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Was I always the side chick?

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Question - (16 February 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2016)
A female Canada age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So me and this guy were dating for around 7 months we had gotten back together after we stopped talking for 6 years.

He Brooke up with me about a week and a half ago and he's already got a new girlfriend. When he broke up with me I had accused him of cheating (I had every right to since there were hickeys not from me and more on) he then told me that throughout the passed 2 days he fell out of love. All attraction gone. I went to his town to get my clothes but he hugged me and kissed me when he saw me and being me head over heels we ended up getting pretty intimate while I was there he kept bringing up love but on valentines day he told me after that he was taken. He's been staying at my place for a week cuddling me and having his way when suddenly he invites his new girlfriend over. She arrives and they begin making out on my bed in front of me, using baby talk and all that "babbbyyy I love you though" cuddling and kissing all while staring at me.I sat and smiled because I'm not a bitch. He changed his profile on Facebook to them kissing pics and in a relationship and especially asked me to look instantly. She leaves here and starts cuddling again which I don't agree with if your taken hands off seriously. Here's the thing he never introduced me to his friends, he never annouced our relationship, he refused to take pictures with me, he was always leaving me alone at his place for hours on end, and didn't show any affection unless he wanted sex. I've already come to the conclusion ive always been the *side chick* but what do you guys think? (Probably hey?)before all this happens he was sure to tell me he loved me lots though and I did get kisses and stuff and the baby talk but that's about it.

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A female reader, Alba5 United Kingdom +, writes (9 March 2016):

Wow what a charmer, in these situations I'd say imagine you have a daughter you love very much and the situation you are in is happening to her, what would you tell her to do? Now listen to that advice and never speak to this narcissistic fool again. Don't waste any more time with this loser!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (16 February 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntNo sweetie he did not love you. He may have told you he did to get in to your knickers but that was all. It is clear he has used you, not only that but you where his dirty little secret. He clearly has no respect for you taking another girl to your place. He is cruel immature and loves the fact that you like him. He is playing off the attention he gets from you, and by being hurtful to you he is making himself feel good.

You don't need this piece of work in your life. You don't deserve to be treated like this. He is not a nice person, block him on social media. End the friendship, lose all contact. You deserve to be treated better.

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