The ex factor. Can anyone think of anything that might help or make it better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I have a problem and I don't know what to do about it. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now. A year before we got together he was dumped by his high school sweetheart who he was with for five years. At first he talked quite a lot about...

Am I doing the right thing? I want to know if my ex may consider a serious relationship with me in the future. Advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles I dont want to mess this up again as I never had any one to advise me on relationships when I was growing up so I made lots of mistakes. Cutting a long story short, I met up with my ex mid last year. Had a few dates and b...

Should I be this unsettled about the fact he still has a key to the family home? He's separated from his wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3181 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - My new boyfriend of three months is separated after a 20 year marriage ended six months ago. They outgrew each other and there is no love lost for either of them. A divorce and house sale are going through amicably. He rents a flat near his wi...

What did my ex girlfriend mean by this statement?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

26 February 2016 (M) - For starters, I am aware that I need to move on and stop obsessing over my ex, but there are some things that still confound me to this day. I wonder if she ever really loved me or if she loved how I made her feel instead. Understand what I'm ...

Why am I having recurrent dreams of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

26 February 2016 (F) - I can't stop having dreams about my ex. My ex and I dated for 4 months almost a year ago. And we didnt have the best relationship, because we were very different. He didn't like drinking or going out to dance, and I wanted to at times. Also, we ...

How can I make my girlfriend secure? She's heard my ex is now free and is acting strange

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

23 February 2016 (M) - My life is like a soap opera and I don't know what to do about. A girlfriend breaks up with me. I try to reconcile, but she's with someone else so I move on. I am still in a little pain or rebounding, but I began a new relationship with another ...

I'm worried my girlfriend might have cheated on me but I'm afraid to know

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

23 February 2016 (M) - I don't know if my girlfriend cheated on me, and I'm scared to find out. About a month or so ago, my girlfriend of about 6 months went on vacation to her home town with her family, which happens to be where her ex lives. He's an old friend of he...

Is there a way I can help my jealous ex husband move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

23 February 2016 (F) - My ex husband and I seperated over 5 years ago. We have two children in Junior High School. He tries to stay in their lives by coming by our house every morning to drive the children to school. I met a man in another State about a year ago and thro...

Any clue as to what to do? There are three guys who like me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - So I have an issue with three guys liking me and I don't know exactly what to do. One guy is my ex whom I met in elementary school and we went out a little and then didn't really talk in middle school and then we started hanging out again in high ...

I need to stop stalking my ex-boyfriend's ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for three years and the whole time his ex girlfriend made things really difficult for me. When I started dating him he talked about a female friend a lot, so much it made me feel uncomfortable. But after some time ...

An ex, a breakup. Why is he acting this way, now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I fell out with a close friend I became romantically involved with briefly a few years ago. It was a complicated situation but resulted in is not talking for 2 years Then he started making the odd text messages occasionally and even after how he t...

I feel guilty but I want to move on from my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

19 February 2016 (?) - Me and my ex broke up after two years due to me not being able to trust him from the 1 year point, he wouldn't let me have him on facebook due to us having such an on and off relationship, he started hiding the fact that he was with me and I saw him ...

What are the stages between the state of being lovers to the state of being friends?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

19 February 2016 (F) - What are the stages of going from lovers to friends? My ex lover wants to be friends and I don't know how to go about it. Can it work? I'm still attracted to him and I know he likes me....

How do I overcome having serious trust issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - Ive just started a new relationship, 5mths. I have serious trust issue, mainly from ex relationships. How can I over come this ? I dont want to loose him we are really good together....

Why does my boyfriend have reminders of his ex wife all over his house? Should I end things with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3157 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - hi there, i maybe sound so silly, but i cant help it. thats the reason im here, cos i wanna feel better. i have a boyfriend.we are now almost 9 months in relationship. we are not living together, cos our city are more than 2 hours drive from each ...

Is this what I have on offer? That, if he doesn't find someone else, he'll "settle" for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - I really need help getting over an ex. I don't know what's wrong with me or why I can't let him go. We were great in the beginning, I really thought I had found the one I was meant to be with for life. Then my issues of insecurity came up and he b...

Have I already given my ex too many chances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

17 February 2016 (M) - I have been in and out of a relationship with a girl for about 7 years now. We met back in high school. Back in Dec 2014 I proposed to her but she said no. Shortly after I found out that she was having sex with one of her co-workers. she ...

Am I crazy to want sex with my ex- lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

16 February 2016 (F) - Sex with ex- what is wrong with me! We both know this 'relationship' will not progress beyond sexual stuff. So why do I crave sex with him? Will it fizzle out on its own? Will it hinder my meeting someone new that I can build a future with? Saw him ...

My ex says I deserve better but I want him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

16 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend dumped me because I love him a lot and he says I deserve better than him.. actually I do but I love him more than anything and I'm dying without him.. how can I get him back?...

Was I always the side chick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

16 February 2016 (F) - So me and this guy were dating for around 7 months we had gotten back together after we stopped talking for 6 years. He Brooke up with me about a week and a half ago and he's already got a new girlfriend. When he broke up with me I had accused ...

Am I jealous? is he going to spread rumours that aren't true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

16 February 2016 (F) - I'm really annoyed right now. Today me and my mate were walking down the street and we bumped into my ex. He ran over to my best mate and gave her a hug for about 2 minutes, I was just standing there pretending not to look. After the hug he looked ...

After 7 years of only seeing his son once, my ex now wants in his life. What shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - Hi everyone my son is 7 years old my ex has never seen him apart from once when he was 2 weeks old I had to involve the police as he kept threatening me and even threatened to make me have a miscarriage I was willing for him to see his son but he ...

I still have feelings for my ex 4 years later

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, im finding it hard to forget my first love. We broke up in 2012 yet i still have feelings for him. i tried so many stuffs to forget him like deleting his pictures, blocking him, going out with my friends etc but to no avail. I know he ...

Should I tell my ex (now friend) how his past behavior affected me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - Dear Aunties and Uncles I reacquainted with an ex boyfriend last year and its been great reestablishing our friendship again. I dont ever want to lose it again. We had been intimate but I am going to make it clear the next time i see him that I d...

Is it acceptable to say love you to an ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

14 February 2016 (F) - hi. last year i went through a very messy divorce. my ex husband shattered my heart and i became determined not to fall in love again. it would be safer that way. however 6 months ago i meet an extraordinary man, kind and sweet. we began to date. i ...

I have a woman now who wants to be with me but my heart is still hurting over my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

13 February 2016 (M) - Why, does this happen, our time together I thought was, amazing, never argued, then, she was gone, no good byes, am OK, that it's over, but why not, be decent, about it, I didn't do nothing wrong, yes I came on strong, but only got to see her, once ...

Break up with boyfriend has left me feeling hurt and unable to trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

13 February 2016 (F) - I broke up with my emotionally and verbally abusive boyfriend a couple months ago. It was the most stressful and unhappy relationship I've ever had. There were a few good times, mainly at the beginning, but I quickly found out he was manipulative...

She doesn't seem into me at all, constantly talks to her ex'es, no intimacy with me, yet talks of "our" future. What's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

13 February 2016 (M) - Hello, I wondered whether somebody could help me with what may seem to be a small problem, but to me is massive. I recently started going out with a girl that I have known for around 20 years. We had a couple of brief sexual encounters a few ...

10 euros? Is that really my worth? His ex wife walked away with all the luxuries and all I get is a gift for 10 euros?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

13 February 2016 (F) - Hi guys, i just wonder how everybody here think about this situation. I have a bf. we are 8 months now in our relationship. We are not living together. Our distance is about two hours drive. But we use to see each other almost every week, we call ...

I know he's been lying about contact with his ex but should I let it go as he suggests?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

13 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend broke my trust last year in July. We had been together for two years and during the beginning of our relationship his ex would always call him until a point she became a distraction to us. He said he blocked her and stopped being in ...

How am I supposed to forgive and get over what my ex did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

12 February 2016 (F) - How am I supposed to forgive and get over what my ex did? I was with a man for 3 years, but knew him for about 2 years before dating. We were best friends before dating. So I had around 5 years invested into him. We really were very close...

Do I love him enough to look past the fact he already has 3 children by 2 different mothers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

11 February 2016 (F) - I have been in a new very loving and very strong connection type relationship for about 5months now. We both feel like we have never felt with anyone before. Here is the problem. He had a previous fiancé 2 years ago but also has 2 children with ...

Why is he so attentive to his ex and not to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

10 February 2016 (F) - My BF and I have been in a LDR for almost three years. We're moving together this year. I have always been very nice to all of his family members (he has a huge family compared to mine). I will get presents for every little neice and nephew and cous...

Bf is taking me to the same restaurant he took his ex for valentine's day

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - I found out my boyfriend is taking me to the same place he took his ex for vday 5 years ago. how do i know this his sister accidentally mentioned it to me, said oh i didn't know he is taking you to the same place he went wit his ex. Would you all ...

Are the scenes of sexual romance real?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

9 February 2016 (F) - Are guys in relationships always tryna fuck? Are the scenes of sexless romance real? I ask this cause I'm separated from my ex but we still live together. We are focused on our separate goals and have agreed we don't want to give romantically to the ...

I don't understand why I am struggling with this breakup.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

8 February 2016 (M) - I posted something a while back about a woman who was blowing hot and cold on me for a while, and the relationship is definitely over now. We were seeing each other for about eight years. It looks like it's done for now because she basically told me ...

I worry he may still be wanting his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

8 February 2016 (F) - Dear cupid, i feel hurt and confused sometimes, it's the first i fall inlove with a guy i like we were friends untill he asked me to be he's girlfriend ,he is everything i ever wanted ,we agreed on honesty so he wanted to tell me what happend with ...

I just keep crying and its hard to stop.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

6 February 2016 (F) - Okay so i broke up with a boy about a year ago because it was toxic and not good for either of us, but we were together a year and a half and are in the same social group, we've had a rollercoaster since then. he was messaging me saying we should ...

My girlfriend hinted that her ex was large!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

5 February 2016 (M) - Okay, my gf claims she was a virgin. We are both just turned 18. I have had doubts stemming from us sleeping together the second time we were in a house together after being official for a couple of weeks, her mentioning her ex having a panic attack ...

I broke up with him a year ago. Is it okay to wish him a happy birthday this year?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

5 February 2016 (F) - I dated someone for three months a year ago. We had a wonderful relationship but realized we wanted different things in life. We ended up having a serious talk on his birthday and I ended up breaking up with him. It was on decent terms but he was ...

His ex keeps asking for money!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

4 February 2016 (F) - What do i do if an old girlfriend insists on texting my bf every week to lend money?...

Ex boyfriend & current boyfriend drama!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3204 days ago

3 February 2016 (F) - So i dated this guy for about two years, i broke up with him, hes been trying to 'get back at me' but also 'get me back' for the past six months, I recently started dating this new guy who gets very uncomfortable with my ex texting me as he will ...

Is my husband taking advantage of me because I contact my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

3 February 2016 (F) - I called my long time ex yesterday and my husband took it to the extreme. It was an honest text. A prophet at church shared some light about my life. I immediately told my husband a certain ex of mine told me the exact same thing. Out of curiosity ...

Is my premise possible? Is it decent folks, who try to live right, who are the people who get screwed over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

2 February 2016 (F) - Maybe it's because I am feeling really low these days- but increasingly feel that it's the decent folks and the ones who try to live right that get screwed over. The lying, cheating, selfish ones live peacefully. How come?...