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female
age
22-25,
*erry-boo
writes:I'm really annoyed right now. Today me and my mate were walking down the street and we bumped into my ex. He ran over to my best mate and gave her a hug for about 2 minutes, I was just standing there pretending not to look. After the hug he looked at her like he wanted to kiss her. Then a few hours later my mate sent him a message as a joke saying he looked like the man of the human centipede. He was fine with it until he remembered she was with me. He said for her to tell me that I look like a dog and I'm ugly. So I said to him why did u go out with me if u think I'm ugly? Then he started sayin to my mate that I'm a desperate slag and he wished I never existed. I've only been out with 3 people and he's been out with 10. I don't exactly want a boyfriend. I want to get good grades. He said "who would wanna go out with her? She sends me pics if u ask her she will deny it but she knows what I'm talking about". I am not the type of girl to send pics I respect myself and know it is wrong.I never did it. He also think's I'm wrong cause I used to hold his hand and not do anything with him. He always spreads lies about me but everyone believes him because he is popular. I'm scared he's going to spread rumours about me. I was really hurt by what he said because I still have feelings for him and I can't get over him. What should I do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 February 2016):
 I think he is being nasty to you probably because he is no longer with you. A lot of teenage boys deal with there feelings like this.
You need to ignore him. Don't allow any contact from him. If he says things about you to your friends ignore him, tell your friends you don't want to hear anything about him.
If he continues to say things that are untrue then talk to your parents about this, as it is a form off bullying. If it starts to effect you then talk to an adult.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (16 February 2016):
 Ignore him. Don't "talk" to him through your mates. If he spread rumors he has NO pictures to back them up, right? (because you never sent him any).
If anyone brings him up or anything he says - LAUGH it off with the attitude that he is being ridiculous or just say outright he is full if shit. IF he continues, tell your parents or a teacher. Nip it in the bud.
Seems like he likes to hurt your feelings, so don't let him. What a sad little guy he is... pathetic. And yes, the hugging of your friend was him trying to hurt your feelings.
Sooner or later people will realize that he is full of crap.
You can't control what he says, does or feel - so, IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE. He isn't worth wasting time or energy on.
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