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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Are guys in relationships always tryna fuck? Are the scenes of sexless romance real? I ask this cause I'm separated from my ex but we still live together. We are focused on our separate goals and have agreed we don't want to give romantically to the other, for now at least while we still have our respective goals. We exchange benefits from time to time but sex has never felt like air necessary to breath. For me its like a hot flickering flame, it could spread and grow bigger or die in an instant. Once before my ex has stated he shows how much he loves me with sex, like that's how he conveys his love. When I want it, I'm not the type to ask, so its fair to understand why he comes to me and constantly asks; but everyday? He acts like he has a wound and dying of pain when he has an erection. Will literally moan and pout if I turn him down. Whenever we lay in bed, I like being held, he likes feeling on me the whole time. Is he hyper sexual or am I the one lacking?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 February 2016):
 Sounds to me like he just has a higher sex drive than you do, everyone is different. But no it doesn't hurt him if he cannot get in to your pants every day. Just be sure that this is the situation that you want to be in, and that you don't end up feeling like you are being used for sex.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (9 February 2016):
 I asked guys if they hurt when they are having erections. General answer is that they don't, they enjoy that sensation. When guys badger you for sex, it's not that they need it every single time. Boys get horny starting at around 15. By the time they are in their 20's they have developed control over it. Those who insist on every single day may have some insecurity in the relationship. They want to feel desired or validated. Or they depend on a release for stress relieving, or be able to fall asleep. I can understand sperm build up, which women don't have that problem. But every day? No, you don't need sex every day in order not to explode.
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